Have you ever wondered how a relationship can sometimes go south yet not fully understand why? Too often, when we are hurt by someone, the necessary conversation never happens. It may seem easier to simply stay quiet rather than seek out that person to "talk it out".
The art of grace is not pretending we are never hurt. It is refusing to make assumptions about our evidence, resenting our voice, and using social media as our courtroom. It is having the courage to ask before accusing, to listen before judging, and to remember that we, too, have undoubtedly hurt people without ever realizing it. Perhaps one of the greatest gifts we can give one another is the grace we hope others will extend to us.
We've all been hurt by words, actions, inactions, etc. Sometimes we are aware of how we have hurt someone else, and then there are the times when we truly do not know what happened. We perceive things within our own realm. Therefore, it isn't fair to assume another person understands how they have hurt you if you don't have an honest conversation.
As my mantra has been to LIV2DAY, this means being able to let go of those people who choose to exit from your life. Even if you have no idea what has happened, show them the grace to allow them to leave. None of us can claim to be perfect. We all make mistakes. The art of grace means releasing people without holding a grudge.
Continue to pray and care for those who leave. None of us knows the layers within others. People are complex, fragile, and sometimes beyond our capability to help. That is alright. Love them where they are and move on when it is time.
Blessings to you this day as you practice the art of grace!
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