The approach to anything is a natural first step toward examining what is present & what it has to do with us, the observer. We have surrounded ourselves with the effect of predictability, i.e. living comfort zones surrounded by familiar thoughts, feelings & actions. This is important as it can become fatiguing to have to explore everything constantly, offering us no rest or time to enjoy life. But something else
WE BECOME TOO COMFORTABLE
We fight to keep things under a type of control or outcome that favors us more than circumstances being submitted. Change is not welcomed as a result or little change that is biased, selfish & vanity driven. You begin to live conditionally, a type of programmed repetitious, state of being, detached from spontaneous living
YOU DUMB DOWN
As a result, instead of gains through growth & calculated risk-taking, we choose to devolve which is not staying the same or even living the status quo but a slowly downward trend of existence, making us less than ordinary. This was never intended in our creation but added after our fall from grace & God's will for us
RESISTANCE
You have a defective, automatic response system that when growth or opportunity is visiting, we tend to first reject, argue or deny, & in a moment of weakness & carelessness, we lose what was being given & offered. Resistance is a signal that growth is visiting. Go toward the moment of truth & receive your gains
DON'T ARGUE
There is a Universal Law that states: You keep what you argue for thus be mindful at the disagreement stages in your life. There is a way, well defined as followed: Yes, no, & I don't know which when used, eliminates the need to argue while we sort out what is or is not relevant or visiting with us. Works very well too
ASKING QUESTIONS
This is another argument killer is when you ask questions instead of battling & maneuvering in a conversation. Asking about anything sprays anti-fog spray meaning the air is cleared so we can see what is or is not, beneficial to us
NO EXCUSES
If there ever was an intruder that means you harm, disguised as a friend, it is excuse-making where you love to hear yourself talk but without any direction except a take-a-way, denial or clever putting off of an innocent dynamic visiting. When you excel at excuses, it is like locking yourself up & throwing away the key
DIFFICULT MADE EASY
Ever wonder where being difficult gets its energy? It is from YOU being willful & controlling. If you become clever & shrewd enough to wield the dark art of summoning your will to be the last word, then you will not have a friend anywhere
REACHABLE & TEACHABLE
These are not two clever sounding words, but instead, a way of life to be lived that is designed to allow all good things to visit with you like God's portion for you, your heart's desires, or someone wanting to bless you because they can. Allow this
ANYTHING NEW
Comes with a learning curve designed so that you can hop on, explore & examine, & eventually experiment using trial & error to test the newness wanting to join you. The unknown will be made known E.Z.P.Z if you let it take place naturally.
COMPLAINING & WHINING
If you find yourself complaining & whining, it is like a wolf that howls to the moon. A human has better ways than sounding off for the sake of hearing themselves imitate doing something, when they are doing nothing...incorrectly.
WORTHY NOTE: The rocking chair is a great example of imitating you doing something when you are doing nothing, as the feeling of movement is false
STUBBORNESS
Yes, we can become difficult at times because of imperfections not yet explored or conquered, but refusing to correct a behavior will compound itself into being stubborn, uncooperative & eventually cause all of God's promises for you to not get past the wall put up by you & that can be removed by you too. Get to it!
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