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ActiveRain July 2026 Challenge…Proud to Be an American

 

For as far back as I can remember, people often asked me, “What are you?”  I’d like to think they weren’t being rude but rather curious. Without hesitation, my answer was always “American!”

It was usually followed by “I know, but what are you?”  I understood what they were asking, but depending upon my mood, I sometimes looked at them as if they were crazy or couldn’t hear, and repeated “American!!” I wasn't avoiding the answer, but in my mind, I was and always will be An American!

A family picnic at our beach property late 1950s

 

 

My mother’s parents came to this country when they were young and quickly assimilated into their new home. My mother and her siblings were born in Arkansas, and my father was born in Arizona. 

The only time I heard either grandparent speak Chinese was when their friends visited. Even then, every fourth or fifth word was English.


Having grown up in Arizona, my father was fluent in Chinese and Spanish. When the Cubans came to Houston to escape the Cuban Revolution in the late 1950-60s, my father helped many of the Cuban customers we had in our store by translating for them.

My father and uncle served during World War II in the Army Air Corps and the Army, respectively.  My cousins and I became part of the Boomer generation. 

 

I’m the one shoving an egg in my mouth

 

I LOVE MY COUNTRY

 

My family was and is part of the great melting pot that is the United States of America. My childhood was about as Ozzie &Harriet as you could get. 

 

My school day began with the Pledge of Allegiance. We respected our teachers and adults…it was always “Yes or no Sir,” and following Captain Kangaroo’s lead, we always said “Please” or “Thank you.” I started as a Brownie and then became a Girl Scout and sold Girl Scout cookies when they were only Fifty Cents a box.

 

Contrary to what some might think, I did not experience any prejudice growing up…even though it was in the South.  Perhaps being in Texas may have had something to do with it. 

 

My first horse!

 

When I was a little girl, I remember thinking on several occasions how lucky I was to have been born in America. 



I am proud to be an American because of the people who are the lifeblood of this country. We come together when others are in need; we stand up for others, even if we may not agree with them; we welcome those who sincerely want to build a life here and become a part of our community.

 



This is my entry for 🎉ActiveRain July 2026 Challenge: Celebrating America’s 250th Birthday! 🎂  that Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. and I are hosting. We hope you’ll share your story with us.




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Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

A very fine entry into the month's challenge. This country is a melting pot and for those that have been here, it offered hope and a better quality of life.

Jul 16, 2026 05:09 AM
Kathy Streib

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 it is one of the things I love most about our country.   Look at what so many have been able to achieve. 

Jul 16, 2026 10:40 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... loved your post and loved your photos. We are the same age, so I totally relate to how you were raised. I too started my school days with the Pledge of Allegiance. I too was taught to say please, thank you, yes sir and yes  ma'am. I too was a Brownie and a Girl Scout. I still have my GS sash with its 35 badges and ribbons for having sold the most cookies four years in a row. I think we had it good. I would want to be a kid today.

Jul 16, 2026 05:14 AM
Kat Palmiotti

I still have my GS sash also Nina Hollander, Broker !

Jul 16, 2026 05:23 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kat Palmiotti oh goody, Kat! At least I'm not the only one!

Jul 16, 2026 07:41 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker and Kat Palmiotti I have no idea what happened to mine!!!  I wish I had my Brownie beanie!  I can sing the Brownie Song. 

Jul 16, 2026 10:43 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib hi Kathy... for some reason, I have no memory of this song. It must be age!

Jul 16, 2026 12:17 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Thursday morning, Kathy. Thanks for sharing some of your family story. It is always interesting to know about our ancestors. 

Jul 16, 2026 05:24 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley I wish I'd asked more questions!!!

Jul 16, 2026 10:44 AM
Roy Kelley

I also wish I had learned more about our family history. Thankfully, one of our family members prepared an extensive genealogy record of my mother's side of the family with a lot of information back to the 1600's.

Jul 16, 2026 11:52 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Love all the photos especially the one with you and the egg! And there were a lot of similarities in my childhood as well in terms of saying the Pledge, respecting adults, saying please and thank you, and being a Girl Scout. Fun memories.

Jul 16, 2026 05:27 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti I loved the things we learned as Girl Scouts!!!   My week was full, not on devices, but with Girl Scouts, piano lessons and Tap, ballet, and acrobats all week. Who had time to get into trouble?!

Jul 16, 2026 11:29 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I love how much of a patriot you are!  You may have mentioned this before, but where in Arizona was your Dad born?

Jul 16, 2026 05:39 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England My dad was from Tucson. You'll love this...his good friends were sisters who though Chinese, spoke fluent Spanish. One became a nun and we visited her when we went out to CA one summer!!!

Jul 16, 2026 11:30 AM
Brian England

I love Tucson, Kathy Streib that is where I attended college and lived there for around 6 years!

Jul 16, 2026 01:05 PM
Kathy Streib

Brian England he would have loved it if I went there for college

Jul 16, 2026 04:49 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Oh Kathy, that photo of you on your first horse is absolutely adorable! 

Jul 16, 2026 05:39 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I've always loved horses, although, at my age, I'd be better off on that small rocking horse. 

Jul 16, 2026 11:31 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Good morning, Kathy. 
Your response, "American!", is perfect because it captures the essence of the United States: a melting pot of immigrants from all over the world looking for a better life. We may have come from different places and cultures, but we share a common place we call "home". 

Jul 16, 2026 06:03 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams That's it exactly!  Maybe I had a sheltered childhood but I wouldn't trade it for the world.  Our neighbors were customers at our store and often babysat us. I loved my childhood. 

Jul 16, 2026 11:42 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Funny, in NYC not a soul every asked. Maybe because it has always been so ethnically diverse? 

Jul 16, 2026 06:24 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty We were pretty diverse in Houston too but people still asked. 

Jul 16, 2026 11:44 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, that is quite rude of someone to ask you "what you are".    Maybe after they get to know you, where are your ancestry from could be a little bit better.   I know when we moved from CO to Tennessee, we were called Yankees.   My parents were never invited to neighbor's homes either.

Jul 16, 2026 06:49 AM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner I never felt that I have to admit, we did refer to some from the north as Yankees!!!  

Jul 16, 2026 11:55 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner

I guess they all knew as we didn't have the southern twang in our conversation.

Jul 16, 2026 12:16 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy "American" was the perfect answer, and I can imagine the look on their face.

Jul 16, 2026 09:05 AM
Kathy Streib

George Souto  when I was calling on companies in Houston, one of my clients was Texaco. The HR head was an African American woman who, if you remember the late Barbara Jordan, sounded like her. Impeccable grammar. When she met me, she said "You don't like you look!" and laughed.  It was all I could do to just laugh with her.

Jul 16, 2026 11:57 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello, Kathy Streib I like that word assimilated. Nuff said about that! 

Your childhood was much like mine; however, I was never a Girl Scout. 

Good Heavens, Kathy- dang, such an adorable child.  Your photos are priceless. 

 

Jul 16, 2026 09:07 AM
Kathy Streib

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs. Thank you. I had not yet entered my "gangly" stage. We all go through it. 

Jul 16, 2026 11:58 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

An interesting entry that allowed me to learn a little more about you. Yes, I can understand why you say American, and you have every right to as well.

Jul 16, 2026 11:34 AM
Kathy Streib

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543   When you are born here, it's all you know. I had a lady meet me for the first time, then tell me I must not be all Chinese, and questioned me about it. 

Jul 16, 2026 04:52 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.WarrenCountyOhioRealEstate.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Kathy, I'd consider myself a bit of an American mutt :)  There's some French on my mom's side, American Indian from both sides according to family lore, and I think there might be some German mixed in somewhere on my mom's side too.  I'm just dark skinned enough with a good tan that I could probably pass for coming from a lot of different areas around the world (maybe the CIA should have recruited me?).  
I'm lucky enough to have been born here, lucky enough to have traveled the world, and lucky enough to have a perspective about how America fits into the world picture.

Jul 16, 2026 12:38 PM
Kathy Streib

Liz and Bill Spear  My good friend thought for years that I was part Chinese and part French. I have no idea how she thought that.  We met someone in Leesburg and we were told he'd been in the CIA. Do you remember Richie Cunningham's father in Happy Days? That's what he looked like. He told us he was had something to do with agriculture in Guatemala. Sure....

Jul 16, 2026 05:11 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

I remember him, Tom Boswell was the actor's name if memory serves.  Maybe he was manipulating the bananas :)

Jul 16, 2026 07:35 PM
Diana Dahlberg - 1 MONTH REALTY
1 MONTH REALTY - Pleasant Prairie, WI
REALTOR in Kenosha, WI since 1994 - (262) 308-3563

Enjoyed your July Challenge --- have to say I loved the pictures!  You were (and still are) adorable!  Such a Cutie Pie!  And your first Horse?  Priceless!

Jul 17, 2026 03:19 PM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

here is my entry for the July Challenge!!!

https://activerain.com/droplet/JYsb

Jul 18, 2026 12:35 AM
Carla Freund
Keller Williams Legacy - Cary, NC
NC Realtor - Senior & Luxury 919-602-8489

I love this Kathy! I always love hearing other people's story. I was also taught to say yes sir and yes ma'am and to respect my elders. Thank you for sharing.

Jul 29, 2026 07:11 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

My father grew up in a Spanish speaking family. My mother grew up in a Portuguese speaking family. I only learned English. Just think! I could have been multi-lingual.

Aug 02, 2026 01:29 PM