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Friday Fun…Closing/Hostess Gifts!

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Friday Fun…Closing/Hostess Gifts!

 

Peter Mohylsky, Broker wrote a post about housewarming gifts, and I began thinking of the gifts I've given. I’ve received some that hit it out of the ballpark, not because of how much they were, but the thought behind them. 

 

 

What about hostess gifts? You remember your mother’s admonition…never go to someone’s home empty-handed!

If you bring a bottle of wine (the most popular hostess gift), it’s often a good idea to let them know they can open it at a later date. 

 

One of my favorite gifts to receive is flowers because they're something I rarely buy for myself. If you're bringing flowers to a hostess, though, remember that she may be busy greeting guests and putting the finishing touches on the meal. Rather than having her stop to find a vase and fill it with water, consider having the flowers delivered the next day—or better yet, arrive with them already arranged in a vase. 

 

 

 

 Chocolates, a scented candle, and a good bottle of olive oil are all excellent gifts for your hostess. If you know them well, arrive with a gift that reflects their tastes or is related to their hobby. 

 

By the way, one gift for the cook…Kat Palmiotti’s handmade wooden spoons!!!   

 

So, for some Friday Fun…share with us what you like to give or receive for a hostess gift?

And, if you give closing gifts, what do you like to give??

 

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Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks for sharing Kathy!!! Love the message!!!

If you bring a bottle of wine (the most popular hostess gift), it’s often a good idea to let them know they can open it at a later date.

Jul 17, 2026 04:52 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Sham Reddy CRS  and so good to see you. Have a wonderful weekend. 

Jul 17, 2026 05:44 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Kathy Streib What a delightful post, Kathy! I love how you highlight the thoughtfulness behind a gift rather than just the price tag. Your suggestion about having flowers already arranged in a vase is so practical—it really allows the hostess to focus on her guests. And those handmade wooden spoons are a fantastic, personal touch for any cook! It is always a pleasure to read your Friday Fun posts; they bring such a warm and professional perspective to our community. Thanks for sharing these great ideas!

Jul 17, 2026 04:55 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518  Thank you for your sweet comments. As much as I love flowers, it's often a distraction when a guest comes in with a fresh bouquet.  My vases aren't that handy to reach! 

Jul 17, 2026 05:51 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh my gosh, you are so kind to include a link to our website!! Thank you!

Jul 17, 2026 05:15 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti Happy to do so !!!! I still think they make an ideal closing gift!!!

Jul 17, 2026 05:51 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... I can tell you I have given away more hostess gifts I've received that were olive oil and scented candles than I can count. I'm terribly allergic to olive oil and most scents. I only do those if I know someone well enough to know they have no issues with the oil or scent. If someone entertains a lot, I like to bring pretty napkins as a gift. We used to spend Thanksgivings with friends who collected turkeys for her table... I always found her a new turkey as a hostess gift.

I do like to bring an expensive box of high end chocolates as a hostess gift.

One thing Americans do that is seriously frowned upon in France is bring a dessert dish... the French feel insulted when they do that as they believe they are being told they can't make a good dessert.

Jul 17, 2026 05:19 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker it's important to KNOW YOUR Audience or at least your hostess. A good friend in FL loved to cook and try different ingredients. I gave him a really nice first cold-pressed olive oil and he loved it. 

I know what you mean about someone bringing a dessert. Ask first!

Jul 17, 2026 05:56 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Like many others my go to gift is a bottle of wine. My caveat is this is a bottle best opened for special occasion of your choice in the future. Just saying. Enjoy your day. 

Jul 17, 2026 06:11 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin I love what you say when giving the wine!!!    What I appreciate is the thought.

Jul 17, 2026 05:57 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

My Mom used to crochet towel sets, and I would give them as closing gifts. They were such a big hit, and my Mom loved making them.

Jul 17, 2026 06:28 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England that sounds like a win-win scenario to me. Your mom gets to use her creativity and know she's helping you and your clients receive something made just for them. 

Jul 17, 2026 06:00 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

My girlfriend ALWAYS brings a hostess (host) gift. We can never go anywhere without one...lol

Jul 17, 2026 06:43 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty That's because she's a good person!!!  Is she rubbing off on you??? LOL

Jul 17, 2026 06:01 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Flowers are a good gift selection. We prefer food but you have to be careful about diet restrictions of the host.

Jul 17, 2026 07:27 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree Roy Kelley I love food gifts but you have to know about any dietary limitations or preferences the recipient may have. 

Jul 17, 2026 06:02 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Kathy, There are so many good ideas and I’m keeping mine a surprise, but I’m sure anything thoughtful is appreciated!

Jul 17, 2026 07:47 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I agree...when you put some "thought" into your gift it means so much more. 

Jul 17, 2026 06:03 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Flowers or wine is what I bring and receive for hostess gifts. It's always nice to see a bright colored bouquet of flowers!!

Jul 17, 2026 10:13 AM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten I love flowers because I never buy them for myself. 

Jul 17, 2026 06:07 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, all my friends all asked for wine, as they knew I had my wine jail with MANY high-end bottles.   I have been known to bring flowers also.

Jul 17, 2026 11:58 AM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner you realize that when you return from Portugal, your friends will hope for gifts your brought back with you!!!

Jul 17, 2026 06:08 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner

Kathy Streib maybe cork items that are only made over here!   Their cork jewelry is really cool.

Jul 17, 2026 11:59 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

It really varies, I try to listen to my clients whilst we are house hunting to get an idea of what they like. Once, I bought a sun burst piece for their outside garden wall, other times I give wine, or a coupon for pizza or a meal on moving day.

Jul 17, 2026 12:14 PM
Kathy Streib

I love that Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543  It's something I try to do with my friends. I'll bet your gifts are well-received because of the thought you put in them. 

Jul 17, 2026 06:14 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Great topic as hostess gifts are so important and really appreciated by the hostess. Flowers are somrthing I like to bring. Closing gifts are always fun and on my last closing I had a water color commissioned by an artist of the home they lived in for 30 years, raising their family. They were so appreciative!

Jul 17, 2026 02:58 PM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX now that's a truly thoughtful gift!!!   I love it. 

Jul 17, 2026 06:14 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Thanks for the thought-full post, Kathy! I will give a personally designed Thank You card & gift card from Home Depot for the incidentals they may need for the new home and fresh veggies if it's during growing season.

We always take something to thank the hosts when invited to gatherings, like a nice bottle of wine or centerpiece, depending on time of year. Last time, I took fresh tomatoes and some basil pesto I made that day!

Jul 17, 2026 03:50 PM
Kathy Streib

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! I love your ideas. One of my favorite gifts was from Larry's secretary-freshly picked vine-ripened tomatoes. I'd never eaten anything like them!!

Jul 17, 2026 06:17 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy when I attended closings I would bring a bottle of wine from a local vineyard, and I would tell them that I hoped they would enjoy it with their first meal in their new home. 

Jul 17, 2026 05:03 PM
Kathy Streib

George Souto That's is the perfect way to put it!!!  

Jul 17, 2026 06:17 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Love the wooden spoon and the olive oil suggestions!

 

Jul 19, 2026 11:10 AM