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Motivational Monday…Giving With No Expectations

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Motivational Monday…Giving With No Expectations

 

When Larry and I moved to FL, we met the most amazing family. They would become our Florida Family. The patriarch, Tom, was one of a kind. He was funny, smart, loved his family, and was generous. 

 

Tom gave without expecting anything in return. It didn’t matter if you were his family member, friend, neighbor, landscaper, or someone he didn’t even know. 

 

You have not lived today until you have done something for someone who can never repay you. John Bunyan

 




It would take me years to list all of his kind deeds, but one stands out. The manager’s wife at the beach club opened a small gift shop on Atlantic Avenue in Delray Beach. Shortly after it opened, his wife and I were inside shopping. And wouldn’t you know it, Tom was outside telling passersby to come in and see the new store!  

He “found” miscellaneous yard projects around his home and office building to help keep the man who did his yardwork busy.  

 

             

What I learned was that doing something for someone simply because you can—because it's the right thing to do, regardless of whether they can ever repay your kindness—becomes a gift to you as well. In many ways, the satisfaction of giving without expecting anything in return is one of life's greatest rewards. 

 

The true measure of a man is how he treats someone who can do him absolutely no good. Samuel Johnson 




This week, what good deeds and kindness will you share with others just because you can?

 

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... doing good deeds with an expectation of repayment of some sort is an oxymoron of a concept in my book. I love the Tunnel 2 Towers tag line: "let us do good." It says it all. So many things in life we should not do just because we can. This is one thing in life we should do because we can. 

Jul 20, 2026 04:37 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree Nina Hollander, Broker  I love what the T2T stands for. If we can do something for someone, then do it!

Jul 20, 2026 07:47 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent quotes and message - doing good for others without expectation of getting anything is a beautiful thing.

Jul 20, 2026 04:58 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Good morning Kathy. Giving without expecting anything in return is such a wonderful way to live and makes a lasting impact on everyone around us. Thanks for sharing such a motivating and inspiring post to start the week!

Jul 20, 2026 05:21 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. As a former manager if I gave advice and it allowed someone to be successful and not fail that was repayment enough. Some would thank me and others would not, did not matter. If it worked for them it was a success for me. Enjoy your day.

Jul 20, 2026 05:30 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

What goes around comes around.  If we are doing things for others without expectation of anything in return, naturally, things will come our way as well.

Jul 20, 2026 06:12 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Kathy, my idea is simple. Sharing positivity because it's contagious!

Jul 20, 2026 06:22 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Wow, sounds like a really wonderful man. If I was to guess, he had great parents. That is usually the case.

Jul 20, 2026 06:40 AM
Marie-Noelle Metseye
RE/MAX Northwest - Bothell, WA
Reward Trust with Excellence

It's a great reminder that the smallest acts of generosity often make the biggest impact, not just on others but on ourselves as well.

Jul 20, 2026 07:12 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, it absolutely feels wonderful to give and not to expect anything in return!   Like taking someone to dinner for no reason at all.   I did that a lot right before I left.

Jul 20, 2026 08:42 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

My dad taught me this from an early age. Help others because you can, not because you expect something in return. 

Jul 20, 2026 08:52 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy, giving is always a good thing for us all to do.  I remember someone sent me a blanket when I had my surgery.

 

Jul 20, 2026 10:00 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy your friend Tom knew the true meaning of giving and lived it.

Jul 20, 2026 02:43 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Good afternoon Kathy Streib ,

Living a life of giving without expecting anything in return is a most rewarding way to live! Tom was an example of living this kind of life!

Jul 20, 2026 03:30 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Love your post Kathy!  Doing for others is a way of life in a way.  To some it comes naturally and doesn't feel forced.

Jul 21, 2026 10:03 AM