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SELF-IMPOSED STRESS...GIVE IT THE BOOT!

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Industry Observer with pearlsforthesoul.com feedback-input life coach

All lifeforms when created & then released by command, go to work instantly. This includes what you can see, not see, & by what you are immersed in with you being the star-player or center of attention & observation. All lifeforms are awe-inspired, but mankind, in its fallen and failing condition, needs INstruction & help to get going. It's our part that complicates everything via trial & error & learning curves

WE WORRY

We are so concerned about outcomes that this worry driven dynamic creates unintended complications & problems of our own choosing. Here are samples

1. Am I good enough as in unworthy driven by low self-esteem

2. Will I get what I want which is doubt and hesitation taking too long of a turn

3. Fear of getting what you want and not knowing what that is

4. Not letting go which is invisible, energy eating baggage

5. Vanity driven outcomes (selfishness)

6. Wanting more of what and why?

7. Faith is missing from our lives

Outcome obsession is willful, demanding & controlling something God cannot reward in case you are wondering why your prayers go unanswered. Actually, the answer is to stop doing what doesn't work, so what will work, can get started

THE PROBLEM IS SIGHTED

OUCH! It's me as in YOU! Yes, you thought the circumstances turned on you, other people did as well, it wasn't a perfect day & you cannot believe you made mistakes, or your thinking and actions were unsound. Start by examining yourself

YOUR PRIDE INTERFERES

When you try or make an effort to become a better person, who can produce a different outcome, your ego objects & immediately summons pride to assist it. It doesn't approve of anything other than itself, to lead, love & guide you, all phooey!

YOU GUIDE YOU

You were made in the image of something so great it defies & is impossible to describe yet it exists or you would not exist. Proceed with this belief. You are not in a prison where you are told what to do & when NO. You decide all that thank you

THINGS NOT GOING WELL?

That is what "time-out" is all about. Stop, assess, & rechoose. Each phase requires the necessary patience, or it won't work. You deserve special care & treatment so start with yourself first. Others will rise to your standard of care or be repelled by it

THE PART YOU PLAY

You are a guest in the house of life (lord), & as such, you get certain privileges & perks as a guest, not as a God. As such, you get to play a part of your choosing or not play, a choice in itself, thus having a say so, an intimate, deliberate connection

THE MIND EXCEEDS ITS AUTHORITY

In the original created purpose, before we interfered, the mind, home of the brain, was to monitor body & organ activity automatically. Today, the mind wants & has control over your person, but as an intruder who pretends it is not one

THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER

The spirit within the body, the life source known as the created YOU by God, had the role & purpose of guiding the body, obeying the Lords prompting, thus having a part in life given by the Life-Giver. That's the truer system, not the imposter one

JUST LET GO

That feeling of control, outcomes, wanting & needing, worry & fears, pains & gains, & seek out the correct place you were meant to operate within. As you navigate toward this, God will move closer to you. Keep this up & this is what you will find

E-Z-P-Z of LIFE

It will come naturally and without efforts, to learn how to navigate through life something God does with pleasure for you, & when He deems it necessary, He will show you how to rise above it all, the noise, confusion, hesitation, doubts & fears

This no myth, it is obtainable, requires you to stay put as what you are wanting & needing begins where you are & not out there somewhere. Let go, let God is no myth but the Truth, that will set you free

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Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

A timely reminder that we often add to our own stress by worrying about outcomes we cannot fully control. Sometimes the best thing we can do is stop, reassess, let go of what is not working, and move forward with a little more faith and patience.

Sep 11, 2026 10:32 AM
Richie & You

Hello Gwen,

Well said & shared this comment of yours thank you Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 

Sep 11, 2026 10:35 AM