Being Postive and Uplifted is the only Option!

I apologize for being tardy on posting my August "Uplifting" Newsletter.  However, I had such a blast with my 4 grandchildren, that my business for me, was placed on the sidelines as my agents did their thing and fortunately for me, were making deals and $$$$. YES!!!

The purpose of this uplifting newsletter is to provide you with a change of scenery through heartwarming stories, and insightful advice as well as give you a smile for a few minutes. I hope you enjoy!

If you know of any local families or organizations that are especially in need at this time, please give me a call or reply to this email. I will do my best to spread the word!

Inspiring Podcasts

Discovering the right inspiring podcast can change how you see the world and approach life’s hurdles. This month’s Links You Can Use spotlights some of the best.

The Blindboy Podcast, by neurodivergent Irish writer, musician and artist Blindboy Boatclub, is truly fascinating. His unique outlook on life will genuinely make you see the world in a new way. https://tinyurl.com/uplift08261

Navigating life after incarceration is fraught with challenges, but the Life After Prison podcast brings hope and guidance for ex-offenders seeking to find their way back into society. https://tinyurl.com/uplift08262

The Happiness Lab, by Yale professor Dr. Laurie Santos, explores the science behind what makes us happy, helping listeners to unlock inspiration and fulfilment in the everyday. https://tinyurl.com/uplift08263

BBC Radio 4’s Tweet of the Day is a very short, very joyful daily podcast in which a different minor UK celebrity discusses their favorite bird and what it means to them. https://tinyurl.com/uplift08264

A book that will make you hungry. The Sandwich Book by Paweł Piotrowski is a clever piece of tactile art that stacks pages of printed images and artworks to mimic, in order, the ingredients of a sandwich. And they really do look like sandwiches, with everything from crispy lettuce to layers of cheese, tomatoes, eggs and a perfectly golden crust. Polish graphic designer Piotrowski is known for his playful, unconventional approach to book design and packaging. More: https://tinyurl.com/uplift0826a

Hunting for Giants. NWTrolls is a project that brings six massive hand-built troll sculptures by renowned Danish recycling artist Thomas Dambo to the Pacific Northwest. Dambo, an environmental activist, crafts these whimsical guardians entirely from discarded materials to champion sustainability. Blending Norse folklore with Coast Salish tribal traditions, each free-to-visit sculpture tells a story of conservation. Read on to find their secret locations. More: https://tinyurl.com/uplift0826b

Craving connection? Build your own community. If you’re tired of hollow online networking, this serialized guide by a seasoned community builder is your blueprint for change. The author shares hard-won secrets from six years in the trenches of buildings human connection. Discover how to ditch the burnout of digital group chats, avoid the "graveyard of dead meetups," and instead build a self-sustaining local community from scratch, whether that’s a walking club, a mom’s group, a business network or anything else. More: https://tinyurl.com/uplift0826c

If you ever find yourself wandering the ruggedly beautiful coastline of County Durham in northeast England, make a pit stop in the seaside town of Seaham. There you’ll find a cafe named Hidden on the Harbor.

It serves good coffee, but one of its most valuable offerings isn't on the menu. It’s the cafe’s weekly "public living room,” dedicated to ending isolation, that has become a major draw.

Launched by local social enterprise Nurture North in partnership with the global movement Camerados, this free initiative transforms a corner of the cafe into a cozy, pressure-free space for anyone to turn up and find company.

The concept is beautifully simple: no agendas, no fees, just a warm room, a fresh cup of tea and a place to come and make friends.

For some residents, it has become a vital lifeline. In a post-pandemic world where loneliness is all too common and community spaces have dwindled at an alarming rate, the public living room offers a reliable anchor for those who need it.

Newcomers who previously felt isolated now have a weekly highlight to look forward to, reporting that they finally feel part of a neighborhood that checks in on them.

Even those who typically find traditional bustling social settings overwhelming have found comfort here, describing the atmosphere as uniquely gentle and accepting.

The cafe’s staff jumped at the chance to host the initiative, and they have had front-row seats to the magic. On the days the living room runs, the energy in the cafe is different.

The team has watched total strangers or people from completely different walks of life who likely never would have crossed paths otherwise sit down, spark up a conversation and leave as genuine lasting friends.

In an era dominated by digital group chats and fleeting online interactions, Hidden on the Harbor is a place that proves that the most powerful antidote to loneliness is remarkably low-tech. A shared space, a hot drink and a good laugh are still the ultimate ingredients for human connection.

When you are in the thick of a high-stress period or a severe emotional low, trying to rationally figure out how to feel better is nearly impossible.

In those moments, the brain essentially goes into survival mode, often defaulting to unhelpful habits like doomscrolling or shutting down, blocking any rational thinking.

It doesn’t have to be that way, though. Building a physical mental health toolkit ahead of time while you are feeling calm and balanced can prepare you for those moments before they strike. “Physical” is the important word here, because it needs to exist outside of your head.

It should be a ready-made pack of activities, items, prompts or exercises packed away somewhere dedicated in your home that can shock your nervous system out of a negative spiral when it happens and bring you back to reality.

So what should it include? Here’s a few ideas.

Comfort triggers: A soft blanket, a favorite stress toy or a written list of your personal strengths to counter negative self-talk.

Sensory shockers: Extreme flavors like sour candy or an ice pack in the freezer. Intense physical sensations snap your brain out of overdrive and force you into the present moment.

A calming action checklist: When logic fails, write down a step-by-step physical guide, reminding yourself to do basic things that may otherwise fall away. For example: “drink a glass of water,” “step outside for sunlight” or “inhale for three seconds and exhale for six.”

To make your toolkit effective, keep it tangible and specific. For example, don’t just write "listen to music" on a note. Create a dedicated playlist so your future self only has to hit play.

By prepping these things now, you make it easier to cope later. Your future self will thank you.