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Monday Lessons with Dorie ~ Making Room for What’s Next

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 410939

We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”
— Joseph Campbell

Life is filled with beginnings and endings, but so much of life happens in the space in between.

We grow. We change. We meet challenges, build relationships, discover new interests and find opportunities that can take us in directions we never expected.

And sometimes, we get stalled because we're holding on too tightly to the life we thought we were supposed to have.

Letting go isn't always easy. We may have invested years, hopes and dreams into a particular path. But sometimes the very thing we're reluctant to release is what keeps us from seeing what could come next.

Life brings us new seasons, and with them, new possibilities. Sometimes we must close one chapter, not because it wasn't meaningful, but because there is another chapter waiting to be written.

I've learned that when we finally loosen our grip on what was, something remarkable can happen: we make room for what might be.

And sometimes, what we embrace next is even better than what we had planned.

Monday Lesson: Don't be afraid to let go of what was supposed to be. You may be making room for something you never knew was possible.

What might you be ready to let go of today so you can make room for what’s waiting for you?

Until next Monday...

Keep learning, keep growing, and Be the Difference.

Dorie Dillard
Your Trusted Resource for Real Estate & Community

 

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Dorie. You lead off quote by James Campbell is terrific and your last quote by you, used together summarizes the issue well. Enjoy your day.

Aug 17, 2026 05:18 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Thank you Wayne Martin !

Aug 17, 2026 03:16 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Dorie... I've "fought" my entire life not to live it the way others expected me to... learning to let go of those expectations is important. My brother was someone who couldn't let go and as a result his life, while prosperous, was never quite fulfilling until his 50's when he finally let go.

Aug 17, 2026 05:28 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

So glad to hear your brother finally let go Nina Hollander, Broker. For some takes longer to take that step!

Aug 17, 2026 03:17 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Dorie Dillard Austin TX my brother couldn't let go until my mother died and he started living for himself and not her expectations.

Aug 17, 2026 06:54 PM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks for sharing Dorie!!! Great message and inspiration!!!

Letting go isn't always easy. We may have invested years, hopes and dreams into a particular path. But sometimes the very thing we're reluctant to release is what keeps us from seeing what could come next.

Aug 17, 2026 05:40 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Thank you for stopping by Sham Reddy CRS and commenting.

Aug 17, 2026 03:18 PM
Lawrence & Sheila Agranoff
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
Listing & Selling Long Island Real Estate

 Great perspective Dorie, sometimes letting go isn’t an ending, but the beginning of something even more meaningful.

Aug 17, 2026 05:51 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Exactly right Lawrence & Sheila Agranoff 

Aug 17, 2026 03:18 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Dorie, I have let go, and waiting to see what is through the next door, still waiting!

Aug 17, 2026 06:03 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

You certainly have Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner and we are privy to see you open that door!

Aug 17, 2026 03:26 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I have to admit that I definitely try too much to make the life I want to happen, rather than enjoying the life that God wants me to have, haha.

Aug 17, 2026 06:24 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Take a breath Brian England and enjoy each day you are given!

Aug 17, 2026 03:27 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

When I was young I made all kinds of plans. Places I would go, people I would meet. Life happened, but it has been pretty great. 

Aug 17, 2026 07:14 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

That is good for you Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty 

Aug 17, 2026 03:27 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Dorie,
Oh... how I relate to this right now! 

Aug 17, 2026 08:20 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Open that door Carol Williams and see what is waiting!

Aug 17, 2026 03:27 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Dorie. This is good advice for all of us.

Have an outstanding week!

Aug 17, 2026 08:31 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Dorie my life is nothing like I expected it to be when I was 18, 30, or even 50 years old. Thing happen along the way, and like you said we have to be open to them.  In my case life turned out to be better than I expected it to be.

Aug 17, 2026 11:22 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

That is good to hear George Souto 

Aug 17, 2026 03:28 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Dorie- for my own life, nothing has happened as I thought or hope it would, however it's all been wonderful. I have a friend who has never been able to do that and while her life is ok, in fact, one many would love, I know she isn't happy. 

Aug 17, 2026 11:48 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

That is to bad Kathy Streib about your friend and I hope one day things turn around for her.

Aug 17, 2026 03:29 PM
AZ Mortgage Broker: Michael George
Mortgage Broker - Phoenix, AZ
Providing low rates on purchase & refinance loans.

Dorie Dillard Austin TX - I should turn these words into a plaque and hang it over my threshold. This is something that I think about every day. I'm not a letter-goer. :) And it's been to my detriment. 

Aug 18, 2026 11:59 AM
Jerry Newman
Brown Realty, 210-789-4216, - San Antonio, TX
Texas REALTOR, San Antonio Military Relocation

Hi Dorie. Letting go of things that I should is not always something easy for me to do. I have dealt with numerous changes along this life's journey. I am ready for whatever is coming next. 

Aug 18, 2026 01:38 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Yes our plans sometimes don't work out.  For example, I plan to be somewhere and then 3 phone calls that are all emergencies happen. Yikes. I wonder if I can fool myself. 

Aug 20, 2026 10:50 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Everything changes and we find that out my mistake quite often because we're living life and meeting the days.

Still in it, thankfully, Dorie!

Aug 20, 2026 03:29 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

There are times when letting go of something is the best way to open up to all the possibilities of the future!

Aug 22, 2026 05:12 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Dorie, this is such a beautiful reminder that letting go doesn’t diminish the meaning of what came before. It simply creates room for a new season—one that may look absolutely nothing like what we originally planned but can easily hold possibilities we never even imagined. Some of life’s greatest gifts have a way of arriving disguised as a change in plans!

Aug 22, 2026 06:28 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.
Dorie, this is such a thoughtful reminder that letting go of our rigid plans often opens the door to unexpected blessings and new seasons we never could have imagined!
Aug 22, 2026 07:07 AM