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Why Is Communication So Hard?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc 10307

Communication is easier than ever, but getting a real answer can feel harder than ever.

We have phone calls, text messages, email, voicemail, social media, messaging apps, and even video calls. With all those choices, you would think communication would be simple. Instead, many of us spend more time trying to reach someone than actually talking.

A text gets read but not answered. An email sits in an inbox. A voicemail is ignored because the person would rather receive a text. Sometimes the same question gets sent three different ways before a response finally comes.

In real estate, that can become a real problem. Buyers, sellers, agents, lenders, inspectors, attorneys, appraisers, and contractors are all working on deadlines. A simple unanswered question can hold up an inspection, delay paperwork, or leave someone wondering what to do next.

The method of communication matters far less than the response.

You do not always have to have the complete answer immediately. Sometimes a simple, “I received your message, and I am checking on it” is enough. That tells the other person they have been heard and that someone is handling the issue.

Good communication also means knowing when to stop texting and pick up the phone. Some conversations take ten text messages when a two-minute phone call would settle everything. On the other hand, when details, dates, prices, or contract terms are involved, putting information in writing can help everyone remember exactly what was discussed.

Technology has given us more ways to communicate. It has not replaced courtesy, clarity, or responsiveness.

Sometimes the best communication tool is still the simplest one: give me an answer.

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Gwen Fowler

Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc
317 South Highway 11
West Union SC 29696
Serving Oconee County, from the banks of the Chattooga River to the shores of Jocassee, Hartwell & Keowee Lakes, and all the private lakes in between.

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Contact me about property in Oconee County, Seneca, Walhalla, Westminster, Long Creek, Salem, Mountain Rest, Richland, Sunset and Six Mile, SC.  2nd homes are our expertise. 

The best number to reach me at is 1-864-710-4518--either by call or text.

View our listings at www.CoolMountainEscapes.com

 

 

 

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Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP
Big Block Team @ LPT Realty 858.232.8722 - San Diego, CA
Coastal San Diego, Veteran's & Retirees Services

Amen sister!
I'm in an escrow right now with a team of three under 30 year-olds, a transaction manager and a (TC) transaction coordinator. And I can't get a returned text, call or email between the 5 of them.

They only seem to respond to Notice To Buyer To Perform threats. I've had 75 year-old solo-REALTORS call me back, send things ahead of time and act as real pros.

These 5 couldn’t find competence if they had a map, a compass, and a tour guide. 😂😡🤣

Aug 25, 2026 01:19 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

They also do not talk to each other, so when they decide they need to do something, everyone does it on the same day.

Aug 25, 2026 01:26 PM
Carmen Brooks
PropTech AI - Casper, WY
Slashing outbound marketing overhead for wholesale

We have more communication tools than ever before, yet actual responsiveness seems harder to find. Courtesy and clarity will always beat out any new app. Great reminder!

Aug 25, 2026 01:27 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Just pick up the phone, no I do not need facetime, just an answer.

Aug 25, 2026 01:39 PM
Marie-Noelle Metseye
RE/MAX Northwest - Bothell, WA
Reward Trust with Excellence
 

This really hits home, especially in real estate where one unanswered message can create unnecessary stress and delays. Sometimes a quick “I got your message” goes a long way in keeping everyone on the same page.

 
 
 
Aug 25, 2026 02:11 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

A thumbs-up shows you received the email.  Courtisy has left the real estate room.

Aug 26, 2026 04:40 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518  What I don't understand is why the younger generation doesn't understand that a Banker doesn't answer text messages.You need to pick up the phone and call . You might even have to go into the bank and get the information  

Aug 25, 2026 02:16 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

The phone is still our best friend.  We have to beat out the bots.  Clients and service providers still need to hear from us.  

Aug 26, 2026 04:42 AM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Good question Gwen. Usually, I find that communication stops when one party does not or will not listen.

Aug 25, 2026 03:51 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Ask and note how to communicate with the client. I have now started having them add me to their contacts so they know it is me calling.

Aug 26, 2026 04:43 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

Gwen, with the way the young people respond to their business interests makes a strong case for using a robot. It would at least offer a response.

Aug 25, 2026 05:53 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

When there are too many options, I have noticed that some consumers choose none.  When the phone was the only way to talk to friends, that is what we used; now we have too many options.

Aug 26, 2026 04:45 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Gwen, you are so right, there are SO many ways to communicate, and some choose to ignore all of them!

Aug 26, 2026 02:32 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

I think the anxiety of deciding how to communicate stops all communication.

Aug 26, 2026 04:45 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 good morning, Gwen... you knocked this one out of the park and then some! I've often thought that myself... that we have more ways to communicate than ever and yet seem to be communicating less. At the end of the day, communicating is as complex or simple as we choose to make it.

Aug 26, 2026 05:18 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I know a few people who will only answer a text after you cut/paste and send it again the next day. And plenty of people who rarely respond in a timely manner. So frustrating!

Aug 26, 2026 05:30 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

any response is better than silence.

Aug 26, 2026 05:35 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Thursday morning, Gwen. Unresponsive agents add to the challenges of real estate transactions.

Aug 27, 2026 05:47 AM
Lawrence & Sheila Agranoff
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
Listing & Selling Long Island Real Estate

This is now happening a lot with giving feedback on showings from many agents Gwen. Fine, it may not be the right one for your buyer but at least respond when asked!

Aug 28, 2026 06:46 AM
Ken Semler
ImpresaModular.com - Martinsburg, WV
Nationwide Custom Modular Home Builder

Responsiveness is part of professionalism. Even when you do not have the answer yet, acknowledging the question and setting the expectation for follow-up keeps small issues from becoming bigger ones.

Aug 29, 2026 08:59 AM