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Monday Lessons with Dorie ~ Word Gets Around

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 410939

“Honesty is the best policy.”

I’ve been working with some buyers recently who heard through the grapevine about a home that had been under contract, but the buyer terminated after the inspection uncovered several repair issues, including a roof that needed to be replaced. The sellers were not willing to negotiate.

And that got me thinking about something every seller should remember:

Real estate is a very small world.

Agents talk to other agents. Buyers talk to their friends, family and neighbors. And when a transaction falls apart, people often want to know why.

Maybe the seller feels strongly that they shouldn’t have to negotiate. Maybe they believe their home is worth what they are asking and the buyer should accept it as-is. And, sometimes, that may be a perfectly reasonable position.

But there can be consequences.

When a buyer terminates a contract because of significant repair concerns, that information doesn't necessarily disappear when the house goes back on the market. The buyer may tell friends or neighbors. The agent may know other agents who have clients looking in the neighborhood. Word can travel.

And if future buyers hear, “That house was under contract, but the buyer walked away because of the roof, and the seller wouldn't negotiate,” they may start asking themselves:

“Is this seller realistic?”
“What happens if our inspection finds the same thing?”
“Will we be able to negotiate if there are legitimate issues?”

Suddenly, the seller may have an entirely different challenge, not because the house isn't worth the price they believe it is, but because potential buyers have already formed an opinion before they ever walk through the door.

There is another important piece to this: when new information about a property's condition comes to light during a transaction, sellers need to discuss with their agent whether their seller's disclosure should be updated. New inspection findings or information about repairs can become important information for future buyers.

My advice to sellers has always been simple:

Be honest. Be transparent. And remember that today's transaction can influence tomorrow's opportunity.

A home is ultimately worth what a willing buyer is willing to pay, and that value isn't determined by the seller alone.

You may not be able to control what people say about your home, but you can control how you handle the information, how you communicate with buyers and how you conduct yourself throughout the process.

Because in real estate…

Word gets around more than you think.

A Monday Lesson to Think About

  • Have you ever considered how a failed transaction might influence the next buyer's perception of a home?
  • If you were a buyer, would hearing that another buyer walked away over repairs make you more cautious about making an offer?
  • As a seller, would you rather hold firmly to your position, or consider whether being reasonable today could help you sell tomorrow?
  • And perhaps most importantly: How can honesty and transparency protect your reputation as well as your real estate investment?

💭 Monday’s Question:
If you were selling your home, would you be more focused on standing firm on your price, or on making sure the way you handle today’s buyer doesn’t cost you tomorrow’s buyer?

Until next Monday...

Keep learning, Keep growing, and Be the Difference.

— Dorie Dillard
Your Trusted Resource for Real Estate & Community

 

 

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Dorie... word does get around! Anyone who doesn't think this is sticking their head in the sand. I'm always telling my own sellers to address issues with the buyer they have in hand... that if those buyers walk, questions about why will arise. And, of course, they never know how much "worse" the next buyer's requests might be.

Aug 31, 2026 05:18 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

I do the same Nina Hollander, Broker its usually always better to work out the issues with the buyer you are under contract with.

Aug 31, 2026 08:37 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.
Word truly does get around fast, Dorie! It is so easy for sellers to forget that local real estate networks talk constantly. Addressing repair issues upfront with the buyer you have in hand is always the smart play—otherwise, trying to explain away a terminated contract to the next prospective buyer becomes an uphill battle. Thanks for sharing such a great Monday lesson on transparency!
Aug 31, 2026 05:23 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Thank you Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 ,

I totally agree with you!

Aug 31, 2026 08:38 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Dorie. Once something wrong there may be duty to disclose. So, what a withdrawing buyer knows may have to be told to future buyers. Do you negotiate and solve the problem now ir hit for the next buyer. Time is money. Choose wisely and be honest. Enjoy your day.

Aug 31, 2026 05:24 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Time is money Wayne Martin and always better to work things out with the buyer at hand or then be as transparent as possible with future buyers.

Aug 31, 2026 08:41 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Dorie, oh my, the grapevine is a small world.   In CO when you have knowledge on condition of something after you listed, you absolutely have to update the SPD.

Aug 31, 2026 05:48 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Amen Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner !!

Aug 31, 2026 08:42 AM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Douglas Elliman Las Olas - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

In my market, as Listing Agent, the first offer arrived and buyer was firm.  No negotiations  Seller accepted.  Subject to an assumable 2.375% loan balance cash.  Purchase Price $650K. 

After receiving the assumption package the buyer wanted the seller to pay off half the $11K PMI remaining on the loan AND $4K toward the inspection report issues.  As is, working condition, no big ticket items, just everything little thing on the report their inspector noted. 

Seller adamantly refused.  No negotiating.  Bear in mind lender indicated the loan approval process for assumption could take 75 to 90 days, no live phone contact with a person, everything uploaded and verified up to 48 hours after receipt.😎

Ultimately another buyer came along and we closed at $637K.  Seller had to pay a few additional mortgage payments but netted out ahead of the curve on the first offer.

 

Happy Sellers.  The end.  

Aug 31, 2026 05:48 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Good for you Eileen Burns 954.483.3912 ! That was a win win!

Aug 31, 2026 08:43 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Good morning, Dorie.
I love your series. This week's topic is of utmost importance. To me, honesty and transparency aren't just the ethical way to handle a transaction, they're also good business. Problems don't necessarily kill transactions. How people handle those problems often determines whether the transaction survives.

Aug 31, 2026 06:06 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Our job is to find solutions Carol Williams . You are right how people handle those problems often determines whether the transaction survives.

Aug 31, 2026 08:44 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Great share Dorie!!! Thanks!!! Love this!!!

When a buyer terminates a contract because of significant repair concerns, that information doesn't necessarily disappear when the house goes back on the market. In Ohio seller has to disclose facts of the defects. The buyer may tell friends or neighbors. The agent may know other agents who have clients looking in the neighborhood. Word can travel.

 

Aug 31, 2026 06:09 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

You are right Sham Reddy CRS ...word travels fast!

Aug 31, 2026 08:45 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

With disclosure required even when you sell a house "as is" I think it is always best to try and work out details...OR fix the issues and put the home back on the market for a higher price.

Aug 31, 2026 06:36 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

We are problem solvers Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty ...where there is a will there is a way!

Aug 31, 2026 08:46 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Sellers who aren't willing to negotiate when major repairs are needed at their home won't be able to sell it very easily, haha.

Aug 31, 2026 06:44 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

So true Brian England 

Aug 31, 2026 08:46 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Dorie. Thanks for sharing your observations and advice.

If we offer our home for sale, we will use a trusted local real estate professional and seek their advice on realistic pricing.

Aug 31, 2026 09:27 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Good for you Roy Kelley ...that is so important!

Aug 31, 2026 01:47 PM
John Dunham
Juice RE Group at Compass - Austin, TX
N Central Austin

Sometimes sellers need to reverse the tables and ask, is this material information I would want to know about the property? Would this information influence my decision to move forward? If yes, then it's best to disclose and most likely the next buyer will have the same concern!

Aug 31, 2026 10:39 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Absolutely John Dunham a seller should put themselves in the buyers shoes and ask those important questions!

Aug 31, 2026 01:49 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Dorie- Words that aren't said often enough.  Any issues do get out.   Some buyers won't have a problem with it, and some will but why take the chance. 

Aug 31, 2026 11:57 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

In the current market buyers are pickier than ever Kathy Streib . There are many homes out there they want transparency. 

Aug 31, 2026 01:50 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Dorie also if the Buyer has applied for FHA financing, the case number and appraisal are still applicable if the deal falls apart and another FHA Buyer comes alone.  So if the house under appraises or the Appraiser list repairs that need to be made, those remain.

Aug 31, 2026 01:27 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Good point George Souto 

Aug 31, 2026 01:50 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Dorie and you nailed it in your blog that you are sharing with us this Monday.  Make it a great week.

 

Aug 31, 2026 02:16 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Thank you Will Hamm 

Aug 31, 2026 03:23 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Opening up a transaction to negotiation in many areas is so important. Of course, some buyers will ask for everything plus the moon until told no by realistic sellers. Your question at the end got my attention, Dorie!

If you were selling your home, would you be more focused on standing firm on your price, or on making sure the way you handle today’s buyer doesn’t cost you tomorrows buyer? Selling can be an emotional process and many times, it's best to hire an agent to get to the closing table.

Aug 31, 2026 03:19 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

You are right Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! Selling is an emotional process and being transparent and honest from start to finish is paramount! 

Aug 31, 2026 03:24 PM