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Should You Buy a Home When Your Real Estate Agent Advises Against It?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 311291

I often refer to my buyers as “future listings,” and for good reason. It is not because I am already thinking about listing the house again. It is because I want to be certain that the home they are buying is sound, a good investment, and one I would feel comfortable putting my name on someday.

If it is truly a good house for today’s buyers, it should also be a good house for the next buyers. And because I am involved in the purchase now, I will know the house, its history, what the inspection revealed, what maintenance has been done, what may still be needed, and, of course, all the dirty details.

When I help someone buy a home, I don't just look at whether they love it today. I look at it through the eyes of the agent who may someday have to sell it.

Can I sell it again? Will the floor plan make sense to the next buyer? Are there things that look wonderful today but may not wear well? Are improvements really improvements, or are they merely cosmetic changes that mask something that will eventually become apparent? Is the property being represented in a way that a future buyer will see differently?

Sometimes my buyers see all of those things and still say, "We want it." That's when being a buyer's agent gets interesting. My job is not to choose their home. My job is to give them the benefit of what I've learned from years of walking through, selling, and, most importantly, reselling houses. I can point out what concerns me. I can explain what I think could affect value or resale. I can tell them, "If you call me in a few years and ask me to put this back on the market, these are the things I may have to explain to the next buyer."  But once I've given them the information, the decision is theirs. And sometimes buyers have an answer I can't argue with: "Margaret, maybe we'll never sell it." Fair enough. Not every home has to be purchased as an investment. Sometimes the enjoyment of living there is the return. So, yes, I will write an offer on a property I would not personally recommend. But my buyers will know my concerns before I ever put pen to paper.

Because I'd rather have a client say, "Margaret warned us about that," than ever hear, "Margaret, why didn't you tell us?"

That, to me, is buyer representation the Rome Way.

 

Should You Buy a Home When Your Real Estate Agent Advises Against It?

 

 

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Margaret Rome
HomeRome Realty
Broker/Owner/Realtor®

Baltimore, Maryland


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Ken Semler
ImpresaModular.com - Martinsburg, WV
Nationwide Custom Modular Home Builder

Margaret, viewing today's buyer as a possible future seller is a thoughtful way to balance present enjoyment with long-term marketability. Explaining floor-plan, condition, and resale concerns clearly while leaving the final choice with the client protects both trust and autonomy. Buyers may still choose the home for deeply personal reasons, but they do so with a fuller understanding of the tradeoffs. I appreciate the client-first standard behind this.

Sep 10, 2026 04:58 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Ken Semler

Thank you. This is a big issue with me. It is not about completing a number of transactions; it is about doing right by the person you work for. I would much rather hear that they were warned about a situation than "Why weren't we told?" Is your agent strong enough to give this kind of honesty?

Sep 10, 2026 06:02 AM
Kat Palmiotti
Kalispell, MT
Retired from real estate; active in life!

One thing we don't want to hear is, "You never told us that!" so sharing concerns about a home's future sale is a great idea.

Sep 10, 2026 06:19 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Margaret while it is the Buyer's decision, they would be very wise to listen to their Realtor.

Sep 10, 2026 01:06 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

George Souto

There have been more than a few times that I have shared my feelings with the buyer!

Sep 12, 2026 10:48 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I would much rather have someone tell me that I was right in warning them about something than them being upset that I didn't tell them about something, haha.

Sep 10, 2026 02:33 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Brian England

Well said!

Sep 12, 2026 10:46 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 

Buyer representation the Rome Way ... is the Right way.  

I believe we have a duty to discuss concerns with our clients. 

Sep 10, 2026 03:45 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Thanks, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Real Estate Svcs.

We do have a duty to discuss our concerns.

Sep 12, 2026 10:44 AM