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Why Working With the Other Real Estate Agent Matters

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc 10307

The Other Agent Is Your Real Client

Real estate is often described as a business built around buyers and sellers. That is true, but another relationship can make or break a transaction.

The other agent.

Once a property is under contract, the agent on the other side becomes one of the most important people in getting that transaction to closing.

You Do Not Have to Agree on Everything

The listing agent and buyer's agent represent different clients. Their responsibilities differ, and they will often disagree.

That does not mean the transaction has to become difficult.

Professional agents know how to advocate for their own clients while still treating the other agent with respect.

You may disagree over repairs, dates, inspections, financing, personal property, or contract terms. The key is to keep the conversation focused on solving the problem instead of winning the argument.

Accommodation Can Save a Transaction

Real estate transactions rarely go exactly as planned.

A lender may need another day. An inspector may have to reschedule. A repair could take longer than expected. The closing attorney may need additional paperwork. A buyer or seller may simply need a little flexibility.

Sometimes moving a date by a day or two, helping coordinate access, or answering a phone call quickly can keep a deal together.

That does not mean ignoring the contract or giving away your client's position. It means recognizing when a reasonable accommodation can move everyone closer to closing.

Communication Matters More Than Most People Realize

One unanswered phone call can create hours of confusion.

One short conversation can solve a problem that might otherwise turn into several emails and a lot of frustration.

Good agents return calls, answer questions, explain what is happening, and keep the other side informed.

Even when the news is not good, communication makes the situation easier to manage.

Silence usually makes everything worse.

The Goal Is the Closing Table

By the time a property goes under contract, everyone has invested something in the transaction.

The seller has made plans.

The buyer may have arranged financing, inspections, insurance, movers, and utilities.

Both agents have spent time putting the transaction together.

When a problem appears, the question should be, "How do we solve this?" rather than, "Whose fault is this?"

That mindset can make all the difference.

Good Agent Relationships Help Clients

After nearly four decades in real estate, I have learned that the agents who are easiest to work with are not necessarily the ones who agree with you all the time.

They communicate, stay professional, honor their commitments, and work toward solutions.

Your buyer or seller is your client, but during a transaction, the other agent becomes your working partner.

Treat that relationship carefully.

Because sometimes the difference between a contract that falls apart and a successful closing is simply two agents who are willing to accommodate each other, communicate, and keep the deal moving forward.

 

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Gwen Fowler

Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc
317 South Highway 11
West Union SC 29696
Serving Oconee County, from the banks of the Chattooga River to the shores of Jocassee, Hartwell & Keowee Lakes, and all the private lakes in between.

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The best number to reach me at is 1-864-710-4518--either by call or text.

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Dee Toohey
Innovative Realty Solutions Group - Longwood, FL
Broker, ABR, AHWD, CIPS, FMS, ePro

We are not enemies! We work together to get our customers to the closing table. There is room for all of us out there!!

Dee Toohey

Central Florida Real Estate

407.421.7915

Sep 10, 2026 01:14 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

That is what the MLS is supposed to encourage, but it is not what I see.  Cooperation is almost a nasty word in today's deals.

Sep 11, 2026 09:57 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518  Keeping things running smoothly is so important . Let's not forget; hopefully, we will have another transaction together, and if so, we want that agent to remember that we worked well together, keeping everyone calm and getting the transaction to the table in the spirit of cooperation.

Sep 10, 2026 01:23 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

I keep numbers and names for agents I enjoy working with.  I will work harder for them than for others who bring drama to the deal.   Thanks for the comment.

Sep 11, 2026 09:56 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 - This is a page for all new agents to read, read over and read frequently. And that goes for others who are in the business too. It's a two-way communication channel. There is no need to speak with syrupy words to get your client under contract and then turn into an arm wrestling match. 

Everything you wrote, Gwen is true. I admire your professionalism and how you write very important blog posts. 

Sep 11, 2026 04:48 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

I think agents need to learn to check their attitude.  Showing compassion isn't a weakness and usually helps the deal come together.  Thanks for the comment.

Sep 11, 2026 09:55 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Good evening Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 ,

I look at my colleagues almost as clients. I work with them long after a deal is done and I will work on many deals with my colleagues so I want to make sure I'm accessible and easy to work with. They always like showing my listings and it helps when I have a buyer because they know my reputation and want to work with me. Our reputations are money in the bank!

Sep 11, 2026 05:45 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Working with the other agent is good for the team.  Now I am seeing agents write the offer and then move on to the next offer before I can get it worked out. A TA is not authorized to negotiate so the deal stalls.  I want agents to be attentive to the deal until the documents are in order.

Sep 12, 2026 05:15 AM