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September 11…25 Years Later

 

Every year as this date approaches, I struggle with what to say that I haven’t already said. Yes, I could tell you exactly where I was, and about the numbness I felt for days. 

 

As I reflected on that day and all that I witnessed, two words continued to come to mind: HOME and COMMUNITY. 



I know there is strength in the differences between us. I know there is comfort, where we overlap.
Ani DiFranco 

 

On that day and for weeks after, the need to be HOME was strong…and not just our own homes but some SAFE HAVEN.

Our friend was in Houston for a trade show and was headed for the airport when flights were cancelled. He called his son and said to do whatever it took to get him HOME.


The need for connection and community is primal, as fundamental as the need for air, water, and food.

Dean Ornish

 

 

 

A few weeks later, I had to travel from FL to San Diego when the country was under a high terrorist alert.  The thought of being all the way across the country from my HOME frightened me. I brought a road atlas and the numbers of every car rental agency programmed into my phone.  I knew that if something happened, I was heading HOME. 

 

Community is much more than belonging to something; it’s about doing something together that makes belonging matter.
Brian Solis

 

COMMUNITIES helped many find a HOME until they could make it home. Remember the shop owners in NY who opened their doors to strangers escaping the debris from the falling buildings? 

 

It was the COMMUNITY in Newfoundland, Canada, Gander International Airport, and the COMMUNITY of Gander. 

 

 

You can read about it here, but these wonderful people opened their hearts and doors to the people on the 38 flights that were diverted to Gander International Airport. 250 flights were diverted to Canada on that day. 

 

7,000 passengers were stranded in a town of 10,000. Nonessential businesses and schools were closed so residents could volunteer to help. 

 

If I had a wish, it would be that we return to that time when neighbors looked out for their neighbors…strangers offered help whether they knew you or not…COMMUNITIES came together to celebrate and to help each other…and our FLAG flew proudly throughout our neighborhoods. 

 

When those in DC put their differences aside and came together on the steps of our Nation’s Capitol. 

 





A community is like a ship; everyone ought to be prepared to take the helm.
Henrik Ibsen

In every community, there is work to be done. In every nation, there are wounds to heal. In every heart, there is the power to do it.
Marianne Williamson 




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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... I so get it and even today as I've watched the news getting ready for the day, the tears have been flowing. When you talk about community it strikes home. New York City is my hometown. I have a personal relationship with the Trade Towers... I watched them being built and change the skyline of NYC. Whenever I came home from a business trip over the Queensboro Bridge from LaGuardia or Kennedy airports, I could look left and see the towers and know I was "home." I couldn't begin to tell you how many dozens of times I was in those towers when I worked in the corporate world. We celebrated my mother's 70th birthday in 1989 at the restaurant at the top of the tower. I lost one of my best friends to cancer as a result of this event. For me it's all very personal. And like you, I remember fear that day in Charlotte because I could not reach friends who worked next to the Towers, my brother taught 3rd grade in Chinatown, just minutes from the Towers. 

Sep 11, 2026 04:29 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker it's hard to imagine what it must have been like for the friends and family of anyone in NYC that day. Unable to reach them, it must have been numbing.

Sep 11, 2026 12:04 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib it was terrible, Kathy. I was beyond grateful when people finally managed to call me and tell me they were okay.

Sep 11, 2026 01:27 PM
Kat Palmiotti
Kalispell, MT
Retired from real estate; active in life!

You are right; that day brought everyone together. It's a shame it took a tragedy to do so!

Sep 11, 2026 04:38 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti sadly it often does.  All of us become complacent in our lives . 

Sep 11, 2026 12:05 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. I remember well where I was, how I heard the news and how all business in my office came to a haltt as we sat around a small TV in a conference room anxious for more news and it kept getting worse. We were all stunned beyond words and it was very quiet, but we were united in a way that can't be adequately described. 

Sep 11, 2026 05:01 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin Larry had to  make me leave the house and go out. I was numb and glued to the news. 

Sep 11, 2026 12:06 PM
Lawrence & Sheila Agranoff
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
Listing & Selling Long Island Real Estate

Kathy, This day stays with us forever. The memories may be 25 years old, but they never fade!

Sep 11, 2026 05:23 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence & Sheila Agranoff no, they don't fade. And they shouldn't. We have to remember not only what happened but how we came together as a country.

Sep 11, 2026 12:10 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

My goodness Kathy, 25 years. 

Evil not only still exists. It seems to have amplified and is taking over many parts of our country. I believe we have forgotten the ideology that caused this tragedy. 

Sep 11, 2026 06:41 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty it's hard to believe. What I do believe is that there are external forces/people who seek to undermine our country. They have already devalued our educational system. 

Sep 11, 2026 12:38 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

The whole 9/11 thing is quite something with regard to how they want us to believe that it went down, and it seems like the story they tell us is not the real story at all.

Sep 11, 2026 06:49 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England I suppose we believe what we choose to believe.

Sep 11, 2026 12:38 PM
Brian England

Yes, there are too many people in the world who choose to believe things that are not true and support people who do not tell the truth, haha.

Sep 11, 2026 01:30 PM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Good Morning Kathy Streib 

I enjoyed reading your post. We all have common threads in how we reacted to what we witnessed. I especially liked this quote: "A community is like a ship; everyone ought to be prepared to take the helm."

Henrik Ibsen

Sep 11, 2026 07:57 AM
Kathy Streib

Doug Dawes I love that quote. I wonder how prepared some of our young people are. 

Sep 11, 2026 12:39 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

My memory is not what it used to be BUT 9/11 is burned in there...My brother was on business in NY right in the middle of it. We couldn't reach him by phone for much of the day. I left several messages. When he finally called, crying and describing the fear and smoke and the terrified people running down the street I was so relieved to know he was alive and unharmed. Unharmed physically, but mentally he was a mess. To this day when we speak about it he gets emotional. And he wasn't even in any of the buildings. I can't begin to imagine the pain of those who escaped the buildings and the families who weren't as lucky as mine was. 

Sep 11, 2026 08:07 AM
Kathy Streib

Sharon Tara I can't imagine what it was like not to be able to reach your brother. I would have been frantic. 

Sep 11, 2026 12:40 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Good morning Kathy,

Loved your post on 9/11. I will always remember the terrorist attack on our country. I was in shock most of the day from the horrific events that unfolded. Then it sunk in the chant Death to America is real! There are those with such a strong hatred of what our country stands for, who we are, our beliefs and entrepreneurial spirit they want to eradicate us! I've been watching the news this morning and so glad to see the reflection of the day 25 years ago and reading of all those names!

Sep 11, 2026 08:10 AM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX  hatred is a cancer that feeds and grows from ignorance. I had to stop watching the news this morning and go out and help our neighbor.

Sep 11, 2026 12:42 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks, Kathy, for sharing some of your memories.

Have a great day!

Sep 11, 2026 08:25 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Roy Kelley and thank you for stopping by.

Sep 11, 2026 12:42 PM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

I know what you mean about struggling with the memory Kathy. Especially, when we realize that 1/3 of our nation today was not even born when the 9/11 tragedy occurred. Very similar to the feelings of Americans on D-Day the day that will live on in "infamy". The next generation after D-Day did not feel it personally, just heard the stories. Jeff

Sep 11, 2026 08:48 AM
Kathy Streib

Good point Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI  While I was not born during D-Day, my father was a photographer on a plane over the beaches that day. Now on June 6, there seems to be barely a mention of June 6.

Sep 11, 2026 12:44 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, late to the party, but we shall NEVER forget this dreadful day and not forget all who lost their lives.

Sep 11, 2026 10:51 AM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner   We need to make sure our schools are telling the story.

Sep 11, 2026 12:45 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner

I hope they are Kathy!

Sep 12, 2026 01:25 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

I can so relate Kathy.  I'll never forget that day and watching the 2nd plane fly into the 2nd tower. Totally in shock for days and weeks.  What did happen hear is all our friends wanted to be together so that's what we did.  Every  night everyone brought a dish and we hung out at 'home'. And sometimes we'd sit outside and the fighter jets would fly around protecting the city.  My heart is heavy today.

 

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Sep 11, 2026 12:08 PM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten   Our country had lived a "sheltered" life. Wars were fought somewhere else. And, with the exception of Pearl Harbor, we were untouched. 

Sep 11, 2026 12:47 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy it is a shame that the unity that followed 9/11 did not last very long, and now our country is as far apart as we have ever been.

Sep 11, 2026 02:52 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

That day is etched in my mind and heart, Kathy. Feeling unsafe, especially after watching the 2nd tower being hit was surreal. Those murdered, went to work to support themselves and/or their families because that is what Americans do, not sit around, depending on our tax dollars to fund everything simply because they crossed the border.

Sep 11, 2026 05:42 PM
Corinne Guest
Corinne Guest - Lake Barrington, IL
Retired Broker. FX Trader, Golden Retrievers.

Driving home from school drop off, my music was interrupted with the news. It was very garbled and not really clear until I got home and turned the TV on. I was supposed to be going for lunch with friends and dinner with hubby as it is my birthday. I cancelled those plans. Since then, although I literally cannot forget, I have since celebrated my birthdays as they come and go.

Sep 21, 2026 07:58 AM