Wow, I am amazed..

Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX EDGE
I sat at my computer and was at the end of my rope, when I started bloging about my friend Carol, I figured getting it in writing might help me in this painful process... I never expected the awesome comments that I received , unexpectedly the active rain community has stepped up to the plate and given me an positive outlook in my life and they don't even know me? .. in my head I think ,,?  how does that make sense that people that don't know me can make me feel so secure.. If I carried AC around with me all the time, my thought's would be so much clearer..... having this  support system is somewhat unbelievable...  I will keep each and every thought from you on my page so I can revert back to it when I feel blue...  I know That I am new to AC  , and I never knew exactly what I was going to use this site for, well now I know and I thank each and everyone of you for it...

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Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL

Well Kristie, WELCOME TO ACTIVE RAIN!!!  I pray that your experience here becomes very rewarding!

There is much to learn from a very large diverse community of caring and professional people.  It's like taking a book from the library and ingesting the chapters! God Bless you in all of your future adventures here in the Rain!  These are for you:


Mar 18, 2007 04:21 AM #1
Alexander Harb
Knights Investing - Mesquite, TX
Dallas, Texas Real Estate Investing

God bless you, Kristie!!!!

I hope we let you know what it is like to be in a loving family here in "The Rain".....

I am glad you joined us....


Mar 18, 2007 04:56 PM #2
Diane Rice
Rice Prprty Mgmnt & Rlty, LLC, South Holland, IL - Lansing, IL
Hi Lisa - been away for a spell..... How are you and how is Carol?   
Jun 13, 2007 03:22 PM #3
Kristie Weber
RE/MAX EDGE - Saint Charles, MO

still in the hospital.....  she lost her mind to the kemo, she is awake but no-one is home...  blank stares

 I no longer beleive that our day was the reason for her meltdown... 

doctors have told me different , they said I was lucky to have one of her last day's...

Is it really true , we are loosing her? 

I just pray that if this is what is to happen... Clay( her first husband) and Joe,(her brother) set a table in Heaven for her and plan a wonderful Purple and Royal Blue arival, For she would know that the colors came from her girls....     We love you


03/26/2007 by Kristie Weber Edit Delete


I pray Gods comfort and peace be with you....... You said Carol was a Christian...... I am sure she is ready to meet "He with whom we have to do".....

I pray her passing is gentle and peaceful....



03/26/2007 by Alexander Harb "The Knights Team" PSEM®, E-AGENT® Delete Report as Spam

     Kristie, ... Carol looks like someone who knows how to celebrate life and I am sure she is going hate leaving the party.  My thoughts are with you and Carol. 


03/26/2007 by Chris and Rhonda Ruthman, Broker Owners CT & NY Delete Report as Spam

Kristie - be there ... support her... hold her hand and be her friend.    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your friends... my warmest regards

03/26/2007 by Desiree Daniels, ABR Delete Report as Spam

I will pray for your special loved one... keep up the good work.

03/27/2007 by John McKenna Delete Report as Spam


Thanks for the update. Carol's photo gives the impression of a real trooper. I will continue to keep her in my thoughts and prayers, along with her family and Friends.


03/27/2007 by William Collins, Broker Associate Delete Report as Spam

Thanks Chris, she was the party that is for sure...she will be missed...but never forgotten

 John and Desiree-your support means alot to me..when I a down I come to see your loving comments, Thank you

William-Trooper is the word, between us 5 teenage girls growing up , she did a knock out job.. thank you...

 Here is a Picture of all Carols girls......  Amy, Lisa, Me , Becky, Kim....



03/27/2007 by Kristie Weber Edit Delete

Great photo, Kristie.....

You girls look so loved and loving.....

What a family to be a part of!!



03/27/2007 by Alexander Harb "The Knights Team" PSEM®, E-AGENT® Delete Report as Spam

update,  carol is acting much more normal now   :-) , they found she had several strokes thru all of this , that is what had her so out of it, spent the day with her yesterday and she is as catty as ever, The cancer is spreading and is affecting all of her insides, we are working toward getting her to Barnes for a spot Kemo treatment?  , it doesn't look very good but at least she is aware of what is going on around her..thanks for all of your support..i really appreciate coming here...thanks for listening..

04/09/2007 by Kristie Weber Edit Delete


I know she is thankful to have people she loves and who love her there to comfort and be there......

I have never been in that situation...I would not know what to do, Kristy..... my heart breaks for you.....

I'm glad you are so compassionate......



04/09/2007 by Alexander Harb "The Knights Team" PSEM®, E-AGENT® Delete Report as Spam

Kristie - What a friend you are. God has given you a special gift in Carol & look how you have turned out!

04/19/2007 by Kathleen Lordbock of Re$ale Design Delete Report as Spam

 Thank You Kathleen,  I have a great update this time... Carol went and saw the new doctor at the hospital, he is the head Neurologist, he ran a bunch of different tests on her and stated he thought the Cancer was shrinking and he was going to go in and do spot radiation starting next week and thinks he can kill the cancer!!  long hard road considering she has a blood clot and her health is not up to par...but that was the best news all year, she called and sounded so happy, God willing she can be here longer with us than previously thought... thank you so much for all your prayers and concern, she is being watched by above!

04/21/2007 by Kristie Weber Edit Delete

God is so good all the time &  God will use your testimony & Carol's for his glory.

04/21/2007 by Kathleen Lordbock of Re$ale Design Delete Report as Spam

That is fantastic news, Kristie!!!!

It seems God has seen fit to keep her around for a while....hehehehehe

We all have been praying and I am glad God heard us and is working through the doctors to heal her....

God be glorified!!!!



04/22/2007 by Alexander Harb "The Knights Team" PSEM®, E-AGENT® Delete Report as Spam

Kristie:  Thank you for giving us the update!  I've just asked God to do a supernatural miracle as a result of her desire to LIVE!!!  Please tell Carol to be encouraged!  Diane Rice

 Thanks Diane keep it up, it is working! AMEN

 Thank you Kathleen and Alexander, your encouraging and supportive words words n-power me!


04/22/2007 by Kristie Weber Edit Delete

Carol is so blessed to have you. I pray for both of you. God be with you both. Prayer is a powerful tool when we use it!

04/30/2007 by Gary Waters Delete Report as Spam

Update.....  well the doctors have told us that the small cell lung cancer is not treatable, it is to close to her lungs and might kill her, either way she will pass . So.... she is doing much better with this whole thing, she gets us girls together and makes sure she is passing down things for us to remember her by, Telling us all of her story's, Singing her songs ,reminding us of our responsibility's, we are starting to go thru her things to clean out some of her rooms full of everything..... she figures that will be less stress for Bill when she passes.. This is all so very humbling, she is such a remarkable woman.  I will aways and forever love Carol

Thank you all so much for your sincere comments, it was a blessing to have you ...



06/04/2007 by Kristie Weber Edit Delete

Carol is doing the right and responsible thing in going thru her things  and passing on what she wants to whom she wants, but even more important are the stories, the songs, and the love. None of us knows how long we have (not even Carol really) and yet we hold on to our stuff, our grudges, our hurts - and that is what we pass on to others.

Thank you for sharing Carol with us! 



06/05/2007 by Kathleen Lordbock - Re$ale Design & Home Staging Delete Report as Spam

Your Welcome Kathleen, Thank you for listening....  she has made such a huge mark in our life's, she will never be forgotten and always be treasured.  To have had that life experience with any one person in a lifetime is such a blessing..

06/06/2007 by Kristie Weber Edit Delete

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