Last weekend both of my parents' families held their annual reunions. The Dixons got together in their home town of Waycross on Saturday. To be more precise, their home town is Blackshear, but most of them now live in Waycross. About 80 Dixons, in-laws, aunts, uncles and cousins showed up. The next day, Sunday, the Murray-Etheredge reunion was held at the Concord United Methodist Church in Schley County. Again, for the sake of accuracy, it should be said that my mother was a Lawhorn. But her particular Lawhorn family is now history except for her youngest sister, the last survivor, who is 88 and lives in Gwinnett County. My mother's mother was an Etheredge (Cora) who married a Lawhorn (Fred D.). Both are buried with an infant child at the cemetery at Concord. Through my mother, I am descended from the Etheredges, Murrays and Lightners who settled in the Concord area in the mid-1800s. And so it is that I attend the Murray-Etheredge reunion every year on the third Sunday. It's always good to see kinfolks. In the back of your mind you know you could be seeing some of them for the last time, life expectancies being what they are. My dad was one of 13 children of whom six remain. They posed for a picture Saturday. Then their children all stood together and smiled for the cameras, and then the children's children. At this stage of my life, I know the names of the older generation, but few of the younger ones. As the elders go on to their reward in eternity, the families continue to grow but I know fewer and fewer names. In due time, I, too, will drop off the rolls. Truth forces itself upon us. We deal with it. After our sumptuous meal at Concord Sunday afternoon, a bunch of us rode over to the Philippi Primitive Baptist Church and cemetery. The old church building still stands, but for how much longer? My cousins Margaret McMickle Gooding, Norman Manning and I were old enough to remember attending services and dinner on the grounds at Philippi. Inside the church, the men sat on one side and the women on the other with an aisle between them. The congregation practiced foot washing. I recall seeing that symbolic act performed as members seated on the front pew would place their feet in a metal wash basin to be washed by other members. If you have memories of people and events in Ellaville and Schley County, you would enjoy visiting the Yahoo group "Ellaville Memories." It is there for anyone with Ellaville or Schley County roots to post their memories and old photos. The website is moderated by former Ellaville resident Ernie Jones. It is entertaining and informative, and it serves as well as a repository of vignettes and pictures of people and the things they did years ago. Another valuable source of Ellaville and Schley County history is the Schley GenWeb site maintained by Harris Hill, a Florida resident with strong Schley County ties. Harris is indefatigable. He has transcribed many articles from old newspapers that served the area over the years including The Ellaville Sun. If history interests you, visit (and contribute to, if possible) these informative websites. We must not bury our history.
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