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I joined The Rain on October 04, 2007 and shyly surfed the site for the first 10 days. No comments, no posts, in fact I hardly understood the concept of "Blogging." Blogging, it's not even in the spell check system. How important can it be if it hasn't made the spell check system? (hint, hint Active Rain Team). I thought what the heck, I'll look into it now that I'm here.

My first post was on October 14, 2007. Nervous, yep, after seeing the post that some of the seasoned (OK, old timers) Rainer's were posting.

But, what to write? Would I get comments? Will I make a mockery of myself? What would a Blog do for me? Why do I want to subject myself to these dreadful thoughts?

I found a description of What a Blog is by Mike Tyler, I feel he said it well.

Mike wrote: What is blogging?
"Simply put, it's a daily posting of someones thoughts on a web page. Postings are like small articles from the Blog's author. The subject matter of these postings is as varied as human beings themselves. Some are trivial - some of more substance."

I wrote that first post and reluctantly pressed the submit button, boom, there was my writing out there for the world to see, yow. Then I sat back and watched for two days while the comments rolled in, wow, three total. Hey, what about these old timers seasoned Rainers who were getting 50-60 comments per post, what did I do wrong? Maybe no photo's, OK I added one, hhhmmm, no additional comments.

So, on October 16th I tried another, wow, 15 minutes later my first comment, hey this is much better. Of course that was the only one I received, dang. Now I'm losing my will to be a Blogger of the World.

Now it's October 17th, and another shot at stardom, my post goes live and a day later, no comments, I could hear in my head the little sound when Pac-Man gets gobbled up and he disappears. Failed, washed up, done, gone. So desperate I tried to kick start the post myself, naughty me. Nope that didn't work either.

Not ready to give up, I kept posting to try to figure out the secret in The Rain. I adopted the concept of acknowledging the comments (an important etiquette of Blogging) which helped keep the posts alive and build camaraderie with the Rainers.

Finally on November 12, I wrote a simple fun non-business post and yeehaa I went into double digit comments, bingo! I found the secret, off to my next post now that I know what it takes. You guessed it, the next post netted one comment, shoulders drooped again and chest dropped back to my waist. Now that I look at these past posts, I made some Newbie mistakes.

  • Lack of Photos
  • Titles that didn't grab the readers attention
  • Not acknowledging Comments
  • Not asking for help or input
  • Not being "Active" in The Rain
  • Not visiting and commenting on other members posts right away (Networking)
  • Not reading the many helpful posts provided by the Active Rain Staff (see the new Group Help/FAQ) and members (see the Active Rain Newbies Group)
  • Not submitting my posts to certain Groups that the post met the Guidelines

Today, I have found the importance of being "Active" in The Rain. The site name says it all and the Newbie who gets involved from the very beginning will find that this "Blogging" thing can be phenomenal.

On a side major note, I wanted to let you know how helpful the old timers seasoned members and the Active Rain Team is, here in The Rain. Drop a line to any member and 9 times out of 10 you will get a helpful answer to your question or at least you will be pointed in the right direction. Or you can go at it like I did and be the guy who doesn't ask for directions and head down a few wrong roads.

It's up to you to light the World on fire. Don't expect to be a super-star from the get go. We all had to crawl before we could walk, and blogging is much the same way.

Don't get discouraged, we all started out as Newbies. Even the well seasoned member is learning every day. Ask those questions you have, put it in a post to get different input. Nobody is going to look at a question as being stuppid stupid. Get rid of the pride and ask away.

You will find The Rain, to be a educating, informative and a fun part of your business. Plus, the family and friends across the nation you will acquire as you get involved will surprise you, it did me.

So, dive in and take a refreshing swim in The Rain. It will remove the feeling of the title of this post.

Have Fun and Welcome to the Active Rain Family!

 

Anyone involved in the Real-Estate Industry is invited to join Active Rain.

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Rate A Home - Saugatuck, MI

Michael, LOL on the delete, I have a few OK quite a few that I should probably do the same.

Jul 27, 2008 11:38 PM
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Nannette, LOL, I would have to guess you wrote a great post as you usually do. I've not yet reached the status of having a featured post, in fact kind of gave up on the thought, LOL. I'll just keep flying under the radar.

Thanks for stopping by,

Duane

Jul 28, 2008 12:16 AM
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Hal, I'm with you on the "Fluid" part, in fact many times I think I'm all wet, grin. Thanks for visiting and commenting and enjoy that sunny day.

Duane

Jul 28, 2008 12:26 AM
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Kathy, thank you. It does take extra time going to each commenter's post, but I have found so many great posts that way that I'm sure I would have missed otherwise. I'm off to your now.

Jul 28, 2008 12:55 AM
Mary Strang
Viroqua, WI

Duane, Nice post, you have been very active and I enjoy reading many of your posts. The only thing left out is the commitment of time to blog, it can be time consuming.

Jul 28, 2008 01:19 AM
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Edie, the biggest fear, no comments on a post, but I found its all part of growing up in The Rain.

Jul 28, 2008 01:46 AM
Debbie Small
Long & Foster Realtors - Martinsburg, WV
REALTOR

Duane...great post. I too was nervous at first and still am at times. Nobody wants to sound dumb or appear to be gaming the system. Just write from your heart and read, read and read. It's really fun!

Jul 28, 2008 01:57 AM
Becky Respess
Broker/Associate Century 21 Judge Fite Co - Cedar Hill, TX
ABR, CRB, CRS

Great post Duane! I really appreciate you for your great posts and your concern for the members of the Rain. Thank you for being a good friend.

Jul 28, 2008 04:43 AM
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Rate A Home - Saugatuck, MI

Dale, good reminder for the Newbies and, umm, seasoned posters as well.

Jul 28, 2008 06:55 AM
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Rate A Home - Saugatuck, MI

Matt, thanks for stopping by. I was looking at the current Poll earlier, thinking it time to replace it. Have any ideas for a Poll?

Jul 28, 2008 08:10 AM
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Christine, I did stop by your post earlier but thanks for giving me to reason to get moooooving.

Jul 28, 2008 08:22 AM
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Mary, good point. By the time we answer the comments and visit the persons post to comment, it becomes quite a process. That's just my steps I take, but you can see how far behind I get with my own post's comments.

Jul 28, 2008 08:25 AM
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Debbie, good input, I agree the reading of others post has helped tremendously.

Jul 28, 2008 09:29 AM
Dan Woodworth
The Connection - Garden City, ID
Encouraging Communicator

Hi Duane, You are a creative, risk-taking, encouraging, inspiring team player and TEAM LEADER!  You got out of the boat and walked on the water!  You are still walking on the water!  Are you sure you aren't The Rain!  I think you're like Clark Kent!  Where is your phone booth?  Will the real Duane please reveal himself?  Your name isn't Superman!  It's The Rain!   Thank You for sharing your story!

Jul 28, 2008 03:24 PM
Dale Baker
Baker Energy Audits and Commercial Properties Inspections - Claremont, NH
New Hampshire Relocation Real Estate Information

Howdy Duane

It's sure is nice not to have to do the words anymore.

I just came back to sorry wrong post for this here comment.

Sure don't know how I ended up on this one.

Baker Home Inspection and Consulting

Jul 28, 2008 03:30 PM
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Becky, good morning, sorry for the delay in responding, been busy trying to keep up. Hope all has been going well and thank you for your kind words.

Have a fantastic day in The Rain,

Duane

Jul 29, 2008 02:12 AM
Gail MacMillan
Titusville, FL

Hi Duane - Baby you've come a long way ;-)  I relate only too well to most of the mistakes made.  Like you, I'm learning slowly every day.  Like you, I grew to understand the importance of reciprocating comments (very, very important).  With business slow right now, I'm taking the time to delve deeper into A|R and all it has to offer.  I'm just beginning to get it...and it's all good...and it's people like you that keep it good.  Thanks a million.

Jul 29, 2008 05:18 AM
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Dan, LOL, thank you, I'm honored and you have found the truth, at least others tell me I'm all wet, so I may be The Rain!!!! Grin.

Jul 29, 2008 07:41 AM
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Dale, LROL, I've done the same, but always great to see your logo in the comments. I've been loving the no passwords as well, great change.

Jul 29, 2008 11:59 PM
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Gail, thanks for stopping by, it is a learning process every day, and the great idea's of the 100k+ members is making it better each and every day. I know that the AR Team is busy with all the ideas flowing at them.

Jul 30, 2008 12:50 AM