Some people have a natural gift of Listening. Others have to work at it. Jeff Turner is one example of a good listener. I've had the pleasure of meeting Jeff a few times now, it's true what they say, when Jeff is talking to you in a crowded room, you feel like you are the only person around. This is Jeff talking to my daughter, AChrome21. He was explaining who Jeff Turner really is. We were all standing around laughing - Jeff was talking and focused on her.
Hank Baskett #84 of the Philadelphia Eagles is a friend of my daughter's. We got some time with him (while he was signing autographs) after The Eagles Training Camp.
A woman came over to him and said, "Mary's Mom is over there. She can't get to you". "I'll be right there" Hank replied.
When he was finished signing everyone's stuff (he does that).... he walked over to the woman. They embraced each other and tears flowed from her. Sobbing.
You could sense there was pain. It was a private moment, yet so touching to witness. Goosebumps. As you can see in this picture, Hank's eyes did not wander. He listened to her so focused that nothing else mattered.
It was a lesson for me. A reminder. Being a good listener is focus. I have to work at this, its not a natural thing for me. My eyes wander. I get distracted by other people around me. I interupt. Not good, but I try to work on it. I know its important for all facets of relationships. Clients, family, friends, servicepersons, etc.
I challenge you (and me!) to work on this today. Whomever you are with - LISTEN. No distractions.
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