Mirela,
I think that we all have weeks like this(though on a smaller scale) and sometimes it is just the luck of the draw. However your method of analyzing the transactions could be something that will help others. Thanks for posting!
I hope you would feel better to know that my $20M deal working for 6 months finally fall out of contract... potential commission $400K... I have an idea... below...
Great post but I prefer the line, "From the Ashes of Disaster Grow the Roses of Success!" from Chitty Chitty Bang Bang.
Every bursted bubble has a glory!
Each abysmal failure makes a point!
Every glowing path that goes astray,
Shows you how to find a better way.
So every time you stumble never grumble.
Next time you'll bumble even less!
For up from the ashes, up from the ashes, grow the roses of success!
Grow the roses!
Grow the roses!
Grow the roses of success!
...
Of course you have to dance around and sing like Dick Van Dyke to really get your blood going!
George: Why would I feel better to hear that you lost your deal? It's very sad to work so hard, for so long and end up with a big, fat zero! Chin up! Do that exercise I described in my blog. Good luck!
Mark: this is so cute! Thank you!
By the way, I LOVE Dick Van Dyke!
Arnold: Thank you! I'm glad you're employing the same method! Great minds think alike...
Joshua: Thank you!
Cathy: Good contribution:
"If nothing else, these WAR Stories are great teaching tools in the future. I have been asked to write a book for REALTORS about my experiences in real estate. Keep a journal and learn from past mistakes; but don't beat yourself up."
Thank you!
Great motivation~ We can't reach our goals if we are so afraid to fail that we won't try!
Remember to go over what you did right too!
Mirela - Oh my, how frustrating. Also impressive, but frustrating for you, I'm sure. I think the "deal autopsy" is a great idea. Hindsight of course is 20/20 and please don't be hard on yourself. In this market, you can do everything right but the market won't cooperate.
Thank you for sharing another great tip!!!
Great Attitude!
Failure is not final; success is not permanent.
Have NO Fear.
It would have been nice if ONE deal went through but then you probably would not have been prompted to do your autopsies. Hope your vacation is great.
Mirela....I can't say I had that kind of week...but I was with an out-of-town buyer on Friday for 5 hours. Looked at several condo buildings for to get a feel of them and decide which building(s) she liked best. Went to Starbucks, had coffee, chatted, met her son who's a doctor here in Atlanta...and she even asked me, "So, we are working together, right?" Well, that was 3 days and 3 phone calls ago and no response. UGH! I'm hoping it's nothing! I really liked her AND her son, and was looking forward to working with her!
The joys of our profession!
Mirela, I really respect you for looking inward, as to how to improve your skills. Obviously, if you are writing $3,000,000 in one week, you are very professional, IMO. The only way to fail is to not try! You go girl!
Mirela, My first job out of college was in the printing industry as a sales rep responsible for the industrial and Produce Market area of San Francisco. Our Monday sales meetings resembled one of my favorite movies--even when the dread takes over. GlenGarry GlenRoss.
Repeat after me "A-B-C. . . Always be closing. . . Always be closing" "Coffee's for closers put that cup down-your a loser!" "You know how much this watch is worth? This watch is worth more than that piece of _hit you drove here in tonight" "I made $900,000 last year whadidyou make?"
It's only a nightmare when you let it be one. You are that much closer to yes--be well!
dean
That happened to me last month. Just keep your head up & keep going forward! Things did come around just not like YOU had planned. Somethings just have to happen in a certain way, in a certain order. Good luck - fortitude girl!
Thanks Mirela.... I did just what yu prescribe... its part of life ... remember we don't need to close all our transactions so long as we continue to close one transactin at a time.. that's okey... there are more coming yur way...
Mirela, Your perspective is so refreshing. It sounds like your vacation is well needed and deserved. I too have a deal falling apart (it's supposed to close tomorrow). Kick back and enjoy for both of us (0;.
Ann
any post that can garner now 75 comments deserves reading. however, it was the 75 comments that left me exhausted , great article
Mirela,
You rock girl! It's easy to be your best when everything is coming up roses but keeping your perspective when everything turns to crap at once is true grace.
I evaluate my business every year just like this when the dust settles and it's a great learning tool.
From beginning to end you've brought yourself back to reality and knowing as Maya Angelou says "and when I knew better I did better". I love that phrase and in this market am quoting it alot myself. So, her's to next week. You know next week it'll all turn around. Real estate is the only place you can be on again and off again many times an hour or a day. You just keep on keeping on and it all comes together. Love your pricepoint missy. Carry on.
Terrylynn: I love Maya Angelou!
My vacation helped quite a bit, although I'm still reluctant to get back in the rink...
I agree with writing everything down when going through problems and making decisions. I have kept a journal for that purpose since October of 1998. Not only did this help me solve many problems, but looking back at past years and seeing the history is just plain good fun.
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