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Critics Spell Success-Even on Activerain! Just Write!

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Talk 2 Midori, LLC BK645709

I get inquiries frequently, as a matter of fact, I get requests, requests to write on different topics..for me its my favorite way to write.  I feel like I am writing for many..many who want to know and are afraid to ask.  Some who are intimated and some so new. 

I talk with Rainers alot..yes I pick up the phone and shoot the breeze, often time in ends up in a request for a blog post other times they talk to me in how they feel about the rain! 

Sometimes I hear they are uncomfortable...unappreciated...and nervous to write. 

My response....just write...write what comes to you...not everyone will like you...not everyone will read you but embrace the people that do! 

With over a 100,000 people on this site..understand you will have your critics.

As I go through posts I shake my head..we got the teachers..we got the pro's, we got the opinionated and we got the critics..sometimes very harsh critics.

Critics who are so seasoned in real estate...who are experts in their fields sometimes they forget they are dealing with people. 

Everyday people like you or I and that would include a potential buyer or seller.

Those same critics who complain about the FREE network we are so blessed to have..you know the same network which gives us outside blogs for FREE and the power of some very strong SEO.

It does not take rocket science to figure out that there are a variety of levels right here on the rain just like our offices and our Boards

I have to wonder, are the critics that gutsy to say it to people's face or are they safe because of the keyboard.  Probably not..the keyboard gives some people a new sense of strength...to bully...to criticize and most of all look foolish. 

And I have to ask, while a potential customer is reading what do you think they are seeing?

Complaining....Criticism....and Is it going to be a challenge to work with you?  Do I want them to have my business?  Will they be easy to deal with? 

If you are helpful on the network, do you think it matters?  It does..believe you me...just like the way you post...the way you comment and the way you interract..it matters and matters a lot.

Online behavior..maybe some should study an ettiquette book.

Last night while checking my email its the same routine, my website has inquiries...selling a home.

not one...not 2 but 3.  Does this happen to you?

I have learned so much from the rain, I think I can call myself a seasoned agent, a respectable trainer but most of all a people lover. 

I see...I know...we are not all alike...with our interests, with our thoughts and our writing much like a buyer and seller.

I can and do appreciate the differences and so does the public.  It gives them choices...variety and the right person to provide a service they truly need.

If you want to appeal to the masses, forget about the critics and write what fancies you, what interests you...because like minds will follow and so will buyers and sellers.

 

I don't always write about real estate and that won't change. For me that is what Localism is for.  People want to get to know you before they do business with you.  People want to see if you have the traits for an awesome working relationship. 

Some of my most popular posts are non-real estate related..I say most popular because these are the posts that the outsider looking in responds too.  Its these same posts that fill up my email from people relating to the same life experiences..it could very well be home seller one, two and three! 

So the next time you decide to put a post up, ask yourself this question.  How much business have I gotten from writing my blogs and what triggered people to contact me? How many referrals were happily handed to me by someone or several on the network?   Do you ask? 

Why did you select me?

I do..warmth..genuine..and informative seems to be the common words and it's funny, I write about real estate training, my life experiences and the people I meet. 

We all use Activerain for different reasons and because its not to your liking..well Go ahead get critical! 

I love the recipes and the jokes..it reminds people you are real...and you put your pants on the same way as everyone else and if I don't like something...I either get into the conversation and debate professionally...or simply..most politely say next!  It's that simple.

So don't let it shake you up!  Just write and remember in our industry criticism is not uncommon!   It's Competition....critics spell success even on the Activerain Network. 

 

midorimiller@yahoo.com
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Comments (35)

C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

Midori, thank you for your kind words, they are very much appreciated. :-)

Aug 18, 2008 11:45 AM
Kim Southern- "Sold" with Southern Hospitality
Century 21 In the Mountains - Ellijay, GA
Greetings from the North Georgia Mountains!

Midori: LOVE the line: "...because like minds will follow..."  That is my humble theory of blogging. I write about things from MY perspective, and certainly not always about real estate. I think it's as important for potential buyers and sellers to get to know who I am as a person as it is for them to know how much I know about real estate.

Aug 18, 2008 01:59 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Well, I love to write anything and everything...and one thing is for certain...I don't mind the opinions...it's the opinionated rude ones that I can do without. 

Aug 18, 2008 02:46 PM
C Tann-Starr
Tann Starr & Associates, Inc. - Palm Bay, FL

C Sally C, I second that. Some people are beyond rude...

Aug 18, 2008 03:49 PM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals

Kim-well I believe it is true..all parts of life..it seems that like minds will follow. Have you ever met someone and felt like its just so right..you know you are supposed to meet?  Well it happens to me often and usually after talking with them..many commonalities.

Aug 18, 2008 03:59 PM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals

Sally-I love the opinionated ones too but I would recatorgorize the rude ones..On the most part its pleasant but sometimes..I get sick of the griping of the content.  People complain about the content..but waste a post about it go figure.. 

Aug 18, 2008 04:02 PM
Allison Stewart
St.Cloud Homes - Saint Cloud, FL
St. Cloud Fl Realtor, Osceola County Real Estate 407-616-9904

Well Done again Midori!

You are correct- so often newcomers are nervous, fearful, or apprehensive about expressing themselves in written form.  But with practice, all will and do improve.

Aug 18, 2008 10:35 PM
Dale Terry
Yadkinville, NC

The future is here and some people don't get it.  If we want to sell real estate, mortgages, or even training, we need the power of the internet behind us.

The greatest country the world has ever known came about because men and women criticized their government. 

Aug 19, 2008 12:40 AM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals

Allison-I just wish sometimes folks on the network would be more open minded and not so quick to jump down someone's throat because they are new.  Sometimes the rain can be brutal.

Aug 19, 2008 03:28 AM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals

Homes Realty Group...please don't get me started..look at the state of the nation!  Sorry but we need to embrace...uplift and encourage vs.  me, myself and I attitude. But I know..its not your job or mine....

Aug 19, 2008 04:06 AM
Brian Belcher
RE/MAX Executive - Charlotte, NC
Charlotte Realtor

Glad to know there are other likeminded people still alive, great post!

Aug 19, 2008 10:35 AM
Troy Erickson AZ Realtor (602) 295-6807
HomeSmart - Chandler, AZ
Your Chandler, Ahwatukee, and East Valley Realtor

What a great blog.  Because I am fairly new to AR, I don't want to be criticized by those who are more experienced in blogging and SEO.  I am just looking to build relationships and learn how to get better.

Aug 19, 2008 11:48 AM
Paddy (Patricia) Pizappi
Better Homes and Gardens Rand Realty - Pine Bush, NY
Real Estate Associate Broker Hudson Valley NY

I don't mind when someone criticizes what I say and has an honest debate.  If we have opinions we have to expect that others may not agree.  That's ok because different strokes for different folks make the world go round. It is when they get rude that it crosses the line. Nicely said and great encouragement for new bloggers.

Aug 19, 2008 01:49 PM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals

Troy-welcome this is a great place to learn and grow and also SEO.  If ever you need anything..

Aug 19, 2008 02:40 PM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
Online Marketing For Real Estate Professionals

Thanks Paddy and I have to agree..I don't mind if someone doesn't agree.  I just can't stand pointing fingers..whining and complaining.  A debate is a debate..being critical..well that is another story.

Aug 19, 2008 02:42 PM
Jeremy Blanton
Myrtle Beach Homes Blog - Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach REALTOR®- myrtlebeachhomesblog.com

how would you categorize me Midori?

Aug 21, 2008 02:34 AM
Fred Chamberlin
Guild Mortgage Co - Oak Harbor WA - Oak Harbor, WA
Oak Harbor/Whidbeynulls, #1 Experienced FHA Mortgage Consultant

Midori, very well "spoken" heartfelt post. I applaud you!

Aug 21, 2008 06:07 AM
Freddy A. Saavedra
Essential Properties - Goodyear, AZ

Awesome post, thanks for posting.

Aug 21, 2008 06:08 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

I agree write and write more, everything you think of or is asked of you is a post. Critics are a great, because they may change your way of thinking and actually improve your business!

Todd Clark, Helping Families Home - www.IFoundYourNewHome.com

Aug 26, 2008 03:48 AM
Richard Baggett
AFI Mortgage - Lake Charles, LA

Good post and good information

Aug 26, 2008 04:17 AM