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Real Estate Agent with M and T property management LLC

In an office setting, I have always triedto look my best any time I go there. I have walked into closings and people are wearing jeans. Now I know that a lot of people don't "dress the part". I have been thought that what you wear is important.

I would never dress in jeans any time that I am working. I at least wear dress pants and a nice shirt. What's the deal? Has the office changed at some point and I didn't get the memo?

What do you think? Should an office have a dress code? More and more places seam to not care. One last thing, What's the deal with people going to the store in sleep wear?

Matt the MARINE say's sound off, and let me know what you think.

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Michael Krotchie
Tierra Antigua Realty, LLC - Tucson, AZ
Tucson Realtor, 520.261.MIKE
Definitely have to be a step above what everyone else is wearing, if people are in jeans and a polo, you wear khakis and a button down. Not too difficult. And if you aren't comfortable wearing something, GET OVER IT. Sometimes suits are the norm.
Apr 10, 2007 07:51 AM
Laura Karambelas
Baird & Warner Downers Grove - Downers Grove, IL
Realtor - Downers Grove
I think you have to dress for success, but part of sales is also being able to relate to the client.  Sometimes I show in the city of Chicago and I will wear a suit...but if I am showing farm property out in Marengo I will wear jeans.  I think no matter what you wear, you need to look your best.
Apr 10, 2007 08:23 AM
Chris Bradford
Bradford Realty Group - McDonough, GA
Bradford Realty Group: Henry County, Georgia

You mean some people actually wear jeans to real estate closings???

Dang, I thought my new Wall-Mart sweat britches and tee shirt was dressing up-town.

Don't tell me they also wear socks!

-Chris

Apr 11, 2007 12:36 AM
Kris Floro
All Dolled Up - Burlington, KY
I just KNEW Tony had to be from Kentucky when he said polo and khakis!  'Cause thats what we wear here-you can dress it up or down.  I love it!  Hello neighbor!
Apr 11, 2007 01:33 PM
Toronto's 2 Hounds Design: Decorating + Staging
2 Hounds Design + Home Staging - Toronto, ON
I started noticing the 'pajamas' at the grocery store some time after Walmart came to Canada....
Apr 11, 2007 01:41 PM
Mike Mitchell
Kee Realty - Saint Clair Shores, MI
REALTOR (R)

Good post Matt....... I agree with you Laura, Dress for Success! but yes sometimes it is ok to dress down in certain situations like showing farm property or vacant land etc.

Apr 14, 2007 10:40 AM
George Tallabas
RE/MAX Advantage - Nampa, ID
Idaho Real Estate
Matthew, read my post This Realtor Changed His Attire And Saw His Life Change Before His Eyes  that has received nearly 200 comments and is still being read even though I wrote it well over a month ago.
Apr 14, 2007 10:45 AM
Kevin Raymund Lao Jacinto
Coldwell Banker Pioneer Real Estate - Moreno Valley, CA

I think appearance is a major deal. Especially for a young guy like me at 22 yrs. old. But overall the major and the bottom line is how you approach your clients and preparation. Clients can sniff out people who aren't prepared and don't know their "stuff". In conclusion, dressing well is important, but the key is approach and preparation. Much continued success to you!

 

Kevin Raymund Lao Jacinto

Coldwell Banker  

Apr 14, 2007 11:53 AM
Abby Roselli
ALR Home Staging and Showcasing, LLC - Staten Island, NY
Staten Island Home Stager

Wow, awesome discussion!  Karla is right...first impressions cannot be redeemed.  If you are meeting ANYONE for the first time you should always present your best...STAGE YOURSELF!  

HHMMM, I'm feeling a BLOG opportunity coming on......

Apr 16, 2007 09:30 AM
Amber Bourland
Ozarks' Independent Realty - West Plains, MO

I disagree with a few of the comments on here about the need to dress professionally at all times. But I am also in an area where walking farmland or woods is far more likely than showing country-club homes. I do wear jeans, most of the time. Sneakers or hiking boots, too.  I do dress business casual for closings. Usually. I sell mostly foreclosures so many of the properties I enter are filthy at best, so I keep an extra set of clothes in my trunk, just in case. I am not aware of losing any deals or clients because of my casual attire, but I am aware of gaining a client who left his former agent because she wouldn't even walk property with him (high heels and a skirt w/nylons are not conducive to walking woodland). Heck, I even splurge and bring the bug-spray with! If people cannot see more to me than the clothes I happen to be in at the time, sorry- I would rather not do business with them, anyway!

Apr 19, 2007 06:20 AM
Ken Jansen
Prime Development Land CO LLC - Overland Park, KS
REALTOR, CRS, 913.908.2215

I have tried suits and I have tried Khaki's with a button down shirt. I was equally successful either way. I think it is most important to meet or exceed your clients expectations. If the people they see all day in business are wearing suits and ties, the clients would expect me to be in a suit and tie. If they do most of their business in Khakis and oxford shirts then I would wear that. I had an interview for a subdivision where the developer showed up in shorts and a t-shirt. He is a Multi-deca-millionaire. So I think...it depends...that is my final answer, Regis.

-Ken

Apr 19, 2007 12:36 PM
Lisa Hill
Florida Property Experts - Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Beach Real Estate
Our office has a dress code, which is kind of annoying when you don't have any appointments and want to be comfortable on a "paperwork" day. But I totally believe in dressing for success; making a good impression, etc. I TRY to always wear a suit to my first meeting with a new customer. I say "try" because I live in Florida and sometimes it's more professional to dress semi-professional and not be dripping sweat, than to wear a suit and be soaked.  And for closing-absolutely! Wear the suit!
Apr 20, 2007 04:36 PM
Margaret Woda
Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc. - Crofton, MD
Maryland Real Estate & Military Relocation
Yes, how you dress does matter.  That doesn't mean an agent should always be dressed in a suit, however.  Our clients consider this a casual appointment, and I think they are more comfortable if we wear business casual for looking at properties.  But then, we should be dressed in business attire for settlements and other strictly business situations.  This depends on the market, of course.  I'm outside D.C., so the dress code is a little stiffer than some other parts of the country.
Apr 22, 2007 01:07 AM
Jackie Colson
Homeward Real Estate - Tampa, FL
Miller,Tampa Real Estate - www.RealEstateSizzle.com

Professional dress depends on your market, your clients and your activity that day. I prefer to be in  a suit, or dress, but not for a home inspection or if my clients are more casual.  I am in Vienna this week for my CIPS class.  Every man, young and old, wears a suit to work EVERY day and they wore suits to class every day.  What a change from the US!  Something has changed, for the worse, since "dressing down" has become so acceptable. They also have very little crime...think about that...how many criminals do you see committing crimes in a suit and tie?

 Jackie Colson-Miller of The Real Estate Sizzle.

Apr 22, 2007 02:11 AM
Antoinette Scognamiglio, GRI, ASP
Coldwell Banker Realty - Mountain Lakes, NJ
There's no substitute for EXPERIENCE!

Closings & first few meetings with clients = business suit

Next few meetings w/clients & open house (unless it's a $1M+ home) = business casual

If I ever have to run out of the house looking like a slob, it's only for a quick errand. 

I will NEVAH EVAH understand the jammies & slippers thing in public!!!

Apr 22, 2007 07:38 AM
Antoinette Scognamiglio, GRI, ASP
Coldwell Banker Realty - Mountain Lakes, NJ
There's no substitute for EXPERIENCE!

One more thing...our office has a dress code policy for desk time and caravan.  Desk time requires business attire; caravan, no less than business casual.  If you're in the office working on a mailing or whatever, not a problem, dress as you please.

Apr 22, 2007 07:41 AM
David A. Podgursky PA
THE PODGURSKY GROUP @ Re/Max Direct - Boynton Beach, FL
THE PODGURSKY GROUP - Make the Right Move!

Clothes?

you guys get dressed?

man - you must not be busy enough!

I'm lucky to make it to the bathroom in the mornings!

hahaha

in South Florida things are more relaxed... too hot to dress up all the time... I believe down here it is important to dress "to the level"... the level of the clients you are seeing... if you know they're shorts and tee shirt types - then a tie might be intimidating... if they're tie people, then you HAVE to wear a tie. 

Chris - I always heard of Muffin Tops as wearing shoes that were way to small and spilling out the top! and whaling?? haha...

Apr 22, 2007 08:00 AM
Ethan Dozeman
Realty Executives Platinum Group - Grand Rapids, MI
Real Estate in Grand Rapids
I like to wear khaki slaks and a button up long sleeve shirt, I can role up the sleeves if it gets to hot out
Apr 22, 2007 02:50 PM
Andy Kaufman
Better Homes & Gardens Mason McDuffie Real Estate - Berkeley, CA
East Bay Sales & Investments

I think that mirroring your client is a good initial rule of thumb.

I usually dress up for initial meetings with our clients.  I also wear pressed jeans, but always with button down shirts. 

I'd probably classify my dress as the business casual version of the geek dress code in Silicon Valley.

Apr 25, 2007 04:24 PM
Dominick Gaccino
Dominick gaccino - Peekskill, NY

Inside staff i dont think matter, they can dress down-to an extent....................they should dress up when impt guests are coming thought.

 

Outside sales yes you have tro dress the part. You look like a player and people will want to deal with you. I always dress in suits when i meet clients. Always clean shaven as well.

 

lets be honest do you want to deal with someone who looks like a mtg professional or a guy who looks like hes on the way to a ball game?

 

If you show you look sucessful then people will associate that with you and feel more confident with you at 1st.......after that you are on your own to deliver

 

to a certain extent it is the same with the car you drive........you want to deal with guy driving a mercedes or a yugo?

 

Image is everything to gain business. Then you have to deliver.

 

DOMINICK GACCINO

Fisrt Suffolk Mortgage Corp

Apr 25, 2007 05:06 PM