It's not our disadvantages or shortcomings that are ridiculous, but rather the studious way we try to hide them, and our desire to act as if they did not exist. (Giacomo Leopardi)

We all know that we are good at some things. We aslo know there are things that, try as we might, we just can't seem to master them. The ridiculous thing is that we try to hide them from ourselves. We don't admit to ourselves what we are struggling with. you should evaluate yourself and make a list of what you are accomplished in and what are your biggest challenges? Then find someone who needs help in an area that you are strong, and have that person hlep you in the area they are strongest. Once you admit it, you will be able to fix it.