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The importance of NOT taking photos:

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Bryce Mohan Photography

This might sound a bit odd but I wanted to take some time to discuss the importance of NOT taking photos. In fact, I think this is an crucial topic that often gets lost among the 'which lens' and 'how do I improve' conversations.

So what are the main reasons behind this (somewhat) strange assertion coming from (of all people) a professional photographer?

  • When shooting, the camera is both literally and figuratively between you and the subject. The quickest way to step outside of the action is to take a picture. You are no longer part of the event itself but instead you are recording that event. You are likely missing some or all of the experience. This is particularly relevant when you think about family events. Does this mean you shouldn't take photos? Heck no! But I do suggest you take your important snaps, then put the camera away for a while and simply enjoy the participation.

Below is a shot of my youngest with a good family friend (left). Next to it is a photo I didn't take of my two sons playing at the same party - why not? Because I was playing with them!

  • 'Mental Photographs' are an important part of your path to better photography. A huge part of improving your photographic skills is, well...looking. Looking at other peoples photography, looking at your own photography, and perhaps most importantly looking at the world around you. I believe there is a real benefit to simply letting images filter down into your subconscious.  Doing so means your creative 'pool' has a large amount of information in it, leading to better photos! When you take a photo it tends to 'cement' itself into a sort of objective reality that in some ways can reduce it's impact on future work. This might sound a little strange but give it a try. Next time you see something you want to photograph (but don't have time or a camera) - take note of what makes the 'shot' work. Do this enough and these elements will find their way into your process for future photos!

Below is a dusk shot of a residence that garnered high praise from the design team that commissioned it (right). On the left are the photos I didn't take all those times at dusk when I instead focused on simply observing differing light and color qualities and how they influence photographs. I couldn't have made the image on the right without the (non) images on the left.

 

  • Memories can be a much better 'lens'...than an actual lens!  We all know the human memory is an imperfect mechanism at best. But that's also part of its charm! Our memories allow us to sift out the bad stuff, re-experience the good stuff...and honestly we probably embelish the latter - but it all becomes part of our personal story and that is a very good thing. Sometimes an objective measure like a photo can actually detract from that process. I think in some cases people also hold on more tightly to memories that go unrecorded because, whereas they may otherwise assign them less importance because they know they have a 'photo backup'. If this sounds like a strange concept...well, it probably is but I'm convinced. ;)  

Below is one of my favorite early shots of my oldest. As much as I like it, it doesn't hold a candle to my memories of time with him - my favorite of which I have no photos of and I'm glad of it. :)

 Cheers, -B

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Melina Tomson
Tomson Burnham, llc Licensed in the State of Oregon - Salem, OR
Principal Broker/Owner, M.S.

My hubby and I had this exact conversation about a year ago when he was lamenting our "lack"  (we have tons mind you) of photos of the kids.  I reminded him of the same thing...if you're shooting all of the time, you aren't playing and having fun.

Nov 04, 2008 07:30 AM
Kathy Nielsen
http://atlantahomestaging.net - Marietta, GA
Atlanta Georgia Home Stager

Excellent words of wisdom, Bryce.  

By the way, that last picture is simply breathtaking.  What a gorgeous son you have.

Kathy

 

Nov 04, 2008 07:31 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com

Bryce- Excellent, Excellent post. I agree. I feel like I missed out on a few family activities when I was camguy. And... I've captured some excellent pictures (by sentimental, not photo-quality standards) when I happened to have the tools on me. Since many of our best memories come from experiencing the moment rather than documenting it, you make a great point.

Nov 04, 2008 07:31 AM
Lee Jinks
Jinks Realty - McAllen, TX

Bryce, not only do you understand photography, you understand the human spirit.  You are gifted.  Thank you.

Nov 04, 2008 09:18 AM
Susie Blackmon
Ocala, FL
Ocala, Horses, Western Wear, Horse Farms, Marketing

Oh please let me follow you around for a week!!!

Nov 04, 2008 09:32 AM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

What an unusual perspective and so true. I am often conflicted at family events - wanting both to capture the moments and enjoy the moments at the same time! Some parties I end up not taking any photos at all because I want to relax and create memories.

Nov 04, 2008 02:53 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

What an unusual perspective and so true. I am often conflicted at family events - wanting both to capture the moments and enjoy the moments at the same time! Some parties I end up not taking any photos at all because I want to relax and create memories.

Nov 04, 2008 02:53 PM
Maureen Maureen
Orangeburg, NY

I love the nonphotographs of you playing with your kids.  I have TONS of them too!!!!!!!!

Nov 05, 2008 06:24 AM
Mindy & Jay Robbins
Robbins Real Estate - Dallas, TX
Expect Excellence from Robbins Real Estate

Thanks for sharing your insight.  You have gorgeous photos in this post!

Nov 05, 2008 10:43 AM
Michael Cole
CPG Tours - Corona, CA

What great insight, Bryce! And so true.

Nov 07, 2008 03:54 AM
Patt M. Judd
First Realty Company - Cookeville, TN
Realtor - Your Cookeville Connection

Yes i totally agree with you... Sometimes its better to enjoy the day and put the camera aside for a while

Nov 07, 2008 04:36 AM
John Petrella
Local Hawaii Real Estate - Hilo, HI

Aloha Bryce,

A photo is an advertisment for what our eyes have seen and what we want to share with others. 

Hilo Tea Leaves

 Sometimes we are lucky to snap or capture light

Richardson Beach at sundown

Banana leaf

in a way that makes us smile because we are blessed with the sense of sight.

Stop by, visit and talk story at our office on the Big Island of Hawaii!

John Petrella, REALTOR®
ABR®, GRI, Principal Broker

Direct: 808.640.3953
Local@LocalHawaiiRealEstate.com

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Hilo, HI  96720

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Nov 07, 2008 06:29 AM
Maria Morton
Platinum Realty - Kansas City, MO
Kansas City Real Estate 816-560-3758

How profoundly true, Bryce. Thank you.

Nov 08, 2008 05:50 PM
Everard Korthals
---Preferred Lifestyle Advisors--- - Lancaster, PA
Mountain Realty

I love this post. Sometimes by allowing yourself to get involved in a situation, you are more adept at knowing when to shoot that kodak moment.

Nov 12, 2008 02:03 AM
Bryce Mohan
Bryce Mohan Photography - Bellevue, WA

Thanks all - glad you like the post. sorry I haven't ahd time to respond one by one - things are very busy here these days! :)

Cheers, -B

Nov 12, 2008 05:26 AM
Tanya Venable
Orlando, FL
SEO, Mobile SEO, and Internet Marketing Consultant

Bryce - great post! I think if you have the balance between both then it's great. I have some older people in my family and pictures remind them of some memories that are tucked away that they may not have recalled them on their own. But once they see it, they go back!

Nov 18, 2008 07:31 AM
Debi Braulik
www.roundrealestate.com - Maple Valley, WA
Selling Maple Valley to Fife WA Homes For Sale

For me, I have my mental pictures that I treasure... but I don't really have any pics of me involved in things because I am always the one behind the lens.  I am finding this especially true now that I have a 9 month old daughter.

Feb 19, 2009 05:52 PM
Lisa VonBargen
Photography7522 - Estes Park, CO
Estes Park Real Estate Photographer

Great post, I totally agree. The dynamics of how you interact with an event are completely different if you are behind the lens all the time!

Apr 25, 2009 05:41 AM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC • Short Sale • Probate

it is funny,

but i don't see any photos,

did you delete them?

I see some mentioned that that saw pictures in this post. I'm confused...

:)

Jul 17, 2012 03:14 AM