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If it was anyone else but Teresa.......

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.......I probably wouldn't do it. But I don't want to run into her in a dark bar in New York during Real Estate Connect and have to explain why I ignored her meme. If you've never seen Teresa in a dark bar in NY, lucky you........haha.

She also asked that we immediately ban all future meme's from ActiveRain. I am seriously considering it (again, the whole dark bar and running into Teresa thing again).

So the rules of this meme:

  1. Grab the nearest book
  2. Open the book to page 56
  3. Find the fifth sentence
  4. Post the text of the next two to five sentences
  5. Dont dig for your favorite book, the cool book or the intellectual one. Pick the Closest.
  6. Tag five people to do the same

**The one book that this can not be is the Bible**

I have been flying more than normal lately. Jon always gives us books to read. If Seth Godin has a new book out, you can be assured it will show up on my desk from the book fairy with a request that I read it. So the combo of lots of flying and book reading assignments make for a great pair. So when I got this email from Teresa saying I was tagged, I leaned over and opened the zipper on my bag and out pops a little Seth Godin book, Tribes.

There is another (WOW, I have no idea how I was going to finish that sentence. I just got off a 30 minute phone call with a person that we suspended for copyright violation. I don't know how many times I have to say the same thing over and over to get the message through. I must have tried to say the same thing ten different ways. I am seriously patting myself on the back for keeping my cool......very frustrating.)

Let me start over........

There is another book in my bag, but it was buried a little deeper, so Tribes was the first one I saw. I normally read historical fiction books for relaxing and 'The Alexandria Link' by Steve Berry was just underneath. Great book but like about ten other books on my shelf right now, I haven't actually finished it. Two hour plane rides never allow me to finish the whole book and I always forget them on the next trip. The airport book store LOVES ME! Ok so Page 56 then......fifth sentence......Tribes:

"First, they're not going to do the local leadership required when tribe members interact. They're going to be so busy following the playbook that they'll hesitate about engaging in the interactions that make a tight tribe such a vibrant organization. People don't engage merely to remind on another of the status quo. Instead they eagerly engage when they want something to improve. This microleadership is essential to the health of your organization."

So there you have it. I am 99.999999999% (maybe even higher) sure that Seth Godin would not try to come after me if I posted a picture of the cover of his book, (in fact, he would probably welcome it) but with all the crap I am dealing with around copyright and trademark violations, I am just not going to post a picture, short of Seth himself stopping by and saying it's ok. (Believe it or not, my blog was recently audited by a member who I was dealing with regarding copyright violations and she went through EVERY post I have ever written to make sure my blog didn't have copyrighted or trademarked images........I had to erase one post that was questionable.)

In the spirit of outlawing meme's on ActiveRain, I am not going to tag anyone further. Is that a fair enough trade-off Teresa?

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Jeff Belonger
Social Media - Infinity Home Mortgage Company, Inc - Cherry Hill, NJ
The FHA Expert - FHA Loans - FHA mortgages - USDA loans - VA Loans

Bob... I am hearing so much about Seth's book tribes. I guess I should go out and buy it now. I am not always a book reader, especially after reading so many blogs. But I do like adventure and history...mainly anything surrounding World War II....

On another note... that ticks me off... that someone went through every fricken blog of yours, just to get you to basically eat your words. Yes, copying someone's exact words is a huge NO NO....  pictures on the other hand?  Depending on what kind, from whom, etc etc.. I think it's a fine line... but for someone that probably got nabbed for plagiarism in regards to words, I guess they don't have much business to work on... lol  SAD I tell you...

jeff belonger

Nov 21, 2008 02:04 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Bob - the nearest books to me are new home construction packages...getting ready for a relocating buyer and I'm too tired to move to get a real book. Seriously, what is a meme? The definition was  vague in wikipedia but I think it's those chain emails people send that are the MOST annoying items in my inbox? And they can have all sorts of information but the crux is "send this to....people...and this will/won't happen to you...blah, blah. Is that what you're talking about?

Thanks for the answer :)

Nov 21, 2008 02:51 PM
Rich Jacobson
Fathom Realty West Sound - Poulsbo, WA
Your Kitsap County WA Real Estate Broker

Frickin' Copycat. I should sic Harlen on ya for Plagiarism!

Nov 21, 2008 03:32 PM
Rich Jacobson
Fathom Realty West Sound - Poulsbo, WA
Your Kitsap County WA Real Estate Broker

Didn't I see a few additional titles on your desk last week?

"Sporting Attractions in Oklahoma City" by Trey Tore

"To-Mora's Another Day!" by Lee Vintown

 

Nov 21, 2008 05:57 PM
ASHEVILLE REALTY REFERRAL RESOURCE 828-776-0779
REAL ESTATE REFERRAL NETWORK - Asheville, NC
CONTACT janeAnne365@gmail.com

Bob~ 

AHA!!! and I am quoting this after having been me-me'd and etc for the hundredth time..

."Instead they eagerly engage when they want something to improve. This microleadership is essential to the health of your organization."

good advice...thanks for shairng it! =)

Nov 22, 2008 12:24 AM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

Tribes is on my to-do list.  But, when will I find time to get to the bookstore.  Oh my gosh, so much to do, so little time.  It sounds great though.  I guess I could read it at my opens which are so slow this time of year.  Thanks!

Nov 22, 2008 02:19 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

"(WOW, I have no idea how I was going to finish that sentence. I just got off a 30 minute phone call with a person that we suspended for copyright violation. I don't know how many times I have to say the same thing over and over to get the message through. I must have tried to say the same thing ten different ways. I am seriously patting myself on the back for keeping my cool......very frustrating.)"  I enjoyed our conversation, Bob;)  I need to read up more on this Godin character.

Nov 22, 2008 04:32 AM
Heather the Realtor Orlando, Lake Mary
LemonTree Realty - Orlando, FL
First Time Home Buyers, Bank Owned Homes

I keep hearing all this talk about Tribes and I guess like Suzanne I really need to add this to my to do list. Which keeps growing because im not being motivated this month.

Nov 22, 2008 05:28 AM
Lisa Hill
Florida Property Experts - Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Beach Real Estate

First of all, I agree that the MeM's should be banned. I'm sick of them. But now I'm ticked off! The bible can't be used!?! My blood pressure just shot through the roof! I'm going to stop noew before I go OFF!

Nov 22, 2008 07:18 AM
Jeremy Blanton
Myrtle Beach Homes Blog - Myrtle Beach, SC
Myrtle Beach REALTOR®- myrtlebeachhomesblog.com

Bob, I see I am not the only that hates meme's.  I think though my entry is by far the most original and accurate!

Nov 23, 2008 01:58 PM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

WidowMaker...

I have a challenge for you. I have opened a book I recently re-read to page 56 and this is what it says in para5:

"You did not stay long, the man thought. But it is rougher where you are going until you make the shore. How did I let the fish cut me with that one quick pull he made? I must be getting very stupid. Or perhaps I was looking at the small bird and thinking of him. Now I will pay attention to my work and then I must eat the tuna so that I will not have a failure of strength."

The challenge: Name the title and author of the book the quote came from?

The clock is ticking and no cheating. The rest of you just hush up and let him answer the question. It's his Blog and shame on anyone who sends him an email with the answer. If you even thought about it you're a suck up :)

P.S. Blog Boy and I have never caved on a Meme or a Book Meme. We take great pride in leading the pack in lieu of following them. No walking off a cliff for us :)

TLW...ROAR!

Nov 24, 2008 12:00 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

OH...

I think I'll turn that little challenge into another Meme. Get the hell off of MY ideas People :)

TLW...ROAR!

Nov 24, 2008 12:03 AM
Bob Stewart
ActiveRain - Seattle, WA
ActiveRain Ambassador

The Old Man and the Sea - Ernest Hemingway

Nov 24, 2008 05:05 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Very Good :)

Nov 24, 2008 05:07 AM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Who is Ernest Hemingway?

Nov 24, 2008 05:09 AM
Bob Stewart
ActiveRain - Seattle, WA
ActiveRain Ambassador

Ernest who?

Jan 06, 2009 01:31 AM
Karen Monsour
Coldwell Banker Fort Lauderdale Beach - Fort Lauderdale, FL
REALTOR, SSRS - Sells FL Waterfront, Short Sale Expert!

You ALL , well Sardi and Stewart need to come to the keys to visit his old bar in Key West, "Sloppy Joe's"...you bad!...I hope you like kitties, cats ...LOLOL.

Hate those MEME'S too...how much can you say or want to?

Feb 07, 2009 03:23 PM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Karen...

I've been there. Got so smashed I didn't mind the cats. Normally I would have picked off a few just for the fun of it :)

TLW...ROAR!

Feb 07, 2009 09:58 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Be careful, TLW.  I have two cats that are very dear to my heart.  Picking them off would not be a pleasant thing for my humble soul.  Maybe I'll have to ensure you are smashed just to protect my two four-legged friends.  Martini, anyone?

Feb 07, 2009 10:33 PM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

LOL Sardi...

Do you think God would mind if I accepted the Martini and showed up at Church smashed? :)

I would never hurt your kitty's. But my dog would. She once brought home a dead cat with a bird hanging out of it's mouth. Don't ask. I have no idea where it came from. But I envision Bird chirping, Cat Springing and Dog taking 'em both out :)

TLW...ROAR!

Feb 07, 2009 10:46 PM