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Thanksgiving Is A Reminder of A Special Kind of Memory

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

Thanksgiving reminds us to pause and in our lives look around at the blessings we have had bestowed upon us. In biology, so often we think of memory as an array of neurons and synaptic connections providing both short term and long term accounts of events in our lives. But there is a special kind of memory that is evoked with a day like Thanksgiving. These are the emotional connections. The ones that give us good feelings. A tear may well up in our eyes, you may just thank your lucky stars that you have this in your life, or been blessed by what has happened to you, or spared from disaster.

Most often this memory is related to the "goodness" of other people in your life and what they mean to you. DO NOT miss this chance, with the shortness of life for all of us, on this Thanksgiving day, to thank those that are significant in your life. THEY NEED TO KNOW. It will be a GREAT gift on your part showing this gratitude, and it will stick with them forever as a gift from your heart. May you have a blessed Thanksgiving this year.

Gratitude

"In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out.  It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being.  We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit"

Albert Schweitzer

Comments (39)

Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Gary, I wish you a wonderful Thanksgiving.  This has always been my favorite holiday--a special day to just give thanks for all the wonderful people and things in my life.

Nov 26, 2008 12:26 PM
Lisa Ryan
Callaway Henderson Sotheby's International Realty - Montgomery, NJ
Selling Princeton,West Windsor and Montgomery Town

Hi Gary~ it seems we are in the same frame of mind this evening.  As always, your posts are so positive and amazing.  Have a wonderful Thanksgiving!

Nov 26, 2008 01:41 PM
Harley Ramsey
Keller Williams - Chatsworth, CA
Chatsworth, CA Real Estate

Hi Gary,  Wise words...Happy Thanksgiving to you!  Cheers, Harley

Nov 26, 2008 01:59 PM
Bo Hussung
Bell Title /Triserv LLC - Nashvle, TN

Gary, great post (as always)! I just got back from pre Turkey day /birthdy dinner with my whole family and my Uncle came in form North Caolina, and I did exactly what you suggested. We reminisced. It is one of my favorite things to do when I am with my family and it is always the pleasant memories that are remembered.

Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving

Bo

Nov 26, 2008 03:25 PM
Dawn Helena Anderson
Coldwell Banker - Quality Properties - Porter Ranch, CA
Realtor Since 1998

Gary,

It is always such a "breathe of fresh air" to read your blog!  "Happy Thanksgiving"

 

Nov 26, 2008 03:34 PM
Laura Watts
Positive Properties, LLC - Laurinburg, NC

Gary-You are so right. It is a time to be thankful for the blessings that we have been given and the family and friends.  HAPPY THANKSGIVING.

Nov 26, 2008 04:47 PM
Jesse Clifton
Jesse Clifton & Associates - Fairbanks, AK

Gary... a wise post for this Thanksgiving Day.  Have a wonderful day and enjoy the many blessings around you!

Nov 26, 2008 06:25 PM
Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR
Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA
SRES, e-PRO,ABR,GREEN,CSP

Gary,

Nice post and I wish you and yours a very safe and happy Thanksgiving.

Nov 27, 2008 01:20 AM
James Wexler
wexzilla.com - Scottsdale, AZ

Gary W - we have all been focused on a trying year for the world of real estate, but there is still so much to appreciate and be thankful for

Nov 27, 2008 01:38 AM
Eric Bouler
Gardner Realtors, Licensed in La. - New Orleans, LA
Listening to your Needs

Have a nice Thanksgiving, I am going to my sons in-laws for the day. The son with two sets of twin boys so he needs help. Tahnks for all the nice comments during the year. Eric

Nov 27, 2008 01:45 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Gary!  Beautiful Thanksgiving post!  There is SO much to be thankful for these days and I hope that you and yours have a blessed Thanksgiving and a wonderful, prosperous year's end!

Debe in Charlotte

Nov 27, 2008 02:27 AM
Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty, Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes

Happy Thanksgiving! Whew it's been a long day. I know I will sleep good tonight. All the family was at peace this year. It felt good.

Nov 27, 2008 10:15 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Teresa, Linda, Carole, Lisa, Harley, Bo, Dawn, Laura, Jesse, Dan, James, Eric, Debe, Lizette:

Hope you all had a good Thanksgiving day as I did. Got to go grab some pumpkin pie and ice cream. Enjoy that family and those friends when they are nearby.

Nov 27, 2008 10:49 AM
Elizabeth Cooper-Golden
Huntsville Alabama Real Estate, (@ Homes Realty Group) - Huntsville, AL
Huntsville AL MLS

Gary, Just as I suspected: Another beautiful writing from you.   Gifted, oh yes!  I'm so thankful to have had the pleasure to have you be a part of my life.  You change lives daily with your words.  Special, that's you!  Thank you for ALWAYS being so kind, gentle, caring and thoughtful. 

I hope you had a wonderful Thanksgiving today.  You were on my "Thankful" list:)

Nov 27, 2008 12:58 PM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Hello Elizabeth: I appreciate you putting me in your thanks; you are a blessing to me too.

Nov 27, 2008 01:39 PM
Maria Morton
Platinum Realty - Kansas City, MO
Kansas City Real Estate 816-560-3758

Thank you Gary. Happy Thanksgiving.

Nov 27, 2008 02:47 PM
Cathy Lee
CL Design Services Home Staging - Danville, CA
ASP, IAHSP, RESA Danville, CA

 I wanted to end my day reading your post-it is an inspiring way to end my day!! This is a beautiful post Gary!!!  At our table today my 3 yr old gradson told us he is thankful for "pasta".    :)

Nov 27, 2008 03:17 PM
Susie Blackmon
Ocala, FL
Ocala, Horses, Western Wear, Horse Farms, Marketing

I love rekindling my inner spirit... especially when it's not expected! Life is such an exciting adventure.

Nov 28, 2008 01:07 AM
Anonymous
s.lee.p wasn't going to let this post slide by without saying th

Hi Gary-I've had a wonderful afternoon catching up on all the blogs I missed while I was away. I loved each and everyone of them. I've read each one and commented on everyone but the one with the prickly shoe. This is the last one I had to comment on but it is one I will be sure to comment on as I want to make sure a very special man knows how significant his friendship is in my life.(Your words below)

"Most often this memory is related to the "goodness" of other people in your life and what they mean to you. DO NOT miss this chance, with the shortness of life for all of us, on this Thanksgiving day, to thank those that are significant in your life. THEY NEED TO KNOW. It will be a GREAT gift on your part showing this gratitude, and it will stick with them forever as a gift from your heart."

Even though I haven't chatted with you very long, I do need you to know this. ALWAYS.  You've taken a chance on someone who didn't know. You've been caring, giving, generous with your time and an truly amazing friend already. While some things will still take time for me to be comfortable with, that has more to do with me, than you, because you have been very, very good to me and I do trust you, more than you know and that makes me smile the biggest smile. You are a very, very special person and I am blessed tenfold because you opened your heart to a stranger. That my friend is PRICELESS! I hope this small little comment(OK maybe not so small) you will know is a small gift on my part that I'm sending you as a token of my respect, admiration, and gratitude "straight from my heart to yours". I hope your Thanksgiving was as special as you. You deserve it.

God Bless you Gary Woltal(love the pronounciation of your last name) Take care "You are truly the wind beneath my wings"  ((((GARY HUG))))

Nov 30, 2008 07:41 AM
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Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Maria: Hope you had a good Thanksgiving!!

Cathy: I love that thankful for pasta thought. Kids are great.

Susie: Life is a ride for sure.

s.lee.p: Thank you as always for all your thoughts. Big smiles to you.

Nov 30, 2008 12:47 PM