Don't confuse talking with engaging

By
Services for Real Estate Pros with Stucky Design, Inc.

Engaging customers is far more that just spouting words. Engagement is all the arts of listening, conversation, observing, managing expectations, and and assessing the situation all rolled into one.

You may not realize it but you are setting expectations before you even hear from a potential client. The company you are associated with, the look and feel of your advertising, your web site, your relationship with previous clients and sign you put in front of a property all start setting expectations. By the time a new client has called you they have probably been engaged by you at least three times. This means every business decision you make should be based on how it engages the customer. Will it be positive or perceived as negative? 

One of my pet peeves is showing up to an appointment on time (usually a few minutes early) and then having to sit and wait for that person for another 10 minutes past our scheduled time. I made the effort and I expect them to as well. Yet I see realtors do this all the time. Who is more important here, the customer or you? If the customer has to wait too long the engagement will be off, permanently.

Cell phones also kill engagement. When your cell phone goes off in a meeting it interrupts engagement and prioritizes importance. If you take the call, the client is now at least second on the list. If you look at it and deem it not worthy of taking right now, it says this one was not more important than you are, but the next call might be. Turn the phone OFF for the meeting.

One great way to engage is come prepared. Know the neighbor they live in or in they are from out of town, know something about the state they are coming from. Have useful information at the ready, area facts, schools, income, population, know what homes have sold for in their area in the past. Come ready to engage.

This may seem like common sense, but as a good friend of mine told me “common sense, isn’t that common”.

Malcom Gladwell in his new book “Outliers: The Story of Success” ( Publisher: Little, Brown and Company, 2008) talks of Practical Knowledge.  Gladwell points out that Practical Knowledge is the ability to listen,observe, and assess the situation and react accordingly. I really like the is term Practical Knowledge which is different from Analytical Knowledge. Analytical Knowledge is brain smarts, you know the ability to divide irrational numbers without paper or calculator, understand physics and so on. The point is that engaging customers requires Practical Knowledge. You must be able to listen as well as talk, see as well as be shown, lead as well as follow. Customers want the relationship to be successful, that is why they hired you, so they are willing to provide you with all the information you need to find them a perfect home or the perfect buyer for their home if you are able to engage them enough to get the information.

On your next appointment don't think about what you are going to say, think about how your are going to engage.

 

Comments (6)

Randall Schrader
Competitive Insurance of Dundee - Dundee, FL

I just had a fellow mortgage broker call for guidance and then he put me on hold while he read an email.  LOL

I gave him the info he needed and then he calls back in a few to get more detailed info!  C'mon!

Dec 03, 2008 01:22 AM
Randy Parker
Real Living Advantage - Dalton, GA

Great Post Doug, I needed this reminder.  I'll probably save this post for later reference.  Thanks!

Randy

Dec 03, 2008 01:50 AM
Li Read
Sea to Sky Premier Properties (Salt Spring) - Salt Spring Island, BC
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Wow!     Terrific post!     This needs to be noted again and again.   

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Dec 03, 2008 11:09 AM
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Ellie McIntire
Ellicott City Clarksville Howard County Maryland Real Estate - Ellicott City, MD
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My pet peeve (albeit slightly related) talking to someone wearing a bluetooth. Even worse is when they answer it while talking to me!

Dec 03, 2008 01:08 PM
Bethany Phillips, MBA
Fredericksburg, VA

Lets say it again... Turn off the cell phone when in a meeting!

Dec 03, 2008 02:32 PM
Doug Stucky
Stucky Design, Inc. - Wichita, KS

Cell phones, bluetoothes, being late are all engagement killers.

Knowing about your clients soccer team, the schools they are about to move to, or a handful of great restaurants in the area of home you are looking at are all great engagement boosters. So is a website that is easy to get around in with images that load quickly and provides good information. Look at all aspects of your business as engagement opportunities.

Dec 04, 2008 08:54 AM

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