Special offer

STOP. Be Where You Are.

By
Real Estate Agent with Cherimie Crane & Associates

Print listings, get directions, update lockbox, preview homes, clean out car, and show property. Repeat. How many times do we do this?

Maybe more a few years back, right?

Do you enjoy the process? Are the motions second nature so much that at the end of the day you can't recall much about the houses, the reactions, or even the entire day?

Do you get to the third house and wonder how you even got there?

While in Japan, I studied their "mindful" approach, I spent my days speaking to elders, young women, and business men who are able to transcend the rote routines of daily life.

It was nothing short of fascinating.

It isn't natural for me, it doesn't happen automatically. I have to make an effort to be mindful. It is an effort that is greatly rewarded when accomplished.

I force myself and my mind, to be in the moment.

I speak with my clients, really speak with them. I listen to their observations about the drive, the scenery, the traffic, or lack thereof.

When we arrive at a property, I pay close attention to their reaction. I unlock the home and allow them to lead the way. I enjoy the moment.

It isn't easy. My mind often wonders to the next property, the next drive, the next....everything.

STOP. Be where you are.

It has certainly made a difference in the entire experience for myself and my buyers. I am truly there with them.

Enjoy the experience. Be mindful.

Posted by

 

Whether you are buying or selling Real Estate in Beaufort South Carolina, We know Beaufort. Our little coastal town has something for everyone.

 

843-812-2090

 

Diane Daley
Caron's Gateway Real Estate - Northumberland, NH

Enjoying each new customer/client and learning what their desires and wants are reallly make me feel great when we find the perfect home for their needs.  Thanks for sharing and reminding us to stay in the moment... 

Dec 06, 2008 03:29 AM
South Austin Real Estate Blog
Sky Realty South Austin - Austin, TX

Cherimie.. what an insightful posting.  I know what you say is correct because I hit upon it some time back and didn't realize it was being mindful..  I just made a concentrated effort to pay attention to the details.  Thanks for the clarity and I think I can take it a step forward with your description and for this I thank you.  :)

Dec 06, 2008 03:31 AM
Cristal Drake
Prudential California Realty - Fullerton, CA
Realtor - Fullerton Real Estate

Cherimie!  What a great reminder to be present!  You are right, it is work and often times we get so caught up with what's next or where we are going. We forget to BE.  When I actually do stop and take the time to "be" with someone, it can be so amazing!  Thanks again for the reminder!

Dec 06, 2008 03:33 AM
Terri Kincaid
ERA Brokers Consolidated - Mesquite, NV

This is absolutely true. So often, we go through the motions and miss the day entirely. Great post!

Dec 06, 2008 03:35 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Very Ture...sometimes we just need to get back to reality!

Dec 06, 2008 04:08 AM
Cherimie Crane
Cherimie Crane & Associates - Beaufort, SC

Caron and Gail,

Thanks for commenting. It really makes a difference to everyone when each person actually participates in the experience.

Dec 06, 2008 04:28 AM
Cherimie Crane
Cherimie Crane & Associates - Beaufort, SC

Cristal,

Isn't it funny how something so simple makes such a difference!

Terry,

Thanks for stopping by. Being mindful is something that I truly work at each day.

 

Dec 06, 2008 04:30 AM
Tony & Darcy Cannon
Aubrey and Associates Realty - Layton, UT
The C Team

This is great advice, and something that I really need to work on.  Too often I allow my mind to wander when I need to be there with a client or in the now.  Thank you for this advice!

Dec 06, 2008 04:32 AM
Shirley Parks
Sands Realty 210-414-0966 - San Antonio, TX
Broker, 210-414-0966, San Antonio TX Real Estate

Hi Cherimie -- Thought provoking post.  I have a hard time getting my heart and mind into blogging because I would rather interact with people in person where I can be "in the moment."

Dec 06, 2008 05:02 AM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

It's called FOCUS. There are way too many distractions in the modern world. You have discovered an age old wisdom and thanks for the reminder :)

Dec 06, 2008 05:08 PM
TeamCHI - Complete Home Inspections, Inc.
Complete Home Inspections, Inc. - Brentwood, TN
Home Inspectons - Nashville, TN area - 615.661.029

Cherimie, Interesting concept. It is harder to do than we think. Great words of wisdom. Thanks for sharing this with all of us...

~~ Michael

Dec 06, 2008 08:21 PM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri - Des Peres, MO
SelectAnn.com

Cherimie,

This is a great post.  It is difficult to do this sometimes.

Thanks for the reminder,

Ann

Dec 07, 2008 02:55 AM
Tracy Santrock
Santrock Realty Group Inc. , - Cary, NC
Raleigh - Cary Broker

I just found your blog!  Cherimie, you lived in Japan? I haven't read the rest of your blog but you must share your experiences.

Dec 09, 2008 10:05 AM