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Social Media: It's About the Contact, Not the Conversation

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Social Media: It's About the Contact, Not the Conversation

We have a real treat for you today here at the Tomato.  Brian Brady, easily one of the most well-known Mortgage Bloggers on the planet, has just delivered to us, a solid piece on a topic that we both feel really needs some clarity: Social Media. 

If you are struggling to embrace social media as a viable marketing strategy, this post, and the announcement at the end is your ticket to success.

It's About the Contact, Not the Conversation

By Brian Brady

Google calls me "America's #1 Mortgage Broker" but funding loans is not what I do for a living.  You might consider yourself to be a "real estate consultant" or a "short sale specialist" but I assure you that your job is not selling houses. 

You and I are Marketers...Salespeople...Client Attractors.  Our number one job is to find prospective clients.  Now, I know that many folks detest that role. Nobody likes the pushy insurance agent at the Chamber of Commerce meeting or the overbearing stock broker at the family picnic.  In contrast, many of us embrace the Web 2.0 revolution as a way to generate business.  Certainly, blogging is one medium to attract clients BUT...

Blogging ain’t enough if you want to put up big numbers on the scoreboard.  I play this game to win so I'm all about scoring points.  Every day, I want to hit a grand slam, catch one in the end zone, score a hat trick, or hammer three-pointers.  I EXPECT to win, every single day, because of my social media strategy.

Five years ago, I started learning how to use social media to circumvent the pending "Do Not Call" legislation.  Since college, I always made my living on the telephone.  A typical day consisted of me rooting through my rolodex, with two-phones glued to each ear.   That damned "Do Not Call" list threatened my very existence

LinkedIn changed all that, in 2003.  I was invited to LinkedIn and found that I was the only mortgage guy in a roomful of well-earning tech folks, who owned homes.  Myspace came, in 2004.  I honed the rich demographic data to connect me with REALTORs by creating and promoting a group called MLS on Myspace.  Active Rainwas a no brainer.  Facebook is the perfect combination to mix both consumer direct and professional referral platforms. 

Folks on the ClueTrain might suggest that social media are "all about the conversation"; I couldn't disagree more.  It's all about the contact.  Your social media efforts, which include blogging, need to have some sort of ROI if you intend to thrive in business.  I measure my ROI by contacts made daily.  My goal, every morning, is to find five new contacts who give me permission to market to them.  I engage in pull marketing through rich content and engaging hooks (I'll discuss those hooks on the webinar).  It's designed to be non-intrusive and qualifying, always getting participants to "raise their hand" but it starts with the contact.   If you're blogging your little heart out and nobody's reading you, you're like that tree that fell in the forest.

Let me give you an example.  The Facebook status bar is a tremendous tool; it's like Twitter with pictures.  I feed the Facebook community by sharing things about my life:

1- I rejoiced when the Phillies beat the Rays to win the World Series
2- I listen to George Strait
3- I voted for Mc Cain
4- I lock mortgage rates below 5%,  for selected clients.

Webinar-globeWhen I dropped that sub 5% rate, on my Facebook status bar, every disco lovin', Obama supporter, from Tampa Bay, wanted to talk to me...WHY?

...because I hold their interest.  They needled me on Election Day, hated me when the Rays lost the World Series, and were appalled that a guy in suspenders listens to old-school country music but I hold their interest.  I love people so that gives me a leg up on the competition.  I congratulated them when President-Elect Obama won and taunted them throughout the World Series but I love the contact.

The contact then, becomes a conversation. 

Do I troll the social media, looking for likely candidates, then spam them with a friend request? Absolutely!  I love people...seriously, I LOVE them.  I think everybody I haven't met is just a friend in waiting...and so should you.  THAT is our job, folks.  The buying, selling, and financing of houses is the easy part.

Jim Cronin and I will be holding a FREE webinar about how to make lots of friends online. I’ll walk you through how I set up my profiles, fill up my friend's lists, and engage the community.  More importantly, I'll show you how those friends will become clients.

December 30
1:00PM to 2:30PM
Pacific Standard Time

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PS:  Every time I speak or offer a webinar, some REALTOR says "Well, he's a lender.  It's different for him".  That is the silliest thing I've ever heard.  I get more business from consumers than I do from REALTOR referrals and those consumers come from my social media efforts.

PPS:  If you don't like the webinar, we'll refund every penny we charge you for it. 

PPPS:  That was a joke; the webinar is free.  See you in two weeks !

Thanks Brian, we are thrilled to have you on the Vine!

Read more from Brian Brady:
Brian’s Website
Brian’s ActiveRain Blog
Brian’s Post Archive on the BloodhoundBlog
P: (858)- 777-9751

Comments(20)

Ryan Shaughnessy
PREA Signature Realty - www.preasignaturerealty.com - Saint Louis, MO
Broker/Attorney - Your Lafayette Square Real Estate Partner

Nice Post - I love the aggressive use of social marketing platforms - just haven't figured out how to incorporate all the pieces in process.

Dec 17, 2008 10:51 AM
Ellie McIntire
Ellicott City Clarksville Howard County Maryland Real Estate - Ellicott City, MD
Luxury service in Central Maryland

Personally I do NOT accept inviations on Facebook from people I do not know....unless they explain why they are requesting to be my friend. too many viruses.

Dec 17, 2008 11:46 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Jim - thanks for sharing a great article by Brian on Social Media. There are so many ways to use social media and Brian did an excellent job. This arena continues to evolve quickly and I suspect it will rapidly grow as more folks understand its power.

Jeff

Dec 17, 2008 02:31 PM
Gary McNinch
Better Properties Real Estate - Renton, WA
Broker, Renton WA Real Estate

Jim -  great info on evolution of makeing those contacts into personal contacts.  I'm still learning and it is ever evolving.  And I will be on the free webinar.  Thanks,

List and Sell (Merry Christmas)    Gary @ RentonHomeFinder.com

Dec 17, 2008 03:46 PM
Jean Groesbeck
Compass - Anacortes, WA
Broker, CRS, e-PRO, ABR, ASP, CNE, IMS

Lot's of wonderful information. I signed up for the webinar.  Seeing the history helps understand how we got here and why.  What will 2009 be like????

Dec 17, 2008 03:59 PM
Esko Kiuru
Bethesda, MD

Jim,

That's a good one. It makes a lot of sense, too. Since I have quite a bit to learn yet I'll sign up for his webinar. That should be fun.

Dec 17, 2008 04:17 PM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

I'll put it on my calendar and hope I'm not too busy to attend the webinar. My kids will all still be home. Brian is great, I've had similiar experiences on FaceBook. I have a variety of friends and just joined some conservative social networks that have NOTHING to do with RE. When I posted I had joined the Sarah Palin fan club on FB, oh my.....

I say oh well.............

I am more than my business and I have met a whole new group of neat people to engage with .

Dec 17, 2008 11:12 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Jim,

Great post! Thanks for sharing the article by Brian. Always leaning in this changing world!!

Dec 17, 2008 11:25 PM
Anonymous
Carmela

Brian - I could agree more with you. If only all the agents in our office understood the power of the web, we'd all be much more successful....

carmela.pereira@coldwellbanker.com

 

Dec 18, 2008 12:03 AM
#9
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Jim!  That Brian is ONE smart dude!!  I love the timeline and totally recall everything--for him though, he was the SMART one who thought outside the box and embraced the change early on!  For me, it's been two long years of trying to catch up with his methods of social networking--and I'm STILL way behind!  Thanks for sharing this article Jim.  I think you should keep him on the Vine--even though he IS a mortgage guy!  LOL

Debe in Charlotte

Dec 18, 2008 12:10 AM
Tim Hart
VanDyk Mortgage-Branch Manager - Fort Myers, FL

I am looking forward to this and thanks for the help!

Dec 18, 2008 02:46 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Jim, I always enjoy your input. It is nice to hear the message is consistent it is not about the personalities.....it is about the content, I will do my best trying to schedule the time to this webinar.Have a great Christmas Holiday.Endre

Dec 18, 2008 05:14 AM
Brandy Laws
Pelican Real Estate - FWB, FL - Fort Walton Beach, FL

Great article.  I know these social media platforms are powerful, I just need help figuring out how to put them to their best use.  Looking forward to the webinar.  :-)

 

Brandy

Dec 18, 2008 07:36 AM
Kelsey Barklow
Hurd Realty - Johnson City, TN
423/948-9154

Your enthusiasm is infectious. You must be doing something (everything) right to earn that #1. Hey, my mom lives in Chico. I used to too. Love that entire area but hot in the summer and she doesn't have a/c! Happy Holidays.

Dec 18, 2008 10:41 AM
Real Estate Tomato
Real Estate Tomato - Cottonwood, CA
Real Estate Website Design Done Beautifully

Kelsey,

We're up the hill a bit (2300 ft) in Paradise, so we're about 10 degrees cooler here in the summer... and we get some snow in the winter which is fun.  

**Update, we have cracked the 130 registrant mark for the conference call... if anyone was considering joining us, make sure to get your spot now: https://www2.gotomeeting.com/register/305650851

Dec 19, 2008 03:47 AM
Erin Newington
5305573559 - Grass Valley, CA
Sierra Foothills Realtor

Thanks for the post!  I am still trying to understand how to get our blog to produce!  Looking forward to the call.

Dec 27, 2008 07:04 AM
Retired Notworking
Tallahassee, FL

Love your ideas and can't wait for the webinar. This certainly is a challenging business!

Dec 27, 2008 09:53 AM
Real Estate Tomato
Real Estate Tomato - Cottonwood, CA
Real Estate Website Design Done Beautifully

Just 30 Spots Left... Did I mention it's FREE? http://tinyurl.com/socialconf

Dec 29, 2008 08:44 AM
Myrick Tantiado
Alain Pinel Realtors - San Francisco, CA

Great post!  Thanks for sharing!

Dec 30, 2008 02:47 AM
Heather Fitzgerald
REALTY WORLD-Harbert Company, Inc. - Greenwood, IN
REALTOR Greenwood Indiana Real Estate

When are you doing your next webinar about this?  Or am I able to go back and listen to the webinar you held previously?

May 01, 2009 11:02 AM