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Ethics or just sour grapes? A bad taste nonetheless...

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Alliance - Madison

This transaction left a bad taste in my mouth. As well as wary of next encounter with this agent...

My customer made an offer on a property. The listing agent presented it - we didn't come to agreement but we were close. My buyer said no deal so we dropped it. The listing agent calls back about two weeks later and said, if your buyer is still interested, we'll take his offer after all. So I called my buyer, he said yes so we brought the offer to the listing agent - with a three day deadline for signatures.

I get a call two days later from the listing agent. "just wanted to let you know we got another offer on the property and I have to present that offer with yours." Hmmm... he told me over the phone we had a deal. I know, no signatures no deal... but a man's word isn't what it once was.

He presented the offer from his buyer to his seller. My buyer didn't come out on top.

Had I been in this situation, I would have accepted the new offer as a back-up in case our deal fell apart but a man's word should be worth something.

Said he had to watch out for his client's best interests. I now have a customer who doesn't want to look at anymore properties because he feels he cannot trust real estate agents. (He was skiddish to start with.)

Note: I was very careful to explain that we were outbid and that's how we lost the deal. I did not bad-mouth or speak lowly of that agent. I did explain that since out deal wasn't signed, he had to present that offer.

That's really a gray area for me though. I feel like when you tell someone you have a deal, you have a deal.

What are your thoughts on this? Plesae tell me how you would've dealt with this situation if you were on either side of this. Still learning every day...

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Keisha Hosea- KASIHomes.com
KASI Homes - Chino Hills, CA
Real Estate Solutions For Real People

Jennifer...as much as I would like to say that your word should be your bond, unfortunately in the world of contracts it only sticks if it is in writing. This is truly where we are at in the world. Do not be discouraged or long too much for yesteryear. Move on and advice your clients that UNTIL it is in writing, it does not mean much.

Feb 01, 2009 01:50 AM
Jennifer Minyard
RE/MAX Alliance - Madison - Madison, AL
Associate Broker, ABR, SFR

I had opportunity to do this same transaction in the reverse this time... I couldn't sleep. I knew it wasn't right and I spoke with my seller and he knew that we had to do what was right. That's all I ask of fellow professionals is to "DO WHAT'S RIGHT!" ... not what will make you the most money. There are such a thing as morals, scruples and that Golden Rule is still in effect. As I recall, that's specifically mentioned in The Code of Ethics.

So glad my client saw it the way I did and we declined the second offer that came in... I am so sorry to the Realtor who showed it unnecessarily but he was told there was something pretty solid working on it.

Have a great selling day - and let's all remember to "Do unto others as we'd have them do to us - not as they have done to us or not before they do it to us"

 

.... this is me getting off my soapbox now... lol

Sep 29, 2009 08:08 AM
Jennifer Minyard
RE/MAX Alliance - Madison - Madison, AL
Associate Broker, ABR, SFR

Update - same "bad taste" Realtor and I came up in a transaction again. This time I was ready! Wary for sure but ready to do the utmost for my client and full protect their interests. Short story version is that all went well and when he came to drop off documents at my office one day when I wasn't there, he asked to speak to my broker. Much to my surprise, he told her that I was a true professional. He appreciated how thorough I was, how prompt and attentive I was and that doing business with me was truly a pleasure.

Hmmm... I didn't know what to think when my broker told me he'd come by and wanted to speak with her. But the fact is, I did do all I could to best represent my client and make it a win-win-win deal. I'm thankful that I did the right thing... no matter how it came down in the past. That's why they call it the past - it's over. It's done! It's time to move on and be the best you can be TODAY!

Nov 30, 2009 11:19 AM