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The Ministry Of Motherhood

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty RS176746L

After surviving experiencing motherhood for 25 years, I used to think this state of being a mother would lead me to a state institution... seriously! (only a mother can understand this) 

But as we all know, the blessing of children is in fact, the most wonderful gift that God gives to women.  I also believe that motherhood is a ministry -- one in which mothers have a tremendous responsibility and opportunity to shape the lives of their children.  They set the standard of excellence in the home through example (or should), provide unconditional, unfailing love (or should), and shape the world around their children to become wonderful human beings (or should). When I think about ministry, one word comes to mind, SERVICE.  But what about the Ministry Of Motherhood? 

From a Believer's perspective, motherhood allows us to give our whole hearts to another person built upon the foundation of love for a lifetime.  We find ways to make character building a daily part of life and we teach our children in the same manner that the Lord taught His disciples; one-on-one.  As a single mother, I took upon myself the responsibility to make my home Christ-centered teaching diligently, both of my children to follow Christ.  Have there been difficulties along the way, of course!  But in ministry it is a continual calling to be the hands and feet of Jesus -- one that never gives up believing that "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." 

When God calls, He equips and being a mother is a deep and personal calling on a woman's life to walk full time in the Ministry Of Motherhood.

Philippians 4:13

GBY!  Barbara

- This biog is an extension of HOPE Ministry and "The Secret Place" -- if it has sown a blessing in your life please consider sowing back to the ministry at the website link below.

www.hope2007.org

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Wendy Welborne-Kimery
Keller Williams-Lake Norman Mooresville,NC - Mooresville, NC

Well written!  I have 2 daughters in elementary school.  We are trying to set good examples and make sure they grow up knowing Christ.  We want to make sure they know God has a plan especially for there lives and hope they don't wait until they are adults to realize this.  I grew up in a Christian home but was in my 30's before I realized Christ had an individual plan for my life.  I think at this stage in my life it is simply to bring the girls up in a Christ centered home and to pray on a regular basis for my 13 nieces and nephews.  I try to find ways to reach out to there friends as well but so far haven't made to much progress there.

Feb 06, 2009 11:12 PM
Steve Hoffacker
Steve Hoffacker LLC - West Palm Beach, FL
Certified Aging In Place Specialist-Instructor

Barbara,

Motherhood is a very real example and opportunity of unconditional, continuous love. :)

Steve

Feb 06, 2009 11:19 PM
Treva Fox-Christy
INTEGRITY REAL ESTATE - Farmington, NM

Yes and when you have grandchildren the love and teaching takes on a whole new meaning. Aren't we lucky to be so blessed with children and grandchildren? I have found that I have learned as much from them as they from me.

 I also teach 8th graders--now there is an education---I learn something new everyday---somethings are better left unsaid---LOL

Feb 07, 2009 12:13 AM
Ella Glover
Lubbock Homes - Lubbock, TX

Just remember Famlies ARE Forever.....you will make it.

Feb 07, 2009 12:16 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Laura: Thanks for sharing. GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:38 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Carol:  You, my friend have been given a mandate that few are able or even willing to receive.  The boys are blessed with and by you and they are your special angels! Love in bunches! GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:40 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Cindy:  Our children grow up just as we did but the ministry of motherhood lasts until the day we are all united with the Lord. With His help and enouragement we are blessed! GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:41 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Wendy: You are doing an awesome job!  Sometimes God's plans and purposes aren't revealed at an early age but one day they will be. Hats off to you for bringing up your children in a home that knows the Lord!  GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:45 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Steve: Oh, I so agree! Thanks for the poignant reminder! GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:46 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Treva: SO TRUE!! What a wonderful opportunity it is to teach and also to learn from our children. I'm not a grandmother yet but one day I will have that chance. Thanks so much for your tender insight! GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:48 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Lubbock! Families are great -- I couldn't imagine my life within my kids. GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:50 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Bob: Thanks for the post! I'm a single mom though having raised my sons alone so the Lord is my husband indeed!  I loved reading your response and thank you for sharing your heart with the group. GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:54 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Bob: Thanks for the post! I'm a single mom though having raised my sons alone so the Lord is my husband indeed!  I loved reading your response and thank you for sharing your heart with the group. GBU! Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 12:54 AM
Debi Ernst
St. Charles County, Missouri - Prudential Alliance Realtors - O'Fallon, MO
GRI, e-PRO, Broker/Sales Associate

Barbara - Being a mother is definitely challenging...Worth it!...but challenging...  :)

Feb 07, 2009 01:44 AM
Jeff&Grace Safrin
F.C.Tucker 1st Team Real Estate - Valparaiso, IN
SpousesSellingHousesTM

Thanks for sharing Barabara - your post is right on!

There is nothing that brings more joy and pain than motherhood - although I have to say that after 25 years their corpus callosums close/fuse and they are much more mature and easier to deal with than adolescence :)  - My oldest recently called me to apologize for what she put us through growing up....apparently she has a younger friend of hers who was complaining about her parents and she recognized her past imaturities in the conversation:) she said it was like looking back in a mirror - imagine that !

That was a call for the memory books

Philippians 4:13 used to be taped to my bathroom mirror for years when raising the girls :)

Sincerely,

Grace

Feb 07, 2009 07:00 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Debi:  Thanks for your comment! GBU, Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 10:17 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Jeff & Grace: Thanks for sharing your experience! It's a wonderful thing when our kids reflect back on their lives and can choose to make amends for chooses made in the past. How awesome and what a beautiful gift that is! GBU, Barbara :)

Feb 07, 2009 10:22 AM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Mary: Thanks for your insight in to my future as a grandmother! GBU, Barbara :)

Feb 08, 2009 08:22 AM
Chuck Carstensen
RE/MAX Results - Elk River, MN
Minnesota/Wisconsin Real Estate Expert

Good Stuff...I hope to see another post from you again soon!

Feb 23, 2009 12:28 PM
BARBARA RIES
Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Homesale Realty - Lititz, PA
Your Cool Agent in the Coolest Small Town, Lititz!

Hi Chuck: Thank you.  I'm glad you found this enlightening. GBU, Barbara :)

Feb 27, 2009 10:38 PM