Debt-Free Date Ideas for Valentine's Day

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The hype surrounding Valentine's Day has long made us dig deep into our pockets for the traditional roses, chocolates, and jewelry. According to a 2008 report from the National Retail Federation, consumers expected to spend $122 on Valentine's gifts last year. But this February, in the midst of a roller-coaster economy, the flutter many Americans are feeling has more to do with financial worries than a quickened heartbeat caused by love. Remember that there are plenty of ways to show how you feel without spending a fortune. Inspired by the "Debt Diva", Clarky Davis, here are some ideas for 'debt-free dates'.

1. Romantic Dinner: Have a nice candlelit dinner at home. Cooking at home costs much less than going to fancy restaurant. Dress up in something nice and make something new.

2. Treasure Hunt: Create a map and go to all your special places or favorite spots. Hide a little gift at the end to wrap it all up.

3. Day of Fun: Since Valentine's falls on a Saturday this year, you can plan a whole day of activities, which could include breakfast in bed, a day at the park, a movie marathon and a romantic dinner.

4. Movie Marathon: Movies are a great way to spend time together cuddled up on the couch. Pick movies that are special to you both or find something you each like and want to share with one another. Another idea is to watch home videos to bring back memories from your wedding or kid's younger years.

5. Live Music: Check out a concert in your town that you both enjoy. There are also local cover bands that play music of a favorite artist at an inexpensive venue or even for free.

6. Wine Tasting: Many vineyards offer a tasting for around $10. This is a romantic fun way to spend the day. If you make a purchase at the end, many vineyards will even apply the tasting fee to the product.

7. Relax: Take the day to spend relaxing together at a bookstore, a coffee shop or even at home. Sometimes you just need to rest and know you are there for each other.

8. Take a scenic drive: Drive to special place or get out of town for the day. Talk and reminisce about good times.

9. Do a second "first date": Ask all the get to know you questions. Give yourself a low budget and have some fun doing the things you did when you first met.

10. Dance: Take a slow dance at home after dinner or find somewhere free to dance the night away later in the evening.

Comments (5)

Marian Gregor-Ann
Keller Williams - Ann Arbor, MI
Arbor area Real Estate

Hi Loren, Good ideas all... but I plan to go to THe Chocolate Tasting Extravaganza in Chelsea, MI. Can you ever have too much chocolate?!

Feb 09, 2009 10:13 AM
Betty Knowles
Southwest Missouri Realty - www.teamknowles.com - Springfield, MO
TeamKnowles REALTORS® - Springfield MO Real Estate

Great ideas Loren. Its hard to beat a candlelight dinner at home.

Feb 09, 2009 10:29 AM
Kathy Toth
Ann Arbor Market Center Keller Williams - Ann Arbor, MI
Ann Arbor Real Estate Experts - Kathy Toth Team

Love the second first date option! That sounds like a lot of fun. Pretending you are just getting to know each other all over again.  Love it!

Kathy

Feb 09, 2009 11:01 AM
Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes

All excellent ideas -- nice and also inexpensive. All the best.

Feb 09, 2009 03:55 PM
Anonymous
Debt Diva

Simple, meaningful expressions of affection are often most appreciated. It doesn't cost a lot to show someone you care about them.  My favorite treat is when I get an unexpected "thinking of you" card under my computer keyboard at home after my husband goes to work.  It's an inexpenseive gesture that goes a long way!

Feb 11, 2009 07:26 AM
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