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Home Stager with Welcome Home Interiors, LLC

I've been in Interior Decorating and Home Staging professionally for a short time, but have been studying and learning for several years.  Recently I started my LLC and began actually charging for my services.  I've done free and volunteer work up until now to gain knowledge and portfolio credentials.  Well, here's my dilemma...  I'm a talker.  I'm very friendly and tend to get along with most people.  I also LOVE this industry and enjoy my work, meeting people, and sharing my knowledge.  The problem is, most of the people I've been meeting are also talkers!  So instead of a quick visit to a home to learn about the project and come away with information to provide a quote or bid, I spend hours chatting (on and off) about the job, the person and basically making a new friend.  Now, I have no problem becoming friends with my clients, but I'm having trouble steering the conversations back to business and leaving small talk for some other time (like when I am actually getting paid!)  I'm sure it comes with inexperience as well as my background in customer satisfaction and support.  Prior to this career, I was doing financial software support for several major banks and with that comes "relationship management".

 I am betting as real estate professionals, this happens to you all the time.  I mean, obviously you don't get paid till the deal is done, so is there ever a time when you know you really have to focus on business and put "personal" relationships on hold?  How do you keep your clients on track?  How did you start out in the industry with no income but a lot of time spent until you made you first deals?

 I don't know if this is making any sense to anyone, I feel like I'm just rambling.  But I'm treating this particular blog post more like a diary than a searchable knowledge base anyway.  I'm just hoping others will share my growing pains!  Thanks for reading!

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Lauren Corna
Archway Realty, LLC - Southlake, TX
Broker

Michele- I tend to be the talky friendly type as well.  I have learned to not be real talky while I'm in my business mode.  When you get personal with people it changes the relationship and can turn into a negative.  Sometimes when people tell you personal things about themselves they tend to later regret it and then they are embarrassed to work with you because you know too much about them. 

I keep my business hat on when I am in the business mode.

 

May 07, 2007 01:22 AM
Michele Kiefert
Welcome Home Interiors, LLC - Buford, GA
ASP, IFDA
Where can I get one of those hats?  :)
May 07, 2007 01:27 AM
Abe Loper
Nobility Partners, LLC - Lynchburg, VA
Michele, 
   I like Lauren's comment, but I don't go quite as far.  I DO become friends with my clients and I DO share personal stuff with them, and vise verse.  I think that that leads to referrals later.  Anyone can refer a good decorator or stager, but people REALLY LOVE to refer a "friend" who does staging or decorating.  To avoid the black hole of conversation, I alway have a prop of some sort.  I have a flyer or a piece of paper with information on it, etc.  When I want to bring the conversation back to business, I just direct attention to that "prop".  I always sit at the seat NEXT my client.  That way we can look at and read things together.  It also makes your client feel like you're, quite literally, "on their side".  

hope that helps.  
May 07, 2007 01:41 AM
Lauren Corna
Archway Realty, LLC - Southlake, TX
Broker

Funny !! 

Here in Texas we wear a lot of cowboy hats.

 

May 07, 2007 01:43 AM
Larry Bettag
Cherry Creek Mortgage Illinois Residential Mortgage License LMB #0005759 Cherry Creek Mortgage NMLS #: 3001 - Saint Charles, IL
Vice-President of National Production
I like to serve...rarely will I cross that line.  I like to get deep with my people, but I still like my time as well.  Important to separate
May 07, 2007 02:04 AM
Michele Kiefert
Welcome Home Interiors, LLC - Buford, GA
ASP, IFDA

Abe,

That's wonderful, thanks!

May 07, 2007 02:09 AM