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Self Promotion and Conversation

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Services for Real Estate Pros with OMC Social Media Solutions

Recently I engaged in a conversation via another Active Rain members blog. Of course, between business people, engaging in conversation includes an element of sharing expertise, self promotion, along with being challenged and finding solutions. I feel it is senseless to try and deny the truth that an element of self promotion exists, and it certainly seems that this is the main reason we are all here anyway using Active Rain as a vehicle to raise and elevate our profile.

What I find disturbing, however, is that in the course of a conversation, the blog author can pick and choose which bits and pieces of the conversation are displayed to the public. Particularly using the defense that the response was nothing more than self promotion.

If there is any integrity to conversation, it is uncensored, open, and in this medium, shared with others for everyone's benefit. Controversy can even be a good thing. Any conflict, if persevered in conversation as a means to "discover" what lies beneath, amazing answers and opportunities for learning and growth can be achieved for both members.

It is to this end, that I encourage you to be involved in engaging conversations and to persevere. While I completely agree with eliminating spam, to deny a voice that genuinely offers meaningful dialogue, is to hurt the community we endeavour to create, the relationships we seek to build, and the opportunities we seek to discover.

Without adversity, you would never develop wisdom, and without wisdom, success would be short lived indeed. ~ Napoleon Hill

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TIM MONCRIEF
Tim Monciref - Austin, TX
Over 2,000 homes sold…..

Very good post.  We can all tend to toot our horn too much.  I do catch myself doing the same and it is mere insecurity.  Cheers..........

Feb 10, 2009 12:16 PM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Unfortunately true it seems you can only believe half of what you hear.

Feb 10, 2009 12:40 PM
Gina Zimmerman
North Eastern Group Realty - Fort Wayne, IN
Fort Wayne Real Estate

Sharing information is good.  Not exactly sure what you are referring to. This is a great community and healthy relationships is what it is all about. 

Feb 10, 2009 12:56 PM
Lee Down
OMC Social Media Solutions - Vancouver, BC

Yes. I didn't understand the difficulty initially with the individual in question. It seemed that I couldn't get through to help provide insight and education, which is my sole intent typically, along with the possibility that it will highlight to the right people that I am available for business. It wasn't until late yesterday, someone else commented about the points system here on Active Rain. That was then I realized that I was being baited.

So do be careful of being baited. Unless it is your own blog. Then let them bait you all they want to boost your ranking points. :0

Feb 10, 2009 12:59 PM
Lee Down
OMC Social Media Solutions - Vancouver, BC

PS - I'm curious to know if any of you have used Twitter to engage in conversation as well? It is an incredible tool for generating some magic online. There is a right way, a wrong way, and lots of in-between ground. For some, it is a strict marketnig vehicle, for others research, and for the savvy, it is a strategic tool that builds traffic, followers, and loyalty.

Feb 10, 2009 01:55 PM