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Is this too personal for my blog?

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Real Estate Agent with CoastalVa Realty Inc

I started working in real estate when my youngest son started the first grade.  I worked part-time his year in kinder garden, as his was a half day school.

I see pictures of a lot of people crying because their kid went to school for the first time.  Not me, I was glad to have some time for myself, and go out and make some money.

Years later:  My son is now eleven years old.  He still follows me around, and in general does as he is told.  This past Sunday, at church we were waiting for the service to start, and he told me that he was going to get some water.   Five minutes later when he didn't come back, worried, I got up to go look for him.  He was sitting by himself in the back of the church, and when I asked him what he was doing there, he said "you are embarrassing me Mom"

He asserted his independence for the first time, and although proud of him, and I have always known that this day would come, it hit me so unexpectedly that when I went back to my seat, I couldn't help but cry.  My son is growing up and there is nothing that I can do about it.

Somehow, I feel compelled to share this with whoever relates to it.  Aghh, I just cried again.

Comments(7)

Zilkia Olmeda-Martins
RE/MAX North - San Antonio - San Antonio, TX
GRI, Realtor, San Antonio Texas Luxury Homes

Tere, I can totally relate.  Our babies are growing up so fast... Enjoy every moment.

Feb 17, 2009 02:04 AM
Tere Rottink
CoastalVa Realty Inc - Virginia Beach, VA

Zilkia

Thanks for reading.  Like venting, just putting this out there made me feel better.

Feb 17, 2009 02:58 AM
Chris Johnson
Realty Pros and Associates - Daytona Beach, FL
Realtor Daytona Beach, Florida

Check out the audio book boundaries...it's really good...thanks for sharing!

Feb 17, 2009 05:09 AM
Tere Rottink
CoastalVa Realty Inc - Virginia Beach, VA

Chris

I will look for it.  Once again, congrats in the birth of your baby.  Life will never be the same for you.

Enjoy,

Tere

Feb 17, 2009 05:30 AM
Curt Canada
Keller Williams-Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Real Estate - Career Coach

Great story to share! Oh How time flys!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Feb 17, 2009 05:55 AM
Todd Clark - Retired
eXp Realty LLC - Tigard, OR
Principle Broker Oregon

Certainly normal feeling and I'm waiting for the same thing to happen with my 10 year old daughter. I feel writing about family stuff and feelings like you did is what makes a connection with the public.

Todd Clark, Helping Families Home - www.IFoundYourNewHome.com

Feb 17, 2009 05:52 PM
Naoma Doriguzzi
Virginia Beach - Virginia Beach, VA
New Media Director

Tere - I know I am terrified of that day.  I have a ways to go though as my boys are only 3 1/2 and 7months old.

Feb 19, 2009 06:42 AM