I have been thinking about this little seven letter word and how many different ways it works, or doesn't in our industry. My concern is that this post will seem a little bit discombobulated but please bear with me.
With fellow brokers I was always taught plan on doing both sides of the deal if need be and don't wine about it. Sometimes that is what it takes to get the deal done. Keeping in my mind how can I keep this as good of an experience as possible for all parties.
How do you approach working a contract? Is there mutual cooperation, communication and a win/win for all parties or is fear lurking in the background? I listened to a conversation yesterday about how many times Realtors are having to guess what the other is thinking or doing at any time and waiting for a bomb to drop. I know we cannot change others behavior but my thought is I want to continue to have a reputation for being good to work with, approachable and solution oriented. What does that have to do with generating buyers and sellers? Maybe nothing however I think in the end it is all part of the same package ~ my real estate business.
Contacting other brokers. I finally got frustrated yesterday because I have received four calls in the span of three months from a brokerage here looking to add agents to their office. When I said I wasn't interested (again) and asked to be taken off their call list it did not work so well When is it appropriate to contact fellow Realtors and when is over the top? I believe from an ethics perspective this is a gray area but am interested to see what other AR's experience and thoughts are.
I like to present an image of someone who takes the high road, never loses her cool and is an attentive listener and problem solver. Maybe I can be that way some of the time but then have days that I just don't. It is often said that acceptance is the first step to solving any problem. Does this mean I don't have to be "pissed off waiting to happen today"? Please excuse the language and I hope it is not offensive but wanted to clarify where I was at.
For today, The Art of Respect looks like writing about it and getting ideas on how other Realtors I respect practice this art. Sharing my experience (both good and bad) and choosing to do whatever it takes one situation at a time.
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