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How to Survive in this "NEW" Economy!

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Home Stager with Home Staging Online Services

Please notice the term "new", used to describe our current economy, instead of what you normally hear. I use the term "new" to mean different from the former or the old (thank you thefreedictionary.com) 

There will be NO negative words in this post! This is an inspiring, uplifting and altogether nauseatingly POSITIVE post. "Elaine, what have you been drinking?" you might ask. I have just decided that all I can control is my attitude. So, if you enjoy wallowing in depression and self-pity, STOP READING HERE!

OK, to better explain where I'm going with this--TIME FOR AN ANALOGY!

Let's say you have been playing the board game, Monopoly, your entire life. But, the deeds have become dog-eared over the years, all the money has disappeared except a five and two ones, and the only playing pieces that haven't been misplaced are the iron and the thimble. But, you remember seeing the game on sale at Target, so you put the old game out in the trash, and purchase a new one.

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You open the brand new box, and it doesn't take you long to realize that the game is different and the rules have changed. You get upset. There should have been a warning on the box: MONOPOLY NOW HAS NEW RULES! You run out to the trash only to discover that the old game is covered in coffee grounds. most popular game pieceIt starts to sink in. The old game is gone for good. If you still wish to play Monopoly, you will have to learn the new rules. If you aren't willing to learn the new rules, you will have to play a different game. You think to yourself if only I had known it was going to change, I would have taken better care of the old game.

So, if you think of our current economy as being different, all we have to doAll the old pieces! is learn the new rules. And, the best part? We get to make them up as we go. We get to be creative. It's all trial and error, now. There are those who are so stuck in the past, they aren't willing to make the changes necessary. Those people will have to play CandyLand (I mean that in the nicest possible way). 

Here are a few suggested new rules:

1.   If reading the newspaper or watching the news depresses you, STOP DOING IT.

2.   If your old marketing strategies now feel like a waste of time, THEY PROBABLY ARE.

3.   If the old stuff isn't working, THINK UP NEW STUFF.

4.   If you know someone who feels very negatively all the time, STAY AWAY FROM THEM.

5.   If all you can do is complain about the new administration, YOU ARE NOT HELPING.

6.   If you feel like you could manage better with more moral support, GET IT.

7.   If you need help, ASK FOR IT.

8.   If you feel like you are all alone, YOU ARE NOT.

9.   If you think you will die without the luxuries you are accustomed to, YOU WILL NOT.

10.  If you can still laugh, HOW BAD CAN IT BE?

As far as I know, we don't have poor farms anymore. Most of us will survive (although some of us may have to cut back on the Starbucks) and some of us will even flourish. If we stop acting like victims, we will stop being victims.

So, get out there and PLAY!!!

 

For those of you who still want the old Monopoly, I hope your houses and hotels are still worth something.

Are these rising or falling? It's all how you see them.

 

 

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Mary Douglas
United Country Ponderosa Realty, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado - Red Feather Lakes, CO
REALTOR, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado

Hi Elaine, Thank you for a fantastic post. I think you have nailed it, on the "to do" list.  I used to love to play Monopoly, still have the old game, which facinates my grandkids .... all those pieces and parts!  Thanks again, Elaine.

Mar 03, 2009 05:35 PM
Jennifer Sylvester
RE/MAX Spectrum - Plymouth, MA

It's all about starting each day with your eyes wide open and NOT doing things just because everyone else is doing it! What did our mothers used to say to us?? " Just because your friend jumps off a bridge, it doesn't mean you should too!!"

Mar 03, 2009 09:01 PM
Treva Fox-Christy
INTEGRITY REAL ESTATE - Farmington, NM

Wonderful post! Just the kind of attitude we all need to be exhibiting. Change is hard no doubt, but it sparks the creative in us. Boy, do I have friends that need to read your post.

Mar 03, 2009 10:37 PM
Mary Strang
Viroqua, WI

Elaine, this certainly is a gold star post! I like the list you made to point the way to a better day, now that the rules have changed.

Mar 03, 2009 11:17 PM
Barbara Cluck-Miksits
BCM Home Staging LLC - Ridgewood, NJ
Home Staging - New Jersey

Elaine ~ I am with you. I have been keeping a positive vibe in my mind. I am not sitting around crying over the economy. I am putting together new marketing strategies, networking and re-inventing my business and opening doors to new opportunities. Great post I am glad that we think alike. Best to you in 2009.

Mar 03, 2009 11:45 PM
Lori Churchill Cofer
Beasley Realty - Pullman, WA
Realtor - 509-330-0086 - Pullman, WA

Elaine,

I think this is one of the best posts I have read about what we are facing with respect to the economy.  I love the phrase "new economy" and really appreciate your positive outlook...thanks!  Sometimes it is difficult when there is so much negativism....it is nice to see the "silver lining" as they say!  And love the analogy.  I am going to subscribe!  You have a gift...

Lori Cofer Realtor Pullman WA

Mar 04, 2009 12:23 AM
Tony Anderson
Century 21 Community Realty - Clarkesville, GA
Serving Habersham Banks White & Stephens Counties

I like the new rules but it is hard to escape rule #1. 

Mar 04, 2009 01:17 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Really great post! I only have 2 ones left, what should I do? LOL

Mar 04, 2009 01:43 AM
Hendrik Glastra
HG Staging and reDesign - Toronto, ON

Hendrik Glastra, CSP owner HG Staging and reDesign  Good advice.  #1 rule, skip the business section and just read whatever "happy" stories there are and concentrate on the positive. I have already followed a number of the rules and I am coming out of my winter funk. Especially surrounding myself with positive thinking people. Things will get better! Things will get better!  Winter is almost over and the sun is shining. Friday is going to be 10 degrees Celsius (I'm in Canada) a heck of lot better than MINUS 17 Celsius a couple of days ago! Smile and look at the bright beautiful blue sky. Time to move forward - nature does that anyways.

 

Mar 04, 2009 03:27 AM
Gina Dougherty
Fusion Design Consulting - Redondo Beach, CA
Home Staging Redondo Beach, CA- FusionDesignConsulting.com

This is a great analogy and a great message.  Change is inevitable and we've all got to adapt to thrive.  The real challenge is thinking up the "new stuff" when the "old stuff" stops working, but I'm always up for a challenge!

Mar 04, 2009 06:19 AM
Elaine Manes Gage
Home Staging Online Services - Denver, CO
Staging done ONLINE!

Commenters- I usually like to address each comment, but since I'm out learning a new game, I thought I would direct this to all of you. I may have given you something positive to think about, but what you have given me, in the way of your responses, is a collective affirmation that I am not just some rose-colored-glasses-wearing Pollyanna. It has been so wonderful for me to read these comments and know that I am not alone in feeling the way I do. So, thank you.

Mar 04, 2009 07:03 AM
Kathy Booth, Setting the Stage
Setting the Stage - Newmarket, ON
Home Staging and ReDesign Professional

Very cute - I love it.  We have a local newspaper here called "Snap" which contains ONLY good news about new businesses, charities, fund raisers, and other happy and positive events going on in the community. 

Mar 04, 2009 08:42 AM
Simone Bercu
Metro Referral - Palm Beach Gardens, FL
Not state specific Real Estate - GRI, e-PRO, AB

In my world, you are not a "rose-colored-glasses-wearing Pollyanna".  As my Mom always said: "there were people before you who went through much tougher times and made it; you will, too."

We will, too, with our positive thinking and by adapting new business strategies.

Mar 04, 2009 12:46 PM
Marianne Sweet
Home Sweet Home Staging - Rochester Hills, MI
Home Sweet Home Staging, LLC Rochester Hills, MI

Hey Big Sis!  Glad I checked in and found this post.  It's fabulous, as usual. Your post has definitely given us all something to think about.  We can all wallow in our Pabst Blue Ribbons, or we can embrace the new reality and make it work for us.

My daughters (your nieces) have jokingly accused me of being a "change-hater".  While I admit to being a bit stuck in my ways on some issues, I have made a conscious effort to start going with the flow.  Re. the economy, I'm being a bit more selective in what I spend money on.  Will it truly enhance our lives and/or  resale value of the house, or is it an impulse buy?  We have kept some contractors and handymen in business this year with major remodeling projects.  I didn't even have a fit when our federal tax refund was significantly lower this year, and we have to pay the State of Michigan for the first time ever.  As for the staging business, I'm trying to reward those who hire me by really going the extra mile for them.  I no longer think unkind thoughts about the clients who string me along for weeks and then say "thanks, but no thanks", as I know it's entirely possible that they just can't afford it.  The economy WILL turn around, and we'll all be there to welcome it with open arms. 

P.S.  Do the new Monopoly rules include a space that says "FORECLOSED!  Go to The Poor Farm.  Do not pass Go."

Mar 04, 2009 10:37 PM
Barry Quine
Re/Max Aboutowne Realty Corp. - Oakville, ON
The Wayne Munden Team - Condo Specialist

Excellent post Elaine,

I love the Monopoly analogy.

It just re-enforces the fact that those who don't adapt to change get left behind. There are those who would be more than happy to go grab the old game out of the garbage, clean the coffee grounds off it and continue to play that old game. They don't like a challenge. They are set in their old ways.

There will also be those who embrace the new game, embrace the new rules as a fun challenge and then enjoy their days coming up with new ways to conquer those challenges.

THOSE are the people that I like to refer to as LEADERS. Those are the ones that are going to make a killing in this new economy because they put themselves ahead of the curve.

I intend to be one of those people.

Again, excellent post.

Mar 04, 2009 11:42 PM
Jeff Daniel
John L. Scott Ocean Shores - Ocean Shores, WA
Managing Broker, John L. Scott 360.581.9020

Great analogy. I couldn't have said it any better myself.

Mar 05, 2009 01:32 AM
Charlene Storozuk
Dezigner Digz - Burlington, ON
Home Stager - Burlington Ontario

Fantastic post Elaine.  I loved all of the points you made - so true.  I especially liked #10 - if you can still laugh, how bad can it be? 

Mar 06, 2009 10:06 AM
Kelsey Barklow
Hurd Realty - Johnson City, TN
423/948-9154

Nice words of encouragement and a good kick in the pants post. Thanks.

Mar 09, 2009 02:54 PM
Shirley Parks
Sands Realty 210-414-0966 - San Antonio, TX
Broker, 210-414-0966, San Antonio TX Real Estate

Congratulations on the Gold Star, Elaine.  This post is truly deserving of the honor.  Excellent ideas, writing, and presentation!

Mar 12, 2009 05:57 AM
Mike Henderson
Your complete source for buying HUD homes - Littleton, CO
HUD Home Hub - 303-949-5848

Real nice and positive post.  People are more positive in Denver.  It might be the great weather.

Apr 29, 2009 07:51 AM