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As Temperatures Rise, Please Be Mindful of Your Children, Phoenix

By
Real Estate Agent with Homesmart

 

Frankie was eating an ice cream cone when the world ended at precisely 3:14 PM PST. 

Perched upon the slightly too tall swivel stool that prevented his size four shoes from reaching the metal footrest, he raced the sun that beat down on his prize through the pane glass window for the last dripping remnants of rocky road.  His four year old mind was not equipped to appreciate the terrible irony of his selection.

The van was somewhere beyond the wall of light, but the glare prevented him from seeing it.  He wanted to move to a different seat, but his mother had told him to stay put while she used the restroom.  Already mad at him for not listening to her on the drive over, she would take his ice cream away and put him in timeout if he didn’t do as she said.

“I behave, Momma,” he squealed as he spun to meet the sounds of the familiar footfalls.  His eyes grew wide as she sat down with her own chocolate cone that contrasted wonderfully with the vanilla scented perfume she always wore.

“I have some!  I have some!”

“No way, Jose,” she offered in mock protest through a coy smile.  “This is Mommy’s.  You already had yours.”

Looking down at the sad, melted cone in his hand, he was cut off before his objection could even be vocalized.

“Tell you what,” she compromised, “I’ll let you have a bite of Mommy’s if you promise to be good on the way home.  Okay?”

“Okay, Momma!”

She handed Frankie the cone as she guided him to a seat away from the window.  She’d initially selected it to keep a watchful eye on the parking lot, but the western exposure ensured the futility of that plan.  The pair took a seat at a table in the middle of the Baskin Robbins, and she managed to wrestle her ice cream back with relative ease.

Frankie regaled her with tales of his day at preschool while she savored her indulgence.  Catching only one or two out of every four or five words, she had long since learned that his sentences didn’t necessarily constitute linear thought.  He tended to go the stream of consciousness route. 

More like a flash flood, she thought.

If he were to be believed, Miss Heather had apparently been a monkey and chased a tiger up to the sky in a choo-choo train made of feathers.  That’s what she heard, at least.  Dropping in a well timed “really” or “wow” where appropriate, she struggled to feign interest.  In truth, she was so consumed with her mental shopping list for dinner (chicken or salmon?) and the myriad chores she needed to finish before her husband returned home from his business trip that she wouldn’t have blinked if Frankie told her that his day had been spent running with scissors and sticking paperclips into the outlets.  The travel associated with John’s new position made things much more difficult, but she couldn’t really complain.  They were fortunate that he had been able to find work again so quickly after the layoff.  The same couldn’t be said of most of his former colleagues.

“Momma?”

“Oh, yes, sweetie?  Ready to go?”

She must have drifted off for a moment.

“I ready.”

“Okay, let’s get some for your sister for when she wakes up and then we can go.”

Stepping out into the brutal, shimmering heat of the concrete desert, she made her way to the tan Honda Odyssey with a paper bag in one hand and Frankie’s tiny hand in the other.  He stubbornly clung to his barren cone, probing its recesses with his tongue for one last sticky drop as he was dragged along behind her.

When they reached the minivan, it didn’t immediately register that anything was wrong.  She saw Darcy sleeping peacefully in her car seat when she looked through the window.  The smile that spread across her face froze instantly, however, when she realized the engine wasn’t running. 

As often happened, her baby daughter fell asleep on the way to pick Frankie up from school.  Ordinarily, they would go straight home, but she’d decided to stop for ice cream today on nothing more than a whim.  It was hot, and she’d felt guilty about how short tempered she’d been with the kids over the past few days.

The keys were still in the ignition where she’d left them, and the car had been purposefully left running.  Everyone knows that you don’t leave a child in a vehicle without the A/C running in the summer. 

“Oh my God!”

Not sure when the engine conked out, but knowing they had been inside for nearly twenty minutes, she frantically yanked at the handle of the back seat.  It wouldn’t budge.  Remembering that she had locked and armed the car by removing the alarm fob from the key ring, she fished in her purse until she found it.  Pressing it twice to unlock all doors, she tore open the door and reached for her baby.

“Darcy?  Darcy, wake up, honey!  It’s Momma, wake up, Darcy!”

“What’s wrong, Momma,” Frankie demanded.

She ignored him as well as the small crowd that was beginning to gather.

“Darcy!  Darcy, wake up!”

 

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Every summer, children drown in Phoenix area pools and perish in parked cars.  It’s important to remember that these tragedies befall not only the criminally negligent, but good people who simply lose sight of the dangers for an instant.  Parents are overworked, tired, stressed and more preoccupied than ever.  This leaves us all more susceptible to poor decision making.  Let’s not allow the hardships that have befallen many of us to be the precursor to greater tragedy.  If I have learned anything over the past several years, it is that parenting is the one occupation that doesn’t allow you to let your guard down.  Not for a second. 

 

Let’s all remember our true priorities this summer and not permit one single child to perish from preventable causes.  Watch your kids around water and never, ever leave them alone in the car.

We can do this, Phoenix.  Not one child.

 

Comments(9)

Elaine Hanson
Coldwell Banker Realty - Malibu | Topanga - Malibu, CA
REALTOR - Topanga, CA Real Estate Agent

Just a second is too long.  Poor babies!  Good reminder, Paul.

Pets can't be left in cars either - it's gets too hot too fast.

Mar 05, 2009 07:27 AM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate

I am sickened every time I see it on the news, Elaine.  Now more than ever with two of my own.  It is truly frightening how quickly and easily something like this can happen when you are tired, distracted or otherwise not thinking clearly.  I can't imagine living with the guilt.  Round the clock vigilance should never be an assumption.  It's not innate.  You have to really consciously work at it.  Murphy's Law dictates that the opportunities for such things will happen when we parents are at our most depleted and weary states. 

 

Mar 05, 2009 07:32 AM
Russell Lewis
Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate - Austin, TX
Broker,CLHMS,GRI

Oh man, this is so sad. It has happened in Texas and several times not as innocently as your portrayal but still a child is the victim of a person who should know better. I adore my children (even as they torment me with teenagerdom) as much as anyone but always try to remain vigilint with out being overbearing. It's the little ones that so need our care and attention!

Mar 05, 2009 07:43 AM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate

It's excruciating, Russell, how much sorrow and despair a momentary lapse of judgment can spawn.  As to the less innocent incidents, don't even go there.  I can't speak civilly as to what I would like to see happen to such offenders.

Mar 05, 2009 07:46 AM
Russell Lewis
Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate - Austin, TX
Broker,CLHMS,GRI

As usual we are in complete agreement and I will leave it at that. Thanks again for such an intensely compelling post.

Mar 05, 2009 08:17 AM
Beth Forbes
The mortgage help you want when you need it. - Center Valley, PA
Your 24/7 loan officer

It's especially sickening because it is so preventable.

Mar 05, 2009 08:25 AM
Paul Slaybaugh
Homesmart - Scottsdale, AZ
Scottsdale, AZ Real Estate

Thank you, Russell.

It usually is, Beth, provided that we all remain cognizant of the dangers at all times.  Only takes a moment of lax judgement in a lifetime of conscientiousness to invite disaster.

Mar 05, 2009 08:38 AM
Susan Mangigian
RE/MAX Preferred - West Chester, PA
Chester & Delaware County Homes, Delaware and Ches

Oh Paul.  How sad this would be.  I have a neighbor that complained at a party that she left her children in the car and went in Kohls and someone had the nerve to call the police!  A department store.  With no windows to check on the kids.  It was winter, they wouldn't be hurt by the heat, but this lady had no fear of loss.  She complained to us because someone saw her and called the police.  As they should have.  Someone could have broken in to her car and stolen what should be the most important thing in the world to this lady.  Shame on her. 

Mar 05, 2009 12:17 PM
Kathy Passarette
Creative Home Expressions - Mount Sinai, NY
L.I. Staging/Decorating

Paul ~ It's never too early to post a warning about this.  I am saddened every time I read about a small child drowning or dying from being left in an overheated car.  I was lucky enough to be a stay-at-home Mom for 14 years while my kids were little and I would never have thought of leaving them in the car.  If they were asleep, they were still brought into wherever I was going, they either woke up or went back to sleep in the stroller.

Mar 06, 2009 12:16 AM