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How St. Patrick’s Day Came To Have Special Meaning For Me

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Mortgage and Lending with Greenville, NC

I confess that growing up I didn’t get the whole idea of St. Patrick’s Day. I suppose that growing up in the South and being Protestant probably had a lot to do with my apathy for this holiday.

 

I was vaguely aware that far off places like New York and Chicago had big celebrations, parades and such. I had some knowledge of snakes or potatoes I wasn’t sure which, nor did I know what it meant.

 

I knew that shamrocks looked like four leaf clover to me. My concept of leprechauns came primarily from the cereal, Lucky Charms.

 

I learned quickly, while in elementary school, that if you did not wear green on March 17 you would have a miserable day. One day of being pinched all day was enough reinforcement to pay attention to the calendar in March!

 

While I was at the University of Georgia I had several fraternity brothers that were from Savannah. St. Patrick’s Day was a big deal in Savannah. I did not even know that until my acquaintance with those guys.

 

Since that time I’ve learned that St’ Patrick’s Day was established to commemorate the death of Patrick on March 17, 460. Wow, that was a long time ago!

 

St. Patrick is the patron saint of Ireland. We spent six years in captivity and later escaped and went back to England. While back in England he spent 15 years preparing for the priesthood. He then returned to Ireland as a missionary.

 

There is the story of St. Patrick banishing snakes from Ireland. This is now considered a legend and it is thought that snakes never inhabited the island.

 

One thing I did not know is that that are approximately nine times more Irish living in the United States than currently live in Ireland. The Irish immigrated in large numbers to the United States during the potato famine of 1845. This must have been where as I child I thought St. Patrick’s Day had something to do with potatoes.

 

I recently learned that the traditional meal on St. Patrick’s Day, in the US, is corned beef and cabbage. I like corned beef and cabbage, so that is OK with me.

 

So that tells you how little I knew and the few things I learned about St. Patrick’s Day. However, that does not tell you how St’ Patrick’s Day came to have meaning for me.

 

March 17, 1979 was the day that brought meaning to this day for me!

 

That was the day in the small chapel of Northwood Temple in Fayetteville, NC I walked down the aisle with my bride. Now that was a day to remember and commemorate!

This year, March 17, 2009, marks our 30th anniversary. For 30 years now, ole St. Patrick’s Day has held a special meaning for me. Not snakes, shamrocks, leprechaun’s green rivers, green beer, corned beef and cabbage or even potatoes. Just 30 years of a lifetime.

 

Happy Anniversary Sarah, I love you!

 

Jay Williams

 

www.myhomeloanwithjay.com

 

 

Rick Huffman
Mortgage Banker - Kent, WA

Jay, congratulations on 30 years. Anything over 5 years and people look at you funny. People forget when they get married it's not just a piece of paper that they are signing. It is a covenant with God. Have a great anniversary.

Mar 16, 2009 02:28 AM
Ann Dail
Baton Rouge Area Homes, Louisiana, USA, 225-761-0551 - Baton Rouge, LA
Broker/Realtor,CRS, ePRO, SRS, B.A.Chem

Jay, Thanks for the nice history lesson on St.Patricks day.  I didn't know all that.  Also congrats on 30 years.  I think much of America misses the blessing of working thru all the trials on the journey of marriage.  Young people just give up and run away.  I was married 33 years to my childhood sweetheart before my husband died of a heart attack; and can say I was blessed and much happier for working thru all those hard times!

Mar 16, 2009 04:50 AM
Karen Cooper
Karen Cooper | Sr Mortgage Loan Originator ! NMLS # 223305 | First Federal Bank of Florida, Ocala, FL - The Villages, FL
Helping Homeowners w/Home Loans in 27 US States

Hi Jay - Congratulation to you and your wife. St. Patrick's Day has always been a big day for me with my Irish heritage. I especially enjoy the tradition of having corned beef, potatoes and cabbage!

Mar 16, 2009 09:08 AM
Dave Culbertson
Real Living Home Team - Mount Vernon, OH

Funny how times change. I purposely DO NOT wear green...hoping to get pinched!

Mar 16, 2009 09:15 AM
Jay Williams
Greenville, NC - Greenville, NC
Mortgage Loan Officer - Getting You The Right Loan

Terry, thank you have have fun tomorrow pretending to be Irish.

Jay

Mar 16, 2009 03:48 PM
Jay Williams
Greenville, NC - Greenville, NC
Mortgage Loan Officer - Getting You The Right Loan

 Rick, a covenant it is. 30 years feel kind of strange. 5 x 6 people must think I'm truly weird.

Jay

Mar 16, 2009 03:51 PM
Jay Williams
Greenville, NC - Greenville, NC
Mortgage Loan Officer - Getting You The Right Loan

Ann, thank you. I' sorry you lost your husband. I pray your memories are absolutely blissful.

Jay

Mar 16, 2009 03:57 PM
Jay Williams
Greenville, NC - Greenville, NC
Mortgage Loan Officer - Getting You The Right Loan

Karen, I can see a little of that Irish in you. Have an extra helping of corned beef and cabbage for me.

Thank You

Jay

Mar 16, 2009 04:06 PM
Jay Williams
Greenville, NC - Greenville, NC
Mortgage Loan Officer - Getting You The Right Loan

Dave, amazing how your outlook changes as time goes by. 

Jay

Mar 16, 2009 04:10 PM
Blowing Rock Real Estate Boone Real Estate
Blowing Rock Investment Properties - Blowing Rock, NC

Awl, what a sweet post Jay. Thanks for the history on St. Paddy's day as well...never been a big deal to me either, I always get it mixed up wiht April Fools Day, lol.

Mar 17, 2009 02:19 AM
JB Brookman
JB Brookman Photography - Franklin, TN
High School Senior Portrait Photographer

Jay- Happy St. Patrick's Day!  Congratulations on 30 wonderful years of marriage!  Loved the celebratory post!

Mar 17, 2009 10:38 AM
Jim Crawford
Long & Foster - Fredericksburg, VA
Jim Crawford Broker Associate Fredericksburg VA

What a great post to make a specail day even more special!  Congratulations to you both!  Ellen and I will celebrate our 30th anniversay this September!

Mar 17, 2009 10:39 AM
Suesan Jenifer Therriault
JTHIS-Professional Home Inspection Team - Blakeslee, PA
"Inspecting every purchase as if it were my own".

Happy St. Patrick's Day and congratulation to you and your wife. Have a great 30th anniversary.

Mar 17, 2009 10:41 AM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

Congratulations Jay and make it great 30th, really I wonder how many can even say that they have been together that long. Good Luck and God Bless.

Mar 17, 2009 11:29 AM
Kim Dean
www.GoSimplyTexas.com - McKinney, TX
Simply Texas Real Estate - Broker/Owner

Jay! Congrats on 30 year of marriage. Enjoy your special day!

Mar 17, 2009 11:40 AM
Pat Tasker
Shorewest Realtors - Germantown, WI
Your Milwaukee Metro Area Agent (WI)

It is my name's day....so I have always celebrated....I am going to post a small story about how the leprechauns visited out house every year...check it out!

 

Mar 17, 2009 12:56 PM
Jay Williams
Greenville, NC - Greenville, NC
Mortgage Loan Officer - Getting You The Right Loan

Thank you all for your "best wishes" Hope you had a great St. Patrick's Day.

Jay

Mar 17, 2009 11:20 PM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Thanks for the great post on St. Patrick's Day....it's my birthday as well so it is very nice to read your post with warm thoughts for the day. Actually, here is one more little tidbit on the day. The year,day I was born (oops sorry I can't tell you what year-"vanity thy name is woman) it was a Sunday and it was also Palm Sunday. My mom named me Patricia, of course and always told me the story about it being a very special day because....When the Shamrock crossed the Palm on Palm Sunday only happens once in 100 years or so. Hope I live to celebrate my birthday when this happens again. 

Best regards,

Patricia Aulson/ Portsmouth NH Real Estate

Mar 18, 2009 01:31 AM
Karl Peidl
Moorestown, NJ
Accredited Loan Consultant

Congrats on that great milestone.  Thanks for sharing.

I've been to Savannah twice on St Patty's Day.  What a celebration!

Mar 18, 2009 01:50 AM
Jay Williams
Greenville, NC - Greenville, NC
Mortgage Loan Officer - Getting You The Right Loan

Patricia, I hope you had a great birthday!. I searching for the years Palm Sunday and St. Patrcik's day were the same. Haha

Eric, never been to Savannah on St. Patrick's Day, but have heard it is a grand time.

Jay

Mar 21, 2009 12:58 AM