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Real Estate Behind The Scenes: What I've Learned in 6 Short Months!

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Access

According to Wikipedia, the definition of a Realtor® is "a person who acts as an intermediary between sellers and buyers of real estate/ real property and attempts to help find sellers who wish to sell and buyers who with to buy." This definition seems so stress free and appealing; seeing as though I have been licensed for a short period of time (6months now), I am seeing that this definition is pretty accurate.  Everything is going PHENOMENAL, clients couldn't be more cooperative, and deals couldn't be running any smoother if I wanted them to be.  All right, Randall lets not get too carried away, if only my time being licensed was as awesome as what I was painting just now.  

My time is RE thus far hasn't been a bad experience; it has actually been quite enjoyable.  I've learned a lot about me, relationships, and how this industry can throw you around if you're not paying attention, and making sure things are getting done.  

Being the independent West Texas guy that I am, I have realized that I can't do it all on my own.  It's all right to ask questions, it's all right to let someone help you if you need the help.  I have had to remind my self that the people I choose to surround myself on a daily basis with, and seeing as I am the youngest in the group, (not mentioning any numbers) that ALL have been where I am at this current point in my RE career.  It's all right for me to accept their advice, to listen when they say, "Hey kid--it's all right to not be as busy, as you're learning, and it's good to learn the right way, rather than be crazy busy and not doing things correct." (Practice makes perfect, right?) 

I have seen relationships come and go in the months that I have been in RE. Some I am glad to not be dealing with, others I can't imagine not having in my life.  Business relationships, and personal relationships are for sure not always suppose to be blended.  If they do in fact blend I've learned that it's highly important to make sure the other person understands that when it's business it's strictly business.  You can't allow people to not take care of you in business, simply because the relationship started out on a personal level.  I find it amazing when two are alike to distinguish the two differences. It's the best of both worlds.  To be completely honest at the end of the day if I'm going to be successful, as that's the only option I've given myself; I can't afford to be working with people because our time together began before I was licensed.  I've got to have only the best supporting me, knowing that they have my clients and me taken care of.  The incredible relationship I have established in this short year and a half that I've been in San Antonio; I have to say I've learned something and have been able to apply the lessons learned to my life.  (Yes--even the bad ones)  To all of those people out there who help me and push me to my limits each day, A HUGE THANK YOU! You all know who you are.  

Lastly, one of the biggest things I have begun to learn while being in this industry is it's all right to say NO! It's absolutely impossible to build this business, if I am constantly opening the door to helping others when in reality I don't always have time or the energy to help with what needs to be done.  I have to constantly remind myself that I have to make time for me, if I am going to be somewhat normal, and others not think I'm crazy!  (I'm not at all, okay maybe just a little) I have to say no, and continue striving to be the best, so that I can take care of the sellers, and buyers that are coming in and out of my life.  

I encourage you all to leave any suggestions/ feedback/ or comments any of you may have for this new youngster in RE. 

Till the next post--

Randall Zamora 

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Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Randall, you are right track - one YES means NO to many other things - so learning to say NO (or delay or delegate) is the best lesson you have learned.

And we all know - keep personal and professional relations separate. Present yourself as a 'PRO' even when you are showing a home to your family member!

Nov 20, 2013 02:08 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

this is also from a lifetime of life itself. Never underestimate that even six months, the last time you have the experience is what makes it what it is. Never forget that.

Love and light,

Laura

 

 

Nov 20, 2013 03:44 PM
Inna Ivchenko
Barcode Properties - Encino, CA
Realtor® • GRI • HAFA • PSC • Short Sale • Probate

The very first AR blog post!

And so well written.

Congratulations on your feature and welcome to Active Rain!

Nov 20, 2013 04:47 PM
Aaron Hofmann
Atlanta Communities - Smyrna, GA
aka Mr. Smyrna Vinings

Just keep learning the business and be willing to work hard. Nobody became successful in real estate by waiting around for leads to show up. You have to earn them.

Nov 20, 2013 08:18 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Kudos to you for learning all of this in just six months! I've known agents in the business for decades, who haven't figured out half of this yet!

Nov 20, 2013 08:38 PM
Bill Wagner
Wagner Real Estate Group - Galloway Township, NJ
Jersey Shore and South Jersey Real Estate

Randall,

Congratulations on your new career. Much success to you. We're glad to see you realize it is easy to have your time pulled away by others. Remember, NO! Is a complete sentence.

Nov 20, 2013 08:57 PM
Michael Setunsky
Woodbridge, VA
Your Commercial Real Estate Link to Northern VA

Randall, sounds like you've learned a lot in your first six months. Find a good mentor in the business and keep it going. You're off to a great start.

Nov 20, 2013 10:30 PM
Marc McMaster
RE/MAX Centre Realty - State College, PA
Putting my clients before myself

Welcome to the business!  I'm glad to see people still getting into this business and concerned about doing it right instead of just trying to cash checks!

Nov 20, 2013 10:37 PM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital

Hey, Randall!  Nice first post you've got here.  Welcome to Active Rain, and you should know that it takes most of us months to get that first coveted gold star.

Nov 20, 2013 11:51 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

This business is a lesson in continual learning and it appears that you're on top of that.  Welcome to the world of real estate and blogging.

Nov 20, 2013 11:51 PM
Suzanne Otto
Six Twenty Designs - Lansdale, PA
Your Montgomery County PA home stager

Welcome to AR Randall! This is some excellent advice for new people in the real estate industry.

Just starting out, it's easy to want to help everyone out and take on everything. It's a sure fire way to burn out quickly.

Nov 21, 2013 12:12 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Welcome to AR, Randall. You'll find that this group of people will be the best support one could ever hope for.

Nov 21, 2013 12:50 AM
Brenda Mullen
RE/MAX Associates - San Antonio, TX
Your San Antonio TX Real Estate Agent!!

Congrats on your first blog and your first feature Randall :)!  I am sure there is many more to come.  You have come a long way in 6 months and if you keep learning, nothing will be able to hold you back :)!

Nov 21, 2013 01:27 AM
Jay & Michelle Lieberman
Keller Williams World Class - Agoura Hills, CA
Creating Calm in the Buying and Selling Chaos

Sounds like you are on the right path Randall.  Asking questions and listening were a couple things that I spent a lot of time doing when I started out.

Nov 21, 2013 01:43 AM
Randall Zamora
RE/MAX Access - Garden Ridge, TX

Sheila Moran:  Yes. All of these great lessons crammed into one! Thank you for being a great mentor!  Gear up for the next post! 

Emmary Simpson: Thank you!  I have learned quite a bit, and plan on only continue to learn more as I grow in the business.  Thank you for your support!  

Russell Lewis:  Thank you for the awesome comment!  Yes, I agree my mentors are incredible, and awesome to me!  I plan on keeping up the hard work! 

Kristin Moran: Glad your enjoyed my first blog!  You have to know, you've been one that has taught me that it's okay to say no!  Thank you for that!  

Susan Emo: Smiling in the "universal language", right?  I have seen that yes in fact, everything is a lesson that I can learn from! Thank you for your kind comment, and support! 

Christine Bohn: Yes. I absolutely love what I am doing, in the decision of taking my life into the RE scene!  Thank you for your encouragement. 

Christine Donovan:  Yes.  A whole lot of lessons.  It's for sure been a learning curve to say no, however it's getting easier as I progress in my business.  

Carla Muss-Jacobs:  Yes--I see that in this industry things are constantly changing.  I am thouroughly enjoying getting familiar with the blogging scene, and the advice all share! 

Rosie Moore: I plan on only expanding and building more and more relationships!  I have hit a few rough patches, being only 24 I see how easy it would be to get hung up on those "rough patches".  I plan on carving a little more personal time out for me to enjoy. 

Praful Thakkar: Thank you for you advice!  I will keep it in mind--I agree to always keep things "PRO" even if it does concern the possibility of a famliy member. 

Laura Cerrano:  I too will keep your advice lock in my brain!  Thank you for your kind words! 

Inna Ivchenko: I am glad you enjoyed reading along.  Thank you for your compliment on my blog being featured. 

Nov 21, 2013 03:40 AM
Graziella Bruner
NCS Premier Real Estate - Detroit, MI
Associate Broker - Serving Wayne & Oakland County

Become a Question Master and keep asking questions!  Excellent Post and congrats and most of all Welcome to The Rain. Everyday is a learning day and I take NO's as a NEXT and keep moving!  Wishing you the best success! 

Nov 21, 2013 03:44 AM
Randall Zamora
RE/MAX Access - Garden Ridge, TX

Aaron Hofmann:  One thing my father always taught my brother and I, was not to be afraid to work hard!  All that we have been blessed with, and continue to be blessed with could all be gone tomorrow.  I look at it all as a puzzle, finding pieces (Leads) are what will get my to my continued success. Thank you for your encouragement! 

Nina Hollander: Much thanks for your kind comment!  I am constantly looking for ways to grow, and stand out from others in the business!  

Bill & MaryAnn Wagner: I will keep in mind that "NO!" is a complete sentence.  

Michael Setunsky: It's for sure a challenge, which is why I am enjoying RE so much!  I have a few amazing mentors lined up in my life, that I like to surround myself with!  

Marc McMaster: Another great lesson that my parents both taught my brother and I.  ALWAYS do right, not matter the situation, and all will for the most part will turn out good!  You can never go wrong with doing things right.  The "checks" are simply just the bonus at the end of our hard work! 

Patricia Kennedy: I am overwhelmed with all the welcomes I have received. 

Charita Cadenhead:  I can only home that I somewhat on top of continuing to educate myself.  I have a long way to go, but yes, I agree I'm off to a great start! 

Suzanne Otto: Again, I love to help people.  If my first blog helps even one new RE Agent, then my job has been done!  

Tammie White: I am quickly learning that the group is great support, and plan on continuing to learn from ALL of you! 

Brenda Mullen: Thank you for encouraging me to get back into blogging. Yes. Many more blogs to come.  Thank you for you continued support you provide me with! It is greatly appreciated!  I am very thankful! 

Jay & Michelle Lieberman: I find it very beneficial to sit back and listen, asking questions when I don't know the answer I am learning quickly it's alright to not know ALL the answers!  Thank you for your words of encouragement!  

Nov 21, 2013 03:55 AM
Randall Zamora
RE/MAX Access - Garden Ridge, TX

Graziella Bruner:  I will take your advice, and continue to always ask questions!  I am glad you enjoyed my post.  I will keep "NO's" as a next too, and continue to keep moving. Thank you for your encouragement! 

Nov 21, 2013 03:57 AM
Kelly Young
The Platinum Group Realtors - Colorado Springs, CO
Colorado Springs Real Estate ~ 719-226-0126

Randall, the hardest lesson for me in learning to say no was to a property or person I just did not feel right about.  I had this belief about "you are suppose to work with anyone/everyone" and what I learned is there is a reason for that intuition and sometimes it just that we are not the best personalities to work together or I have seen later that I would not have been the best agent for the job.  Being the youngest has advantages and disadvantages.  Learn as much as you can as there is a lot of wisdom in all those years.  Welcome to ActiveRain!

Nov 21, 2013 10:13 AM
Joan Whitebook
BHG The Masiello Group - Nashua, NH
Consumer Focused Real Estate Services

Welcome - and I must say that it looks like you are on the road to success!

Nov 21, 2013 12:16 PM