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ENCOURAGEMENT CORNER...
 
Challenges to Pursue
by: Jim Rohn
 
Review your performance.
Here’s what my father said, "Always do more than you are paid for to make an investment in your future."…Review your performance—your language with your children. Say, "Have I been too harsh, too strong, too stubborn? Should I have learned to be easier and mixed more compassion with the tough stuff I have to deal with?" And yes, prayer will help. Ask for help to say the right thing, not to ruin it all by poor communication.
 
Face your fears.
That’s how you conquer them. Don’t dismiss them; face them. Say, "Here’s what I’m afraid of. I wonder what I could do to change that."
 
Exercise your willpower to change direction.
You don’t have to keep doing what you’ve been doing the last 6 years if it’s not yielding the benefits you want.…Pick a new destination and go that way. Use your willpower to start the process. You don’t have to repeat last year. Clean up the errors. Invest it now in the next year. Watch it make the difference.
 
Admit your mistakes.
Sometimes you have to admit them to others.…Here’s some of the best phrases in the English language, "I’m sorry." The reason those are good words is because they could start a whole new relationship. It could start two people going in a whole new direction. Simple, not easy.…Here’s the big one. Admit your mistakes to yourself. You don’t have to babble about them to everyone in the neighborhood. But it doesn’t hurt to sit down and have a conversation with yourself and say, "There’s no use kidding myself. Here’s where I really am."
 
Refine your goals.
Start the process. Set some higher goals. Reach for some higher purpose. Go for something beyond what you thought you could do.
 
Believe in yourself.
You’ve got to believe in God and you’ve got to believe in the community. You’ve got to believe in the possibilities. You’ve got to believe in the economy. You’ve got to believe that tomorrow can be better than today. Here’s the big one. Believe in yourself. There isn’t a skill you can’t learn; there isn’t a discipline you can’t try; there isn’t a class you can’t take; there isn’t a book you couldn’t read.
 
Ask for wisdom.
This is communication of the highest source. Ask for wisdom that creates answers. Ask for the wisdom that creates faith to believe things are possible. Ask for wisdom to deal with the challenges for today and tomorrow, to deal with the challenges your family brings you. Don’t wish it was easier; wish you were better.
 
Live with intensity.
You might as well turn it up a notch or two. Invest more of you in whatever you do. Be a little stronger; be a little wiser. Step up your vitality contribution. Put everything you’ve got into everything you do and then ask for more vitality, more strength and more vigor, more heart and more soul.
 
Find your place.
If you just work on a job, find the best place you can serve well, and sure enough they’ll ask you to occupy a better place. And if you keep doing a job well, do the very best you can. That’s your best way out. Here’s a Bible phrase. If you work on your gifts, they’ll make a place for you.
 
Demand integrity from yourself.
Integrity is like loyalty. You can’t demand it of someone else; you can only demand it of yourself. Be the best example of loyalty, and you’ll get some loyal followers. Be the best example of integrity, and you’ll have people around you who have integrity. Lead the way.
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Jay McHugh,

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Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Don't get comfortable, reinvent what you do, wind yourself up each and every morning to leave the bunker to hop in the local real estate trench to fight your way to those real estate closing. Real estate is a sport. Don't get comfortable or lean back and say there, that's good enough. It's not.

Feb 20, 2012 08:29 PM
Fernando Herboso - Associate Broker MD, & VA
Maxus Realty Group of Samson Properties - Clarksburg, MD
301-246-0001 Serving Maryland, DC and Northern VA

 

 

Jim Rohn was one of the wisest person on the planet. .I put him next to the most famous philosophers we had in time.

Feb 20, 2012 08:39 PM
Diane Grady
Endless Summer Realty - Saint Augustine, FL

I listen to Jim Rohn's tapes all the time. He was Tony Robbins mentor and I follow Tony and when I am not listening to Jim I am listening to Tony. The radio is forever turned off in my car now! Amazing person and he really changed lives!

Feb 20, 2012 08:48 PM
Joe Petrowsky
Mortgage Consultant, Right Trac Financial Group, Inc. NMLS # 2709 - Manchester, CT
Your Mortgage Consultant for Life

There is great wisdom in the post that you share with all of us. Reading these words of wisdom is one thing, taking the wisdom to heart is quite another.

Feb 20, 2012 09:25 PM
Jeff Reynolds
Utah Commercial Real Estate Connection - South Jordan, UT

Love Jim Rohn!  It's amazing how you can listen to the same thing three different times and hear something completely different.

Feb 21, 2012 02:44 AM
Phil Leng
Retired - Kirkland, WA
Phil Leng - Retired

Hi Jay,

Thanks for the post.

Jim Rohn has a way of presenting simple truth that is very powerful

Phil

Feb 21, 2012 09:27 PM
Jay McHugh
SendOutCards-Appreciation Marketing Expert - Acton, MA
YOUR SendOutCard Mentor

 

 

Thanks all...I love researching folks like Jim and others...it makes our real estate business that much easier....

 

cheers..have a great week.....

 

Jay

Feb 21, 2012 11:45 PM
Pam Langley
Consulting by Pam - Montgomery, AL

I believe you have some very valid points! Just to give you my words of the day, "Believe in yourself, others will follow!" 

So, as I was getting ready for work this morning & looked myself in the eye and said " I believe in me. Others will follow my lead because I believe!"

My daily pep talks with myself are very helpful!

Feb 22, 2012 01:26 AM