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How Technology Killed Millennial Communication

Reblogger Jack Lara
Real Estate Agent with Main Street Properties

Communication

Original content by Kyle Reyes

It's causing the death of a generation. Or at least the communication of the millennial generation.

And we're all becoming infected.

My wife is trying to save our family. She's identified an antidote.

It's called "20 minutes of no technology during dinner".

If my symptoms are particularly bad, she'll actually confiscate my cell phone.

It leaves my skin crawling as I go through withdrawal.

The more I interact with millennials - whether I'm interviewing them, overseeing internships or giving speeches to them - the more I see it. It's an entire generation that doesn't know how to communicate.

Here are some stats for you:

According to a Nielsen study, 83 percent of millennials say they sleep with their smartphones. (I think 17% of them overslept and missed the study).

A Cisco study found that 56 percent of millennials won't accept jobs from companies that ban social media.

An Odesk study found that 89 percent of millennials would prefer to choose when and where they work rather than being in a 9-to-5 position, and 45 percent would rather be able to work from home than make more money.

An Intrepid study found that 48 percent say word-of-mouth (specifically social media) influences their purchasing decisions over TV ads. 63% stay updated on brands through social networks.

A study by Millennial Branding found that 50 percent of college millennials say they don't need a physical classroom. 53 percent believe online colleges are reputable. And 39% view the future of education as being virtual.

How prepared are they to enter the workforce? A 2013 study commissioned by Bentley University found that 35 percent of business leaders assigned a score of "C" or lower on preparedness to recent college grads they've hired. And get this - 37 percent of those grads gave themselves the same grade range.

A 2013 State of St. Louis Workforce study found that a lack of communication skills and poor work ethic, along with a lack of critical thinking and problem solving skills were the biggest shortcomings of the job applicants - far outpacing a lack of technical skills such as math and computer.

How did this happen??

It's not rocket science, folks. You've probably seen the videos on YouTube. Babies sitting on mom's lap...trying to "swipe" the pages on the magazine that mom is holding as if she were using an iPad.

Entire coffee shops filled with people sitting together and ignoring each other as they text on their smart phone.

People who don't know how to maintain eye contact.

20-somethings who don't know how to properly shake your hand (hint - always touch webbing and never let your wrist go limp).

People who have no interest in attending their class reunion, as I wrote about previously, because they already know what everyone in their class has been doing.

Doorbells? What are those? "Text u when i get there"

Landline? Never heard of it. Text me, bro.

Rock concerts where people don't hold up lighters, they hold up cell phones.

Presidents who can't give a speech without a teleprompter.

People falling in front of trains who don't get a hand...they get YouTubed.

Yes, it's a stereotype of an entire generation. Actual human communication is dead. But there's good news.

The fact that so few millennials know how to communicate helps make those who DO know how to have a real conversation SHINE. It's sad that so few people in this generation have a strong work ethic, but it means that they will be the few and the proud that SUCCEED.

I want to know what you think. What are you seeing out there? Is this a generation that can be saved? Or is the shift in HOW they communicate a GOOD thing? Leave your thoughts in the comments below.

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Kyle Reyes is the President and Creative Director of The Silent Partner Marketing, New England's #1 Marketing Agency. We're a boutique marketing firm focused on helping businesses grow in an age of exploding technology. You can find him on Google+Facebook and Twitter. He's the Chuck Norris of marketing. It's outrageous - we know. That's kind of the point. Outrageous marketing - extraordinary results. And yes - he wants to connect with you on LinkedIn, so send him a request!
Debi La Rosa
Phoenix, AZ

This article is "so right on"!..

I see it every day, and if you happend to have a need to actually have a conversation, it is a struggle and very difficult to keep their attention.  I have been in a middle of an interaction with a media addict, and notice them glancing at their cell phone about every 30 seconds.  The smart phones seem to have a "respiration"....as facebook, twitter, linkedIn, etc... update, the dark screen, will flash the symbols of those sites...It is, to say the least very distracting and draws their attention away from the task at hand...

I think it very, very rude to be in a crowd where someone has their phone out and interacting with it.  I am bold and say, "please put your phone away, are we boring you?"  And just wait quietly, until the phone is put away.

I lived in Germany for almost a year.  They have very little tolerance for the rudeness of Americans and their cell phones. 

I concur!

Jan 23, 2015 12:40 AM
Kyle Reyes
The Silent Partner Marketing - Manchester, CT

Thanks so much for the reblog!

Jan 25, 2015 01:46 AM
Winston Heverly
Coldwell Banker Access Realty - South Macon, GA
GRI, ABR, SFR, CDPE, CIAS, PA

Hi, I love your post really hit home, glad I came across it in the archieves. Thanks for sharing.

Apr 29, 2015 12:54 PM