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Communicating: Using our Mouth Words!

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Industry Observer with RETIRED / State License is Inactive Inactive License Oregon

I'm currently working a transaction and the names (of the parties to the transaction) will be withheld to protect . . . my reputation!

As the buyers' agent I have to follow the deal, make sure time sensative documents are sent, delivered, negotiated, etc.

When you have a listing agent that doesn't feel like . . . well, talking . . . it's kinda hard.

Makes me wonder if I should change my business model, and put up a "NO TALKING" sign.  Hmmm . . . it might actually be nice to conduct business that way. 

No communication! 

Here's what happened:  A home inspection was done on the property week ago Friday.  I wasn't able to prepare the repair addendum right away, and emailed the listing agent -- as a courtesy -- letting her know the inspection was done, there were a few items we'd be asking the seller to take care of, but no deal breakers.

That email was sent off on Saturday.  And as night follows day . . . on Sunday, I didn't get a reply.  OH COME ON!  How hard is it to type:  Thanks for the update Carla.  I'll let the seller know -- ??

I called the listing agent on Sunday, just to let her know the repair addendum would be forthcoming. I believe in communication.  While on the phone, she acknoweldged receipt of the email.

Funny . . . she never mentioned that she'd be going out of town! 

Nope, I heard that from the appraiser who called me on Monday asking me to open up the property so he can perform the appraisal.  Seems the listing agent told him she couldn't make it 'cause she was going out of town.

Hmmm . . . going out of town? 

We have a repair addendum that's going to be submitted . . . an appraisal that might need the listing agent's attention . . . and she's gone??  But, she doesn't even bother to communicate that to me either.

I think she made the whole "I'm out of town" thing up.  I think she just didn't want to be bothered in opening the door for the appraiser.  I don't mind doing that.  I look at it as part of my job.  But what I DO mind is being someone's step-n-fetchit. 

Maybe if the listing agent would have COMMUNICATED to me that she was going out of town when I had her on the phone, I wouldn't be writing this blog. 

Transactions can be so much nicer for ALL involved if the agents would only -- JUST --  USE THEIR MOUTH WORDS.  It's called TALKING, boys and girls . . .

 

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Comments(36)

Brenda Caruso
Simply Vegas - Henderson, NV

I think that next to Location-Location-Location, Communication-Communication-Communication are the next 3 more important words in real estate!

Aug 16, 2009 05:00 AM
Pete Buckley
Independent Broker/Realtor, North San Diego County CA. - Del Mar, CA

The flip side of this is the ones who do nothing but talk and talk and never do what they say. Wonderful communicators with no "follow through" leaving YOU to do it all if it's going to get done.

Lazy folks come in all kinds of packages just like quality folks do!

Aug 16, 2009 05:21 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Hi June -- it is amazing how some agents work deligently.  I liked the little girl too! 

HEY Candice!! -- I will look that book up.  Thanks for the 'good read' suggestion.  I did send a few nice emails . . . with my handy-dandy readnotify secret weapon!! ;-)

Thanks Kathryn -- My next step would have been as you suggested; contact the managing broker

LOL Mary -- that's funny!  Yes, she was at a "how to" seminar on the 21st century, modern day advances!

You know what Barbara . . . your work ethic is probably why you still work in this profession!  It does make a difference!

Aug 16, 2009 06:15 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

P.S. CANDICE -- you should write a BLOG about that book!!  There's an Active Rain Book Club that might be a nice fit too!!

Aug 16, 2009 06:17 AM
JL Boney, III
Coldwell Banker - Columbia, SC
Columbia, SC Real Estate

I have never figured out why it is some agents can't simply pick up the phone or sit down and type an email to just pass on a simple message. It really does make things run a little more smooth when we all know what's happening.

Aug 16, 2009 09:16 AM
Kerry Jenkins
Prime Properties - Crestline, CA

Any agent that doesn't use email, check it on an hourly basis is not going to make it in this business.  Any one that can't shoot off a quick, got your email reply, seriously. that takes 2 seconds. I love it when it says in the MLS, do not call me or our office, do not contact us in any way except with an offer, and even then don't call us. if you win the bidding war, you will get a call.  Sheesh.

Aug 16, 2009 11:14 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Lynette -- thanks for sharing your husband's view on life . . . wonderful!! 

Hi Lyn -- I just YouTubed that song . . . wonderful musician!  And that line was a good one LOL

Hey Ginger . . . sometimes I think I have my cell surgically implanted to my ear!

Barbara -- EXCELLENT point!!

Hi again JL -- I think this is the post I read first. 

Amy -- thanks for the 2 seconds!  HA HA HA   It's NOT hard to communicate, and I appreciate you taking the time!!  I never read that in our MLS, but I'm sure I will soon enough!  Sheesh is right ;-)

Aug 16, 2009 11:49 AM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

Communication is so important.  My poor First Time FHA buyer just lost out on another home.  Only two agents have ever bothered to e-mail me on the situation, and one was nice enough to call; I think highly of her.  Are you listening Monica Chavez - Thank you for being so polite.

Aug 16, 2009 03:18 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

So much easier not to communicate; then you can just cause frustration and confusion. LOL

Aug 16, 2009 06:23 PM
Tina Gleisner
Home Tips for Women - Portsmouth, NH
Home Tips for Women

Wow, it's surprising that this agent is still working as a realtor

Aug 17, 2009 01:18 AM
Michael Ford
San Diego, CA
California+Hawaii+Oregon

carla, this blog entry touches on a several very important points.  failure to deal timely during business hours is inexcusable, as is the inability to make the home available for the appraiser.  everyone has email and a voice mail at the very least, many of us have assistants that can handle the mundane stuff.

that said, sunday?  come on...give the guy a break.  and 24/7 is beyond ridiculous and a sure way to burnout.  there is little that can be done after hours or on  a weekend that cannot be done during reasonable business hours.

that the appraiser would want ANYONE to drop what they were doing to open  a home on short notice is silly.  their failure to plan is not your emergency. 

i decided years ago that my personal life is more important as my professional one and resolved to not allow other agents or clients to set my business hours.

 

 

 

Aug 17, 2009 02:42 AM
Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

Alot of agents don't tell anyone when they go out of town. Then when your talking to them about something they tell you they're at the airport in Oregon & don't have the file with them??????  Yeah, I guess it's not in your overnighter.  Don't know what to say, other than for some reason the listing agent didn't want you in the loop. 

Aug 17, 2009 06:52 AM
Cynthia (CJ) Sleppy
Cynthia J Sleppy Real Estate - Medford, OR

It is important to be able to have some personal time and not work 24/7 and most people can understand and respect that but communication is the key in all things.  If you tell people you work with what your hours are, then they know how to work with you to get the best results (ie: "I return calls at 10 AM and 4 PM daily", or "On Saturdays and Sundays my schedule is consistantly booked, so I return calls and answer e-mails in the evening", or whatever may apply).  If you keep it a big secret, and other agents can't reach you, then you are not being fair to the sellers, buyers or other agents.  People get more upset about not knowing what's going on than they do about working with someone else's schedule.

I've known too many listing agents who also seem to think that putting the sign in the front yard means their job is almost complete and assume that the buyer's agent will take care of the details because they want the deal to close (I actually had an agent say that out loud to me and to at least two other agents I knew).

A good way to keep things balanced is to have set times that you deal with messages (phone & e-mail).  For example, it is not too invasive of someone's personal time to check their e-mail once a day on their time off and respond as needed.  For urgent (such as "I have an offer to present!"), give the appropriate response.  For the routine, a simple "Got your message, Thanks. I'm working on that / I'll have that for on____, etc").  Simple Courtesy goes a long way toward successful working relationships, closed transactions and building referral business for the future.

Aug 17, 2009 07:24 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Hey Gene!!I sure hope Monica Chavez is an Active Rainer!  If not, invite her?  We all love polite agents here!  And sorry about the buyer missing out . . . D'OH!

LOL Christine -- EXACTLY!  That's why I'm thinking of setting up my office with a "NO TALKING" policy!  So much easier . . .

Hi Tina . . . You're comment is spot on!  I too, wonder!!  The back-story is that this same agent had the property WAY over-priced for the market.  It sat for over 250 days . . . at $279,900.  When it dropped to $239,900 my buyers put in their offer!  It was priced to sell at then.  What a shame this agent WASTED her clients time too!!  Not communicating that the market wouldn't bear the $280,000 . . . agent should have known, and priced accordingly.  A bad agent is BAD all around!! 

Michael Ford in Encinatas. . . First the appraiser called on MONDAY!  We are pushing for a QUICK CLOSE so this is GREAT!!  Second, DUDE it was an EMAIL!  An agent can't acknowledge an EMAIL over the weekend?!?  Yeah, agents don't work weekends . . . HA HA HA.  Maybe the lazy ones don't.  I show a ton of property, make a lot of calls and submit LOTS of offers -- OVER THE WEEKENDS, at the convenience of my clients . . . not at my convenience.  I think I'll make this a PUBLIC blog now . . . maybe your clients would like to know and I quote:  "i decided years ago that my personal life is more important as my professional one and resolved to not allow other agents or clients to set my business hours."  BTW, do you know where the CAPS key is?  Your comment looks like a 2nd grader wrote it.

LOL Lyn -- yup, the file isn't with them . . . can't talk now . . . off to conduct my 'personal' business!  I'm an impo'tant REAL-A-TOR.

Cynthia . . . yes, stating your business hours would have been better then . . .

 

Aug 17, 2009 08:47 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

. . . NOTHING!

'-)

Aug 17, 2009 08:48 AM
Bill Gillhespy
16 Sunview Blvd - Fort Myers Beach, FL
Fort Myers Beach Realtor, Fort Myers Beach Agent - Homes & Condos

Evening Carla,  Great reminder of how we need to be a little more considerate of each other.  I wonder if that agent will be reading this ?  You're preaching to the choir here.

Aug 18, 2009 12:54 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

Hi Bill . . . I think the agent was in the pews!  I did email her, gave her a few insights and from now on, she's emailing me, and guess what . . . we're IN THE SAME LOOP!!  It's great!!  I think she gets it, reading this blog post or not!! 

Aug 18, 2009 12:57 PM
Mark Velasco
West Shores Realty - Whittier, CA
Top Producing Broker Associate

Communication is absolutely necessary in our business. Not communicating is rude and unprofessional

Aug 21, 2009 06:32 PM
Tiffany Wilson
eReal Estate Corp - Redondo Beach, CA
SFR, First Time Home Buyers & Investors

Lack of communication - one of my biggest pet peeves!  The worst is when several parties involved in the transaction (that could include buyers, sellers, agents, lenders, etc.) do not communicate.  That is a disaster waiting to happen...

Sep 17, 2009 08:53 AM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

HEY TIFFANY -- why not link your blog to mine!!  Feel free!!

Sep 17, 2009 08:56 AM