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If You Buy It, Keep It!!!

By
Home Stager with Seller's Advantage
Most fellow stagers will agree that collectively we need to present ourselves as ethical, professional service providers. A recent conversation with a department store employee left me feeling a bit disburbed.

 

This employee, who works in the housewares division of a major department store, told me that he knows of a stager who makes it a regular practice to “borrow” things from the store (he did not name this person by name and I did not ask…or necessarily want to know!). Her justification is that the bedding, linens, and other accessories she “buys” are primarily displayed in vacancies and, therefore, are not really being “used.”  She is, of course, becoming known as a chronic returner and probably, at some point, the store will call her on this practice. Of course, she will undoubtedly move on to another store and repeat the method. I assured the salesperson that reputable stagers do not engage in this "buy and return" policy and that we run our businesses with honesty and integrity. Unfortunately, I have also had some clients suggest that rather than rent inventory from me, they temporarily borrow accessories from area stores to stage their homes! I told these (few) individuals that I cannot condone this.

 

Let’s face it, department stores are not in the rental business. If that were the case, Cort Furniture Rental or AFR would be “lending” us large pieces of furniture instead of charging our clients a three month minimum rental fee. The practice of returning items that have clearly been used will cost all of us dearly, not only in terms of eventual higher prices and lost inventory rental fees, but most importantly in reputation.

 

It is incumbent upon members of the staging community to strive to maintain our professionalism. There are already too many people out there who lump us in with bored housewives who like to dabble in decorating or who think all we do is move around a few pieces of furniture and declare a home “staged.” Of course, the manner in which you conduct your business is entirely up to you, but I hope all of us will examine our day-to-day procedures and take into consideration the overall reputation of our industry.

 

 

Courtney Cooper
Cooper Jacobs - Seattle, WA
206-850-8841
Wow - that is terrible and genius at the same time - hopefully they realize that it is not the right thing to do?
Dec 29, 2007 01:46 AM
John Walters
Frank Rubi Real Estate - Slidell, LA
Licensed in Louisiana
Talk about havig your cake and eating also, I guess I was taught better.
Dec 29, 2007 01:47 AM
Stanton Homes
Stanton Homes - New Home Builder - Raleigh, NC
Design/Build Custom Home Builder in North Carolina

Wow.  I never would have thought of that.  Coping with chronic returners was one of my difficult tasks in my previous career in retail management.  Once an item is opened, the store almost always has to take a loss. 

Dec 29, 2007 01:56 AM
Teresa Cox King
RE/MAX of Orange Beach - Orange Beach, AL
Orange Beach and Gulf Shores, Alabama
I bet those stagers are the ones we heard about who "bought" a cocktail dress, tucked the tags in and wore the darn thing and soon returned it to the store for a refund.
Dec 29, 2007 01:57 AM
Mary Bowen
Coldwell Banker United, Realtor - The Woodlands, TX
Real Estate At Its Finest!!!
I couldn't even imagine doing such a thing. That's like the comedy shows King of Queens where Carrie figures out she can "borrow" clothes from the stores as long as she keeps the tags on and returns the iem with in the store policy allotment.
Dec 29, 2007 02:07 AM
Gary L. Waters Broker Associate, Bucci Realty
Bucci Realty, Inc. - Melbourne, FL
Eighteen Years Experience in Brevard County
I never even thought of anyone doing such things....really is being dishonest, I believe.
Dec 29, 2007 02:42 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News
I did a holiday gig at Crate and Barrel a few years ago.  It was amazing to me what came back after Thanksgiving and Christmas.  Linens that had obviously been used, dishes that were still dirty and much more.  It was amazed at the nerve!
Dec 29, 2007 05:22 AM
Maureen Bray Portland OR Home Stager ~ Room Solutions Staging
Room Solutions Staging, Portland OR - Portland, OR
"Staging Consultations that Sell Portland Homes"
Celeste ~ In my opinion, doing this is tantamount to theft. I was once asked by a realtor if I'd use items she'd "borrowed" from a local store, but told her NO, that it isn't ethical and didn't fit in with my professional policies. Thanks for the reminder.
Dec 29, 2007 05:29 AM
Michelle Minch
Moving Mountains Design Home Staging, Pasadena, CA - Los Angeles, CA
Home Staging Los Angeles and Orange County, CA

Celeste: These "borrowers" are cheesy at best and criminal at worst. Not only does it give all professional stagers a black eye, it forces the stores to raise their prices to offset the costs associated with this kind of bad behavior. This affects all of us with higher prices at the cash register.

 These are the same kind of people who open a box of cookies while they are grocery shopping and put the box back on the shelf before hitting the cash register.

Some stores will black list chronic returners and not allow them to return merchandise at all. Others will only issue a store credit (no refunds) and others will charge 20%-50% restocking fee depending upon how abusive the perp is.

Dec 29, 2007 06:07 AM
Linda Sticklin
Home Staging & Organizing - Berwyn, PA
Sounds like way too much work to me! 
Dec 30, 2007 03:20 AM
Toronto's 2 Hounds Design: Decorating + Staging
2 Hounds Design + Home Staging - Toronto, ON

I understand but have to add, as a stylist, I used to 'borrow' stock all the time and then return it. The stores knew but CONSENTED.

An example of how these big 'box' stores operate. My husband went to a 'home reno' big box today to get tiles which he was told were in un-opened boxes (over the phone). When he got there the boxes where not only open but were mixed (white with cream) but also HAD GROUT ON THEM! They were selling used tiles.

So, first don't feel sorry for the stores. They do not have to mark down anything when it is returned in pristine condition from a staging.

That said, I keep what I purchase because I make an effort to purchase what I can re-use. But I don't think we should be crucifying someone for displaying in a vacant home merchandise and then returning it...usually for an IN STORE CREDIT.

If the stores want this to stop...they should anti up and recognize us as business associates and offer substantial stager discounts with no returns.

My piece!

Dec 30, 2007 11:03 AM
Terrylynn Fisher
Dudum Real Estate Group - BuyStageSell.com - Walnut Creek, CA
HAFA Certified, EcoBroker, CRS, CSP Realtor, Etc.

This is the same category as the people who buy a dress for New Years and return it later.  I just think our business practices tell alot about who we are.  Wow!  Don't you believe in the laws of karma?  And, we all pay more because of these type actions, but these people don't think of us all in the same boat, they think they are cheating the big bad establishment.  This is one of my pet peeves.

Dec 31, 2007 07:36 AM
Kathy Riggle
STAGING SMART N SOLD - Houston, TX
Houston Home Staging

I guess the items are placed in the vacant home with the tags still on?  Sounds like Minnie Pearl to me..

Does anyone but this grandma know who Minnie Pearl was?  :-)

Kathy

Dec 31, 2007 09:22 AM
Maureen Bray Portland OR Home Stager ~ Room Solutions Staging
Room Solutions Staging, Portland OR - Portland, OR
"Staging Consultations that Sell Portland Homes"
Kathy ~ Some of us remember Minnie Pearl!  She was in Hee Haw and wore the old straw hat with the price tag still on the brim, right?  I wonder if she planned to return that hat?? 
Dec 31, 2007 03:44 PM
Teresa J. Ramey
ReDecorating with Style - Florence, SC

Wow, some people are always looking for an angle.  I agree with some of the comments listed above.  And anyone who would do that is also lacking intergrity in other areas as well.  I'm sure that the IRS would like to take a look at their books.......

Dec 31, 2007 05:04 PM
Paula Springer
Key Elements Inc. Home Staging & Interiors - Portland, OR
A.S.P.
I ain't no Grandma, but I remember Minnie Pearl on the Hee Haw show. Anyway, I don't get the return thing...A stager's shopping time and inventory together are an asset. Putting a collection together is such a joy...why throw the engine in reverse and take it apart? I just hope this poor soul finds her way soon!
Jan 01, 2008 03:21 AM
Celeste Williams
Seller's Advantage - Wilmington, DE
ASP/Redesigner

Yes, of course I remember Minnie! Thanks to all of you for the assurances that most professional stagers do not indulge in this buy and return policy. I've worked retail and have many friends and family members who are in management positions at Home Depot, Macy's, Sears, Nordstrom, and Ferragamo, and they all have told me horror stories about the returns they "must" take, including the oft-mentioned, well worn prom dress. It's good to know that so many of you are running your businesses professionally and with integrity. A happy, healthy, and successful 08 to all of you.

 

Celeste Williams, Seller's Advantage, Hockessin, DE 

Jan 01, 2008 03:38 AM
Kim Dillon
Creative Eye Home Staging - West Chester, PA

Glad to see the blog on this subject since it has come to my attention as well.  I had a client who suggested the same thing.  I had to say that it was something I could not do as a professional, but of course the final decision was hers.  No wonder we are getting the reputation of a "used car salesman" (and I know they don't all deserve the rap either!!!)

Kim Dillon, Creative Eye Home Staging

Jan 04, 2008 11:09 AM