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A Realtor’s Role—A Glimpse and Opportunity to Become a Friend

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Real Estate Agent with Boardman Realty Minnesota License#90858

This holiday season I was blessed with a ringing cell phone. Not just one client or contact but several. New prospects. Current buyers and sellers. Past clients and friends. And of course other agents.

Each situation and reason for calling was unique. As I consider each of these contacts I realize once again how my position as a Realtor provides a glimpse like a look through the keyhole into lives. Each phone call is the beginning to a story and often the caller is asking me to play a role. When I answer a call, it could be a romantic love story and exciting adventure or sad tragic tale. As a professional real estate agent, I play this role throughout the year but during the past few weeks many stories tugged at my heart.

keyholeJust before Thanksgiving, I received a call from a young man asking to see a listing of mine in Forest Lake. He and his fiancé just drove by the home and wanted to see it the next day as they were excited by the idea of purchasing their first home. Over these past few weeks, I shared many evenings of showing homes and meeting with their families. This excited young couple decided on property and if all goes according to plan they will start the New Year in their new home.

A week before Christmas I received a response to a newspaper advertisement for a Ham Lake lakeshore home. The gentleman caller is looking for something private on a full recreational lake. During the conversation he shared that he had just finished building a beautiful lake home in Alexandria two years ago. He had lost his lovely bride of 61 years a short time ago and he didn't want to go there anymore. He was contemplating a new lakehome nearer the cities.

Last week I showed a home a few days before Christmas. It was perfect for my clients! I called the listing agent and left a voicemail. A day later I receive a call. The agent had a family medical emergency. He had another agent to handle his files but that agent decided to go on a holiday leave. Patiently and professionally, I dealt with the original agent. Unfortunately, the medical situation was serious and the family member died. Negotiations though delayed at times have been successful for both parties.

The calls don't always go as expected and the topics do not always stay exactly on real estate. A Realtor works with people and families all in different stages of life. This is important to me and the part of real estate that I truly enjoy.

As I review the holiday cards I receive from past clients sharing photos of growing grandchildren or news of adoptions and births, I realize that the role of Realtor is more than being a sales person or processor of paperwork. As I step into my clients' lives to assist them with the sale of their property or purchase of their first home, I get a glimpse of their world and the opportunity to become their friend.

If you are buying, selling or relocating to Minnesota and  need help from a professional Realtor, give me a call or visit my website for a FREE Relocation Packet.  I specialize in acreage and lakeshore properties in the north and east Twin Cities metro area including Ham Lake, Lino Lakes and all communities in the Forest Lake School District! Serving Anoka, Chisago, Ramsey and Washington Counties in Minnesota.

Copyright 2007 Teri Eckholm  http://www.terieckholm.com/



 

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Teri Eckholm. REALTOR with Boardman Realty, is a native Minnesotan who has lived and worked in the Minneapolis St Paul metro all of her life. She specializes in lakeshore homes, acreage properties and first time home buyers but assists anyone making a move in the north and east Twin Cities metro.

If you are buying, selling or relocating to Minnesota and need help from a professional REALTOR®, give Teri , a call or visit her website for a FREE Home Buyer Success Guide or FREE Home Value Report She specialize in acreage and lakeshore properties in the north and east Twin Cities metro area including Ham Lake, Lino Lakes and all communities in the Forest Lake School District! Serving Anoka, Chisago, Ramsey and Washington Counties in Minnesota.

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Comments(42)

Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Vivienne--Why thank you! I appreciate your comments. Yes helping people to their next phase of life is an awesome feeling. Had to look to see where you were from...Michigan has been getting their share of the white stuff this December too! :) 
Dec 30, 2007 12:47 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Mana--I totally agree! I think things happen for a reason and at the right time. Being the person assisting through the process whether buying or selling a home is an incredible job. Since doing a job well takes time, in the process we make friends for life. A great 2008 to you and your family too Mana!
Dec 30, 2007 12:51 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Kris--I think we are on the same wavelength on this aren't we? Happy 2008 to you and yours as well!
Dec 30, 2007 12:52 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Jeanean--Isn't the graphic fun? Through the keyhole is one of the families I have assisted twice! I consider myself fortunate to be in a business I love...Have a great 2008!
Dec 30, 2007 12:55 AM
Lizette Fitzpatrick
Lizette Realty - Richmond KY - Lexington, KY
Lizette Realty, Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes
Hi Teri! Isn't it wild that we have all of these folks coming in and out of our lives? We take each one personally and stay connected long after the deal is closed. With each one we learn more about ourselves. Love your keyhole art! That gives me some new ideas! 
Dec 30, 2007 01:02 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher
Teri, I loved reading about your stories.  Realtors get to see the very best and some of the worst and they have to deal well with it all.  Your post is a testament of just how deeply your role affects so many people.
Dec 30, 2007 01:26 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Lizette--It is very wild to make new friends all the time...More wild to visit over the holidays or receive cards and they continue to consider you their friends as I do them! The art was a very fun idea...No telling what you will come up with to expand on it! :)
Dec 30, 2007 01:32 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Carole--As a Feng Shui consultant working directly with the public you also have many similar stories I am certain. It is hard to spend time with someone and change their life without becoming their friend. Thanks for your comments!
Dec 30, 2007 01:36 AM
Mike Frazier
Carousel Realty of Dyer County - Dyersburg, TN
Northwest Tennessee Realtor

Teri,

No gloom and doom on your post. Glad business is good and you are able to help people. We are in a people business and if we are not helping them we don't deserve to be realtors. Best of luck in 08.

Dec 30, 2007 01:53 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Mike--No need for gloom and doom as there is business out there for those willing to help people move! Same to you....Good luck in 2008!
Dec 30, 2007 05:18 AM
Lynda Eisenmann
Preferred Home Brokers - Brea, CA
Broker Associate ,CRS,GRI,SRES, Brea,CA, Orange Co

Teri,

What a lovely post, you did a great job about sharing those personal stories. And as always...it's about the people, isn't it? It's obvious you feel that way!

Dec 30, 2007 08:14 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Lynda--Thank you...And yes, it is all about the people! :)
Dec 30, 2007 09:47 AM
Patricia Kennedy
RLAH@properties - Washington, DC
Home in the Capital
Teri, I love this post!  This is a business that is so about relationships, something you say eloquently.  And Happy New Year!
Dec 31, 2007 01:04 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Patricia--Thank you! Real estate is more about the relationships you build than anything else. Have a wonderful New Year too!
Dec 31, 2007 01:38 AM
Mesa, Arizona Real Estate Mesa Arizona Realtor
Homes Arizona Real Estate LLC - Mesa, AZ
AzLadyInRed

Teri, a good and thoughtful post. You're right though. We play many roles in life and in our business. Happy New Year.

Dec 31, 2007 01:41 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth
Teri, you so aptly described with your stories of how so much of being a Realtor is that your are involved in a PEOPLE BUSINESS. You obviously are a "natural" at it. Congratulations on handling everything so well. Have a great '08.
Dec 31, 2007 04:28 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Teri--Thanks!! It is a very interesting business that we are in...Touching peoples' lives in so many ways. :) Have a wonderful new year!
Dec 31, 2007 08:07 AM
Teri Eckholm
Boardman Realty - White Bear Lake, MN
REALTOR Serving Mpls/St Paul North & East Metro
Gary--Why that is a very nice thing for you to say...I appreciate that. I work hard to be empathatic with all clients whether buying a first home or selling an estate...we are sharing many parts of their lives. Hope that your 2008 is great as well!
Dec 31, 2007 08:09 AM
Sandra Cummings
William Raveis Real Estate - Guilford, CT
Real Estate Agent, Guilford Connecticut
Teri - Just stopped by to wish you a great new year!
Dec 31, 2007 10:51 AM
Lisa Bosques
Burien, WA
Nice post. We really do forge deep and lasting relationships with some of our clients, and we are with many during pivotal points in their lives.  That's what is so interesting about this career. 
Jan 03, 2008 11:28 AM