Being in the Moment........

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Referral Group Incorporated

I would not describe myself as a positive person. I try and stay away from negativity and negative people but that doesn't always translate into being positive. This morning I was thinking about all I have to do this month, how time in passing and how I really don't have enough time to get it all done. It was depressing.

So I decided to give myself a gift and I am going to try and live in the moment and make the most of everything I have, and kick the recriminations to the curb. So that's my thought for today. I hope you have a wonderful day.

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When you think about real estate, it is time to focus. I have helped people for close to thirty years in all areas, and made the process not only simple but enjoyable. Why should you go it alone or settle for less? Call me and find a partner to help, direct and get you where you want to be.

Sheila Anderson

The Real Estate Whisperer...... Consultant, Trainer, Facilitator 732-715-1133

 

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Ron and Alexandra Seigel
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Sheila,

We also refer to that as mindfulness.  It is doing each task perfectly to one's satisfaction instead of rushing on to the next item. There is a built in satisfasction in that.  A

Sep 04, 2019 10:41 AM #15
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Thanks Alexandra. I get that.     Sheila

Sep 04, 2019 10:50 AM #16
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I think many of us suffer much the same ... we're way too hard on ourselves, Sheila Anderson.  Glad you stopped and "treated" yourself, even if in some small way ...

Gene 

Sep 04, 2019 01:49 PM #17
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Thanks so much gene. i appreciate your support.        Sheila

Sep 04, 2019 01:52 PM #18
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Well Sheila that surprises me that you're not as positive as I see you!  Once you give up the idea that you're going to get it all done - that's freedom.  Simply enjoy whatever you're doing right now and then on to the next.  I learned this years ago as in real estate, as you know, one never is done. Always more to accomlish in good time.

Sep 04, 2019 01:59 PM #19
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Thank you Anna. I always appreciate your support.      :)      Sheila

Sep 04, 2019 02:06 PM #20
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Sheila Anderson - That is an exceptionally best gift to give yourself! I'm glad you made that very important decision! 

Happy Wednesday to you!!!

Sep 04, 2019 02:15 PM #21
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Thank you Patricia.     Sheila

Sep 04, 2019 02:17 PM #22
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Atta girl, Sheila! Freedom is about accepting our limitations and making the most of what we do have, and what we can reasonably do.  You've got this! 

Sep 04, 2019 02:25 PM #23
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Thank you so much Debb.     :)       Sheila

Sep 04, 2019 02:27 PM #24
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Choosing positivity is never a bad thing.  Life's too short.

Sep 04, 2019 02:54 PM #25
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Exactly Chris Ann. TY     Sheila

Sep 04, 2019 02:56 PM #26
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BRAVO,  I could not have said it that well myself Sheila Anderson 

Sep 04, 2019 08:42 PM #27
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I have had periods in my life that were exceptionally busy and stressful.  I found it helpful to pick a future date on the calendar for just myself, with absolutely no other activities.  

Sep 04, 2019 09:35 PM #28
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Thanks very much Paul.    Sheila

Sep 05, 2019 05:30 AM #29
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Hi again Myrl. That is a great idea. TY    Sheila

Sep 05, 2019 05:30 AM #30
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Well, I know I'm late to this party but, just posting this is exactly what I was going to say - a major step in positivity, Sheila!

You and Ray are much alike - keeping away from the negative puts you in a balanced state. He will lean to that glass half empty long before I even recognize that my half-full glass may be down a notch or two! LOL

Sep 08, 2019 07:20 AM #31
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Sheila Anderson
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Debe. Ray sounds like someone I would like to meet. TY      Sheila

Sep 08, 2019 07:24 AM #32
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You two would adore each other! He knows about you - and our planned trip too! 

Sep 08, 2019 07:32 AM #33
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Sounds right Debe. TY       Sheila

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