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Before You Hit "Send" or "Post" - Pause a Moment

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Real Estate Agent with Bradfield Properties 532238

Anyone who's been on the internet for any length of time knows, hopefully, that not everything that goes around on the internet is absolutely true.  In fact, of the things that tell you to "forward to everyone you know", over 95% of them will be hoaxes, outdated, or worse. 

Fortunately, there's a way to check such things BEFORE sending them on "just in case".  Simply go to one of the urban legend sites (my favorite is www.snopes.com, but there are several), which I recommend you keep bookmarked, and check whatever has hit your Inbox - again, BEFORE SENDING IT ON OR POSTING IT TO YOUR BLOG.  (I can't emphasize that enough.) 

Why is this such an issue?  Well, it makes you look foolish when you forward on something that everyone else knows is such an old hoax that it has a long, grey beard, for one thing.  For another, it uses up bandwidth that could be better used.  It's annoying to those who receive these things who know better.  It encourages the people who write them and send them out just to see how many people will be tricked into forwarding them on to do it even more often.  

But there's a more important reason that I just saw demonstrated on our local news. 

There's a hoax going around right now involving traffic laws being changed on July 1, with outrageous fines being applied.  Mildly annoying, but easily debunked with 30 seconds on snopes.  However, a lot of people aren't checking before they send it on as fact; a lot are sending it on "just in case, what can it hurt" and then checking after they've let the genie out of the bottle or the cat out of the bag - or not checking at all.  The result, here in Texas (one of the versions is for Texas, another for California, who knows if there's versions for other states), is that the Texas Department of Public Safety, which has much better use for its time and resources, is fielding thousands of calls asking about it, to the point that they have put a notice on the news that this is a hoax and PLEASE don't pass it on, in hopes of stemming the tide and getting back to taking care of real business.  This is costing us our tax dollars, folks.

That is the kind of thing that "just in case, what can it hurt" forwarding can cause.

So, please, when you get something in your mail that wants you to send it to everyone you know and their dog, pause a moment.  Check it out beforehand.  You'll learn, soon enough, if you do this consistently, that you don't even have to check, you'll recognize the hoaxes when someone sends them on to you "just in case," and just hit delete. 

Thank you.

Comments(7)

ASHEVILLE REALTY REFERRAL RESOURCE 828-776-0779
REAL ESTATE REFERRAL NETWORK - Asheville, NC
CONTACT janeAnne365@gmail.com
Thanks for taking the time to share this. Snopes .com is one of my standards.
Jul 03, 2007 02:54 PM
Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC
Good post and oh so true.  I usually just hit delete when I see one of those, I just don't have the time or desire to deal with that kind of stuff.  
Jul 05, 2007 07:09 AM
Karen Otto
Home Star Staging - Plano, TX
Plano Home Staging, Dallas Home Staging, www.homes
I always check snopes too for these things and it drives me nuts! I also don't like the "guilt" trip chainmails  (if you don't pass it to 112 people and me I know you didn't read it or do it in 10 secs and your wish will be granted!) I always reply to the sender - usually a well meaning family member or friend - that I got the email - thanks I do love you - but I'm not sending it along - it's a waste of my time and everyone who gets it and some of these like you say can be costly. - good post to remind everyone!
Jul 05, 2007 11:30 AM
Tricia Jumonville
Bradfield Properties - Georgetown, TX
Texas REALTOR , Agent With Horse Sense

janeAnne, I love snopes.  Not just for getting the real skinny, but sometimes I visit just for a laugh to see what's out there now.  Back when they first started, some of the hoaxes that were going around as "absolutely true, just happened to my cousin last week" were things that had been told to me, as ghost stories, around the campfire, 45 years ago! 

Cynthia, most of the time I just hit delete, once in a while take the trouble to go to snopes and get the link to send back to the person who sent it to me. 

Karen, absolutely!  It's no different than junk mail in the mailbox, except that usually they're trying to get people stirred up or frightened, and that's much, much worse and shouldn't be encouraged at all. 

Jul 05, 2007 11:37 AM
Cynthia Tilghman, Realtor® Onslow County NC Home Specialist
Kingsbridge Realty, Inc - Hubert, NC

Hello again Tricia,
I was wondering about your horses, do you show them, breed or just raise & sell?    My Mom showed Tennessee walking horses when she was growing up and my brother and his wife (who live in northern Virginia) fox hunt.  Guess I felt a horse connection here.

As for being personal chef, that must be interesting--I enjoy cooking and entertaining.

Jul 07, 2007 01:01 AM
Tricia Jumonville
Bradfield Properties - Georgetown, TX
Texas REALTOR , Agent With Horse Sense

Cynthia, now I just own them.  Time was, I bred Morgan horses - I was into trail riding (Western), my daughter rode English.  Fox hunting is something that I've always thought was amazing, but way beyond my comfort level!  (Not to mention there weren't a lot of hunts in my part of Texas when I would have even contemplated it.) 

And, yes, being a personal chef is an interesting challenge, learning the tastes of a variety of clients and finding the perfect recipe to suit those tastes - sort of like real estate, come to think of it. 

 

Jul 07, 2007 03:14 AM
Yolanda Hoversten
Self Employed - O'Fallon, IL
Referrals for O’Fallon, IL & the Metro East

Tricia:

It's amazing what one gets from the Internet.  Just a few days ago, there was a post that gleaned the 'news' from The Onion.  Needless to say it was a spoof, but it was a good read.  

I've checked out a few things from snopes.com since some of my friends forward those scary e-mails from time to time.  Thanks for the info and your insight.

   

Jul 07, 2007 03:38 PM