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5 Things You'll Never Hear Me Say . . .

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5 Things You'll Never Hear Me Say . . .

by Jennie Norris, ASP Master®, IAHSP® President

December 16, 2009

Let's face it.  How many of you have grown tired of the shows on TV that depict homeowners as tasteless saps and the Interior experts - Designers, Decorators - as the only ones with taste and knowledge?

I know I have.  Actually as much as those shows do help educate the public about doing something to spiff up their houses, they also do damage to my industry - The Home Staging Industry - by portraying us as critics that have no manners when we walk in to a house.

As an Accredited Staging Professional Master® (ASPM®), the FIRST principle I learned when establishing my business was to "honor the client and their possessions."  Words are powerful.  They have the power to heal, to hurt, to uplift, and to drag down.  Barb Schwarz, the Creator of Home Staging®, has taught this basic principle for nearly 40 years.  It is founded in the principle of human kindness and consideration for others.

It amazes me that somehow others miss the boat on the fact that people have feelings, and when it comes time to sell a house, those feelings are elevated to a much higher stress level.  I am never there to be a dictator, a critic or to offend my client in any way.  I am also never there to make the Realtor® that may have brought me in to work with their seller, look bad.  That would be foolish and amount to financial suicide.

Here are 5 things you will NEVER hear me say:

1.  You have no taste!

2.  What were you thinking!

3.  These woods or colors don't match.

4.  Your things are outdated.

5.  You need to replace all your things to get a Buyer.

1. Your taste is your own.  Home Staging is not about the "things" in your house.  It is about featuring the house and the floor plan for the Buyer.  Your things may be worn, may be a bit dated, but that's OK.  We are not selling your furniture.  The Buyers have furniture - they just need to see if it will fit and so they use your furnishings to get an approximation of scale and size visually, and this helps them mentally move in to your house.

2.  Your things are what you enjoy.  Who am I to come and tell you that you have the "wrong things" in your house?  If you like a particular color or collect certain things, that's your choice.  Again as I have learned from Barb Schwarz, "The way you live in your home, and the way we market and sell a house are two different things."  So I focus on things that could be potentially distracting to Buyers.  When people are walking through your house, they do get easily distracted by photos, collections, and anything that is too "incredible" to leave out - as that becomes the only thing the Buyers remember about your house.  So, you do have to make changes to Stage your house for sale, but they are not done to criticize you or your belongings.

3.  Matchy-Smatchy.  Your furniture woods don't have to match - in fact we don't' really need to focus on that at all when we Stage your house.  People that come and tell you that "your things are all wrong" are focusing on the "stuff" and not the space.  They must not have gotten the memo that the "eclectic look is in" and we can do wonders with what you have by simply reducing, rearranging, and possibly refreshing with a little "WOW Factor" inventory.

4.  Most people don't replace their furniture every season so guess what - their things are "outdated."  My own house has things we've owned for 10 years or longer.  I am not going to replace all my furniture any more than you should be expected to.  That is not realistic.  A house that is dated can still be Staged and reflect the best way for Buyers.  Of course, if you have dated fixtures and colors, those are easy fixes for Selling and as your Home Stager, I am going to suggest making improvements as your budget allows.  However, if you tell me you don't have any extra money, then I am going to successfully work with what you have and make it look the best for Buyers.  That is what I am trained to do as an ASP Master® - I use my Creativity and Ideas to Stage - and don't just rely solely on your money to replace and upgrade everything.

5.  Please don't fall into this trap.  Even if you have a very high end house - don't fall into the trap of "you must remove all your things and we will bring in rental furnishings to get your house sold."  Now if your house is vacant, yes, you do need to rent some things.  But if you have furniture in your house, I can work with that.  I may bring in some added "pizzazz" with décor or key Staging items, but I am never going to tell you that all your stuff has to be removed in order to sell.  Anyone that does that is focused on money and not the goal of selling your house.  It makes me cringe inside when I hear that some Sellers are being gouged in the tens-of-thousands of dollars to Stage their house with some supposed "stager" (usually some other profession cloaked in the guise of Staging) - that convinces them the only way their house will sell is with all new stuff.  Ouch.

When you want an honest assessment of what to do to put your house on the market to get the best price in the shortest time, please make sure to work with an Accredited Staging Professional® (ASP®) Home Stager or a ASP Master.  If you reside in the greater Denver region, I would be happy to assist you or your client in preparing your house or listing for sale.

 My commitment to all my clients is that I will provide an honest assessment and work with your budget and timeframe to successfully Stage the house for sale

Happy Staging and Selling!

Jennie Norris, ASP Master®, IAHSP®

President, International Association of Home Staging Professionals® (IAHSP®) 2009-2010

Owner, Sensational Home Staging

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J. Philip Faranda
Howard Hanna Rand Realty - Yorktown Heights, NY
Associate Broker / Office Manager

Jennie, I am encouraged to read this. I have had some uncomfortable meeting s with clients and stagers who said some or all of those things. Honor the client is a huge theme. 

Dec 16, 2009 03:05 AM
Lisa Walston
Atlas Property Group and Abbey Church Properties - Greenwood, IN

Jennie, I so appreciate your comments and your attitude. Your "honor the client" concept is transferrable to all sorts of industries, not just staging.

Dec 16, 2009 03:20 AM
Tia Spaulding
Creative Staging Company - Indianapolis, IN
ASPM, IAHSP Indianapolis, IN

Jennie,

Great post with so many valid points. It amazes me when I look at some Stagers before and after photos and see that they brought in rental items when the homeowners furniture would have worked just fine. I agree that these Stagers are trying to make the rental money. I inform all of my clients that I strive to use as much of their own items as I can. I inform them that rental items may be brought in only if needed. We should be getting buyers to focus on the space and not the furniture in the house!

Great Post!

Dec 16, 2009 07:16 AM
Jennie Norris
Sensational Home Staging - Littleton, CO
Denver Regions Premier Home Staging Resource,

Definitely honoring the client is the most important thing we can do as professional Home Stagers.  Unfortunately, for those that are using the television as a training model, they are going to fail to understand that simple part of human courtesy that has to happen for the Seller to willingly make changes in their house.  I can share that for Realtors, look for an ASP or ASP Master Stager who has been taught the foundation of working with a client begins with HONORING the seller - and developing a relationship based on kindness and compassion, not criticism. - Jennie

Dec 18, 2009 07:06 AM
Janice Ankrett
Burlington, ON
Staging Professional

Jennie, I couldn't agree with you more! I always tell my clients I am there to change their decor from 'living' mode to 'selling' mode. I want their home to look like someone's home that has been prepared for sale.

Jun 04, 2010 01:11 PM
Linda D. Pufford
Stage with Divine Style - Home Staging - Novato, CA
ASPM, Marin/Sonoma Home Stager

Thanks again Jennie for this informative post.  As ASP/ASPM Stagers we are trained to honor and respect each and every client.  All the 5 points you stated here truly show your kindness and compassion that you offer your clients. 

Aug 10, 2010 07:07 PM