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NICE GUYS FINISH LAST!

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796

                                                                     

I know that you didn't hear it here first but it is still true in 2010. Nice guys finish last.

If you've been reading my blogs, you may have me pegged already. Infact I know there is  one like me in every office. I'm sure you know me.  I'm a super nice guy that is very polite and considerate and ethical to a fault. When we caravan I drive. When we lunch I'm likely to buy. I'm admired for my wardrobe, and grooming, for being cheerful and punctual. I'm thought of as smart. I have lots of education and a clean car. I'm a team player and share information freely with the new guy. I'm a giver and a doer. I'm on the Board. I'm a good at getting listings. Buyers like me too....always in the game but rarely the winner...then there is the rest of the story.

                                                                    

Until today I lacked aggression.

Until today I was weak on follow up.

Until today I didn't have even the slightest killer instinct about closing the deal.

Until today I wouldn't have said s--- if I had a mouthful.

Until today I might have let you win.

Until today I didn't want to bug anybody.

Until today I might not have knocked on your door and asked for the biz.

Until today I thought all I have done for my community was enough to 'earn' your business.

Until today this nice guy too often finshed last.

 

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Proudly serving your real estate needs in Bentonville, Rogers and Bella Vista, AR 479-253-3796. I will provide a free market value analysis of your property. Just ask!

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Sara Woolford & Steve Golson, ALHS
iTexas Realty Co. - San Antonio, TX

Hi Charles-

I don't know what occurred today, but some days, you just have to say "no".  It doesn't change that you are still the person your parents raised you to be. 

--Sara in San Antonio

Jun 24, 2010 03:36 PM
Margo Marshall
Re/Max Specialists - Jacksonville, FL

Hey Mr. Nicw Guy-   I still prefer the nice guys.....treat people like you want to be treated....

Jun 24, 2010 03:40 PM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Margo I will always be a nice guy. Just a more aggressive nice guy. See you at the top.

Jun 24, 2010 03:42 PM
Rita Fong
RE/MAX REAL ESTATE TODAY, Executive Broker 901-488-9590 - Marion, AR
Realtor - Marion Arkansas Homes for Sale

Charles, I think I know what you mean, there is times you just don't want to be a push over.  Keep being nice with boundary.

Jun 24, 2010 04:57 PM
Roger D. Mucci
Shaken...with a Twist 216.633.2092 - Euclid, OH
Lets shake things up at your home today!

Charles..............whatever happened today should have happened a long time ago for the "good guy".  Continue to be the "good guy"............. just don't let anyone step on you.  I can relate!  Seems to me you have everything that it takes to be succesful and to make money.........go for it!

I'm sending good wishes and karma your way!

Jun 24, 2010 05:01 PM
Barbara Todaro
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Happily Retired - Franklin, MA
Previously Affiliated with The Todaro Team

Charles.....just keep on working without changing your standards......and continue living your life the way you know it should be lived....you'll will....

Jun 24, 2010 09:47 PM
James Dray
Fathom Realty - Bentonville, AR

Wow that is some deep thoughts... 

Jun 25, 2010 07:16 AM
Richard Strahm
American Foursquare Realty - Lansdale, PA
Lansdale and North Penn Real Estate

Charles -- I sure want to know what happened today!

Jun 25, 2010 03:48 PM
Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

What are you saying, Charles - no more Mr. Nice Guy?

Jun 26, 2010 04:14 PM
Charles Edwards Bentonville
Coldwell Banker Harris McHaney & Faucette 479-253-3796 - Bentonville, AR
AR REALTOR, Bentonville Real Estate Agent and Broker

Jane and Richard, I appreciate you for stopping by. It has been quite a week TO SAY THE LEAST! Im learning so much right now about what it takes to keep the client where I need them to be, and where the client needs me to be. Hmmm sound like another blog.

Jun 27, 2010 02:24 AM