A client saying yes, but meaning no, is a very important aspect of the real estate business. The quicker an agent can recognize this, the faster they can assist their clients with making "right" decisions.
This rarely happens when the buyer or seller is a single individual. It happens quite often when the buyer or seller is a couple. A big red flag is when they act is if they always want exactly the same thing and always agree with one another. As soon as we hear that, we know that can't be the case, so we have to listen very hard for which of them is saying yes but meaning no.
CLASSIC EXAMPLES:
#1 Yes Dear, of course we can sell this house and buy a new more expensive one.
Then one of them causes the asking price of the house to be above where it will actually sell. They "say yes" to their spouse, but manipulate the situation to the end result being that the house doesn't sell. Then it is the big bad market, or the crappy agent, or the stupid, unrealistic buyers who cause the house not to sell. Jeez Honey, I don't know...it would be great if we could sell this house and get a new more expensive one, but...doesn't seem to be working. Sorry.
Many homes on market for very long periods of time fall into this category. There is a for sale sign out front...but is the house REALLY "for sale"?
#2
Yes Dear, of course we can buy a house and start a family.
Then one finds a dozen or more houses that are just perfect, but none seem to be "quite right" to the other. OR they find the perfect house...but...one says: It's a shame it isn't a little close to work, OR yes, this would be great if we can get it for 15% under current market value.
Saying yes and meaning no is very, very common. Sometimes we call it "fear of commitment". Actually it's because they said yes to something they didn't REALLY want to do in the first place.
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