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Heads; Watch Football ... Tails; AR Time. Call it in the air.

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Every weekend we have the wonderful option of watching NFL football or maybe your more into NCAA football, being a fan of either one the weekend can be a glorious time. Now, you may not be a football fan but we all know one, so you can relate a little to this. So me being a football fan, (being from Nebraska you can guess what I am a fan of) I was a little tossed between AR and these wonderful little things called television. I had all intension of watching all my favorite games on Saturday and Sunday (oh and don't forget Monday ... you can almost hear that wonderful background music) when suddenly I was drawn to the computer. For what? Your a member of this group so you already know what I am going to say. Yes, activerain! Even writing this it sounds a little silly but I just couldn't help it. I had this overwhelming erg to check the blogs every couple of minutes .. which honestly seemed like hours.

"My name is Jared. I am addicted to ActiveRain.com." The statement echos in my head!

At one point I was sitting at the computer and I busted out laughing. Only to have a friend look at me with disgust. See, the Washington Redskins game was on and we (the Skins ... I picked them to win) were down and just threw an interception. He looked at me like "Dude, what is your problem." I quickly explained. Than all I could see was this look on his face ... "You are a Geek!" I continued on to read my many blogs that I read that day not thinking much of it. A few hours later most of the games were ending or over.

This began my thought process. I began to think about how I had procrastinated the entire day away. Whether it was to read blogs or just to browse the internet, I was pulled away from the one main goal I had for the day, to watch football. I am not going to sit here and say that I have never done anything like this before because I have. I am terrible at it, I will pick some of the worst things to procrastinate about. It is almost like eating Ice cream before dinner when your a child, you just have to do it.

Why?

What makes us as a society want to push things off and "do today, what we can do tomorrow". I don't have an answer for that and probably never will. In my case it was an equal of two evils. I did get what I wanted to do done or at least partially done and I accomplished some very "active" reading.

I can almost guarantee that next time I won't be so lucky. I will end up doing something that has no value while pushing a valuable thing to the side! Don't we just love that human nature.

So how do we deal with the fast pace life that most of us live today. One minute we are working on a very important project only to turn around and find ourselves chit chatting with our buddies. Where is this happy median? Is this happy median really something that exists or is it that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

Me personally, I am probably never going to find it, or maybe I will once it no longer matters anymore and I get to spend the whole day golfing. Until my days of golfing arrive I will just fight the inner battle of doing what I should verse doing what I want.

For a great blog regarding procrastination, read Procrastination and What You Can Do About It! posted by Nestor and Katerina Gasset, it is well worth it!

Adam Waldman
Westcott Group Real Estate Company - Hauppauge, NY
Realtor - Long Island
JARED:  I personally have replaced one addiction for another.  For the past 15 years, I was heavily addicted to fantasy football.  I had planned on taking a year off this year anyway because I got tired of running the league and being a babysitter to a bunch of grown men.  I found Active Rain in August and haven't stopped since.  However, I will say that this addiction has a purpose.  When I'm on here I am learning and sharing valuable information that makes me a better REALTOR and quite possibly a better person.  All that fantasy football did was make me angry as my players weren't doing as well as I'd hoped for.  Now, I just sit down each week and watch the Cowboys game with my son.  I'm enjoying football more than ever.  Of course, I had to get Sunday Bloggy Sunday out this week, so I was blogging and watching the beginning of the game at the same time.  Good post, Jared.
Sep 26, 2007 12:23 AM
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Adam: I loved the Sunday Bloggy Sunday post, it was great. I agree being on AR is a wonderful learning expierence. I enjoy how much everyone is willing to help! Congrats on the Cowboys road win, that one must have had you going! 
Sep 26, 2007 04:54 AM
"The Lovely Wife" The One And Only TLW.
President-Tutas Towne Realty, Inc. - Kissimmee, FL

Jared...

When I first joined AR and up until recently I was an addict.

Now, after more than a year, it has passed.

I blog when I have time and I go out of my way to live in the real world. 

Backing away from AR a little really improved my Blogging and overall attitude. Yes. I had an attitude :)

Some people get like that when they spend waaaaay too much time on line. I read all about it in a study called "The Psychology of Cyberspace"

TLW...ROAR!

Sep 27, 2007 10:38 AM
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Oh that lovely balance ... "To Activerain or not to activerain" now that is the question. 
I will make sure I keep the "backing away" part in mind, I think I need to take that into consideration. I just love being on here, just a great atmosphere to be around! Hopefully one of these days my blogs will improve. 
I will have to check out that study, it will be good for a night reading. ;)
Sep 27, 2007 06:13 PM