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Heartbreak In The Produce Section... When A Client Doesn't Want To Bother You, And Buys Through Another Agent...

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Connect Real Estate - REALTOR / BROKER DRE # 01427063

Recently, I bumped into a past client of mine at the grocery store.  I helped Jeanne buy her first condo about 3 years ago.  Since she was single, grew up here in Ventura, and loved dogs like me, we just hit it off right away.  I'd been keeping in touch with her via email and my newletter since her purchase, and I had very fond memories from when I found her that adorable little place. 

As we stood there in the produce section, chatting about the latest happenings in our lives, Jeanne excitedly burst in that she had just bought a beautiful little 3 bedroom 2 bathroom house, on the next street over from her condo!  I was crushed.  She just went on, explaining how she loved the corner it was on, and how close it was to the beach and how she loved how the kitchen was in the front of the house...  It seemed as if Jeanne didn't catch onto my disappointment, until finally she stopped and explained with a nervous giggle, "Ohh, I'm sorry I didn't call you Temple, when I saw the sign and called, I didn't ever dream that I'd actually buy it!  I know how busy you are, and I just didn't want to bother you..."

When a house is listed down the street from one of our past clients, do you think they're curious as to the asking price? When a "Sold" sign goes up in front of that house, do you think they're doubly curious?  I found out the hard way - You bet they are!

What I learned from this experience is that, often past clients don't want to "bother" us, by tracking us down and asking for the 411 on the house for them.  I learned that Jeanne felt like she would have been imposing on me. Or maybe she had a little bit of trepidation that I might assume she was thinking about a move, and ask questions that would've made her feel  uncomfortable. In any event, the last thing I would have wanted was for her to call another salesperson.

Since this happened, I started using a little ad every month in my client newsletters to proactively shape the expectations of my clients. When clients read the ads they see an offer that makes it easy to ask for more information. The ads let my clients know that if they see a home for sale, they don't have to worry about "bothering" me to obtain more information.  I have a system in place that quickly and efficiently obtains and forwards information - with no feeling of obligation or hassle...

These "ads" or notices let my client's know that I have a system around the process of delivering information - that it's no bother at all - that it's perfectly normal in the course of everyday business, that technology is doing all the work!  Additionally, the ads put me at the top of consciousness in the minds of my dear clients, by positioning me as the "direct information link" - easy, quick, dependable, trustworthy and free.

As a result, my past clients are more likely to call my office and ask for the information, which creates an opportunity for me to deepen the relationship with my client.  So far, so good!

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Temple Schneider Callahan, RE BROKER

Certified Short Sale Specialist

Connect Real Estate Services

BRE: 01427063

Ventura, CA

email: Temple@ConnectRES.com

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Ana Connell
G & C Properties - Burbank, CA
Burbank Real Estate Agent

Wow, good post! 

Sorry you had to go through that.  Thank you for sharing your experience and for the good advice!  It's usually the bad experiences we tend to learn from.....something about making lemonade out of lemons!  

Sep 27, 2007 04:21 PM
Ann Heitland
Retired from RE/MAX Peak Properties - Flagstaff, AZ
Retired from Flagstaff Real Estate Sales
Great idea -- it goes in my next newsletter! Thanks!
Sep 27, 2007 04:35 PM
Carolyn Galant
Coldwell Banker Residential - Madison, NJ
MBA - Coldwell Banker - New Jersey Real Estate
No one owns a client. They don't " owe" us anything though we think they do, for the great deal we got them on the last property, that the deal took 150 hours of our personal time to do, that we  put off 10 appoints with our family so the client could be listened to. The problem is we are a commodity service, if you don't provide it, New Linda will.  You can't win unless you are top of the mailings and the phone calls all the time.
Sep 27, 2007 04:40 PM
Gail Robinson
William Raveis Real Estate - Southport, CT
CRS, GRI, e-PRO Fairfield County, CT
Allen, I agree face-to-face is important, but personally I prefer larger gatherings where I can see a number of people at one time.  I do a lot of work in my community which brings me into contact with folks and at socials.  It is often at those events that someone will say, "I'm curious about the cottage on Seabright." and then we are making plans together to go see it.  Most often they don't actually buy, but I'm glad I'm there to be asked.  As you say, if they had to pick up the phone or send an e-mail, they probably wouldn't do it.
Sep 27, 2007 05:19 PM
Bob & Carolin Benjamin
Benjamin Realty LLC - Gold Canyon, AZ
East Phoenix Arizona Homes
You had to be so annoyed. Glad you have made something positive out of the negative.
Sep 27, 2007 05:32 PM
Darrel Quebedeaux
Evergreen Realty & Associates Inc. - Newport Coast, CA
I have heard this same story before and the way I try to offset it is by making a statement in each of my monthly mailings to my data base that I am never too busy to  help them or their family members  and would in fact feel it a pleasure to be their consultant for any and all real estate needs. 
Sep 27, 2007 05:34 PM
Maui Real Estate - Lisa B. Miller R(S)
Keller Williams Realty Maui - Kihei, HI
Too bad we cannot write lifelong Buyer Representation Agreements with our clients.  Unless we are meeting with them face-to-face on a regular basis reminding them that we are their go-to Realtor, this will happen.  Clients are just not always loyal for various reasons and we have to accept this, or even expect it.
Sep 27, 2007 06:12 PM
Lupe Soto-Realtor
Premier Realty Assoc - Los Angeles, CA
Listing, Selling Burbank, San Fernando Valley LA

 

things happen for a reason, i am so glad you took the necessary steps to improve your monthly newsletters.  i am going to improve it too. thanks for sharing this experience with us.

Sep 27, 2007 07:23 PM
Bobby Carroll
Jaclyn Smith Properties - Clayton, NC
Clayton NC New Home Happiness Coordinator

Very good post and well deserving of a Gold Star! I applaud your positive attitude too. When these situations happen, it's a good thing to pause and reevaluate your client follow up strategies. Are emails and newsletters enough? Consider these strategies to stay "connected" with past clients:

  1. Create a "Clients For Life" offer/service. Past clients are given access to "free" notary services, copy services, fax services, free moving boxes (with your brand on the boxes), storage rental discounts, and whatever unique services that will offer value to an ongoing relationship with you. Add this offer to your website!
  2. Host a "Clients Appreciate Night Out at the Movies". Rent a theater and offer free popcorn and a "family-friendly" movie for all ages.
  3. Host/sponsor the neighborhood Yard Sale.
  4. Invite past clients to meet at your local coffee-shop every other Thursday morning for a "Real Estate Update Chat". Offer free scones or bagels. Bring your laptop just in case someone wants to "search for homes".
  5. Stay connected via the HOA meetings in your farm area
  6. When your buyers move-in, throw a block party and introduce the new homeowners to their neighbors.
  7. Condo buyers are great prospects to move up to single-family detached homes. Drip them area detached homes that might peek their interest.
  8. Offer a Free Home Improvement Consultation offer to your website. More people are living longer in their homes which means they desire to make their home more livable and make updates for greater enjoyment of their home.

Think of other creative strategies that demonstrate you are the expert and allows you to stay connected with past clients.

These ideas should help you stay connected.

Helping you succeed,

Bobby

Sep 28, 2007 12:04 AM
Diane Bell, Hilton Head Real Estate, Bluffton
Charter 1 Real Estate, Hilton Head, Bluffton, SC - Hilton Head Island, SC

Gosh,

I'm sorry that happened to you.  It's a good reminder that we all have to stay connected to our past customers/clients as much as possible. 

Sep 28, 2007 12:13 AM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate
Ouch, happened to me once. It was hard to be happy for them when they were telling me about their new house.
Sep 28, 2007 12:42 AM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

Temple: I'm not sure if it has happened to me yet but behind the scenes, it probably has. But unfortunately, despite whatever system you may have, it probably will happen again. No doubt we should try to minimize that.

Playing Devil's Advocate: Could it just be your past client? Just giving you a simple excuse of not wanting to bother you?

Thanks for sharing your experience. I think I too need to do a better job of keeping my name on the fore front of my clients. I think making quarterly phone calls could be a good thing on top of newsletters, emails, etc.

Sep 28, 2007 01:01 AM
Mike and Dawn Lewis
The Lewis Team at Keller Williams - San Diego, CA
The Lewis Team at Keller Williams in San Diego CA

Temple,

Thats code words for they just wanted to use another agent - this happens move on and find another client.

Mike Lewis

Sep 28, 2007 01:13 AM
Chuck Willman
Chuck Willman - Alpine, UT
NewHouseUtah.com
My oh my... the dagger to the heart... I feel your pain... yes, happens far too often. Thanks for the advice on how you handled it, Temple.
Sep 28, 2007 07:32 AM
Lisa Ryan
Callaway Henderson Sotheby's International Realty - Montgomery, NJ
Selling Princeton,West Windsor and Montgomery Town

Temple, that's why when anyone asks me if I'm busy I need to stop saying I'm running around like a chicken with its head off.  It's true, but I never want anyone to think I'm too busy to help them.  Thanks for your post!

Sep 28, 2007 07:51 AM
Stacey McCarthy
McCarthy Real Estate - Philadelphia, PA
@SmartGirlsOwn

I just changed the signature on my email from ""By the way, I am never too busy to help anyone you refer to me" to:


By the way, I'm never too busy to help you and anyone you refer to me.

Sep 28, 2007 02:14 PM
Gail Robinson
William Raveis Real Estate - Southport, CT
CRS, GRI, e-PRO Fairfield County, CT
Bobby, I just held a Client Appreciation BBQ last weekend.  It was a lot of fun and keeps them thinking of me.  In fact, I got a multi-family listing as a direct result of the event.
Sep 29, 2007 02:30 AM
Bobby Carroll
Jaclyn Smith Properties - Clayton, NC
Clayton NC New Home Happiness Coordinator
Gail - Client Appreciation events are a win-win and a good investment in your business! Congrats!
Sep 29, 2007 10:45 AM
Gail Robinson
William Raveis Real Estate - Southport, CT
CRS, GRI, e-PRO Fairfield County, CT

Thanks, Bobby, you've given some great suggestions.  I like your "Clients for Life" concept.  It's the way I operate, but I've never branded it like you have.  It's brilliant!

Sep 29, 2007 02:48 PM
Mana Tulberg
805 County Real Estate - Camarillo, CA
Real Estate Agent - Camarillo CA
Hay Temple, I know the feeling, we have both been there and know there is no one to blame but ourselves. Great post and congratulations for being featured.
Sep 30, 2007 08:22 AM